The hardships of family background usually affect a person's life, and unfortunate people always use their lives to heal their childhood. This statement is too absolute.
In film and television dramas, the way writers use to whitewash villains is to be born in a family and live as villains when they are young. Dissatisfaction leads to the formation of some bad characters in the process of growing up, which is also an excuse for them to do bad things in adulthood.
Liu is the hero of this article. His family background can be described as super poverty. Because of poverty, originally happy families parted ways in the face of disaster.
In the face of life's problems, Liu's choice is to change his fate with knowledge and make up for the pain of his family birth with a kind heart.
Also let people know that if you treat the world well, time will slowly make up for the pain; On the contrary, if you look at the world maliciously, you will only fall into an infinite cycle of pain.
After my father died, my family was ruined.
Liu was born in a remote village in Guizhou from 65438 to 0988. Like other families in the village, Liu's family is not rich.
There are brothers and sisters above Liu, but their family has only one labor force like their father.
When Liu was very young, his father died soon because of his serious illness, leaving his wife and children worried about the future of himself and his family.
It is said that drinking cold water when people are unlucky will plug their teeth. Because Liu's mother couldn't accept the shock of her husband's death, plus the burden of life, all this fell on her.
Liu's mother suffers from indirect mental illness due to excessive mental stress. This disease will gradually make people lose their ability to take care of themselves, and when the time comes, six parents will deny it, which is very terrible.
At that time, Liu was still young. He thinks his younger brothers and sisters can still be their own umbrellas, but people are selfish.
At first, my brothers and sisters also helped to become the pillars of the family, but my mother's treatment expenses and living expenses at home made my brothers and sisters gradually breathless.
When Liu 1 1 was years old, his brothers and sisters left home without saying hello and never heard from him again.
Liu didn't complain when he mentioned his relatives' practices, because he could understand the feelings that his younger brother and sister were forced to do nothing at that time.
However, the departure of brothers and sisters also left a great psychological shadow on Liu, because his most trusted relatives left him one by one. Such a thing is fatal to anyone.
Originally a happy family, in just a few years, only Liu and his sick mother lived alone.
The children of poor families have been in charge for a long time, and the practical problems make Liu have to look at the world with adult thinking.
How to get along better with his mother is the biggest problem before Liu.
Re-read after failing the exam and go to college.
After a series of family changes, Liu was forced to learn to grow up, but his original name was not Liu.
He gave himself this name because he was a beautiful generation according to the family generation, while Xiangzi wanted to live in peace with his mother all his life.
Many people advised Liu to give up his studies and go out to work. Even if he earned less, he could barely make ends meet.
But Liu believes that knowledge is the only way to change fate. If he wants to improve his life and his mother's, he must keep on studying.
As a result, this child who has just entered the third grade of primary school has to do all the things at home, big and small, in addition to finishing the homework assigned by the teacher every day.
In such a remote mountain village, you can see Liu get up and do housework before dawn every day.
Although life has been so tiring, Liu was admitted to a key middle school with excellent results.
However, the tuition fee discouraged him and he could only choose a private middle school that was willing to waive tuition and miscellaneous fees.
After solving the tuition problem, his mother became Liu's biggest concern, because he was admitted to a middle school in the county, and his mother was in a poor mental state. How can she stay at home alone?
Liu made a bold move. He wants to go to school behind his mother's back
Because after entering middle school, she is about to face the pressure of entering the university, Liu can only use her spare time to pick up waste and do odd jobs.
Liu also contracted several acres of fertile land at home to the villagers, and every year he received food to make a living.
The cruelty of the college entrance examination is well known, and there will always be an imbalance between life and study. In the first year, Liu didn't get into college as expected.
Unwilling, Liu ran to the principal's office where he was studying and asked the principal to give him another chance to repeat.
At first, the headmaster didn't want to accept the child who couldn't afford the tuition, but Liu's move surprised him. The headmaster didn't expect that Liu actually knelt down and begged him to give himself another chance.
The boy had gold under his knee, and the headmaster was given another chance to enter school by this rough-living child, and Liu's tuition was exempted as usual.
This time, Liu did not let him down. After a year of re-reading, Liu successfully entered a university in Shandong and became one of the few local college students.
Teaching in my hometown and giving back to the society.
Liu decided to take his mother to Shandong to go to college, which also aroused strong concern from all walks of life.
Students carry their mothers with mental illness for thousands of miles to study, and they made headlines in major media for a time.
Many caring people were moved by Liu's filial piety and strength after learning about his experience. They are willing to lend a helping hand to the child to help him finish his four-year college studies.
However, all these help were rejected by Liu, who thought he still had the ability to make his mother live a good life through his hands.
During his four years in college, Liu actively participated in extracurricular activities and continued his studies. In his spare time, he took several part-time jobs.
What's more admirable is that after his economic independence, Liu enthusiastically helped his classmates introduce off-campus part-time jobs.
Four years later, Liu graduated from university as an outstanding graduate.
At that time, many companies in big cities extended an olive branch to this excellent student and offered generous remuneration, hoping that Liu could become their employee.
But Liu refused, and he chose to take his mother back to his hometown.
Because Liu feels that the educational resources in his hometown are too backward, he hopes to help more children like him go out of their hometown and embrace a bright future through his own efforts.
Now, Liu has become the vice principal of an experimental middle school in his hometown. In my spare time, I care about students' lives, help out-of-school children, and subsidize students who used to be like myself.
For the sake of the light in many children's hearts, Liu Cheng guided many children out of that not-so-rich hometown and had the opportunity to change their destiny.
In recent years, there is a saying that the internet is popular. Even if you are in a quagmire, don't forget to look up at the stars. Liu didn't have anything worth taking in the first half of his life.
However, he can make a perfect king of chips with his strong will.
And Liu's filial piety to his seriously ill mother always makes him worthy of respect by many people.
Dark clouds will eventually pass, and those who are late bloomers can finally welcome their own spring.