First, personal maturity
First of all, the reason why loneliness has become the normal state of universities is the maturity of one's mind and other aspects. We become mature and can live well without relying on others. We seldom share our inner world with others, and we are no longer as happy to share ourselves with friends as we were when we were young. As an adult, we will consciously hide our vulnerability and digest ourselves when we are sad, because we can't find anyone when we want to talk about ourselves, which is very sad and common. Many people will hide their loneliness in the crowd and under a smiling face, but their loneliness is only known to themselves.
Second, the activity trajectory is different.
Secondly, loneliness has become the norm in universities because different people have different trajectories and life directions, and no one is exactly the same as themselves, so no one can always accompany themselves. Simply put, you want to go to the library, and your friends want to go to the teaching building or other places. When you can't coordinate, you need to go alone. At this time, you are lonely. The library is so big, but we are so small. Loneliness often occupies our hearts at this time. We are eager for company, but we are ashamed to talk about it, because everyone has their own things to do and do.
Conclusion:
Loneliness has become the norm in universities, but loneliness is not terrible. Although I feel a little uncomfortable, it is not an incurable disease. We can take the initiative to stay with friends and actively resolve loneliness. It should be noted that moderate loneliness is reasonable, while extreme loneliness is unreasonable and abnormal. Love yourself more and treat loneliness as a friend who accompanies you occasionally.