Only five steps.

First of all, it's just the stage of knowing.

How should two people get along when they first met? Its purpose is to get to know each other. Boys should remember this standard and don't think too much. Do it.

Generally speaking, after two or three chats, you will enter the stage of friends, so what boys need to do is to know the basic situation of girls, including: girls' hobbies, general personality, family members, occupation, age and so on. Of course, knowing the situation will avoid the one-stop mode.

Second, the friend stage.

When two people have some trust, they will enter the stage of friends. So what should a boy do when two people are friends? In fact, at this stage, boys don't have to chase girls deliberately. After all, they are just friends. Just getting along with girls as friends. The main purpose of this stage is to enhance the interaction between two people, further deepen understanding and strengthen interaction.

What boys need to do specifically is to treat girls as ordinary friends, occasionally invite girls to dinner, and occasionally chat with girls to express their affirmation.

Although boys can't show their love for women at this stage, they can show a kind of affirmation to girls.

For example, boys can say to girls: I think you are very nice and comfortable to get along with. This expression is a kind of frankness to the girl's personality. Just a little mention. Let girls know what you think of her, so that girls will have the confidence and motivation to continue to get along with you.

Third, the familiar stage.

Further than ordinary friends, the interaction between ordinary friends is just a daily chat, while the interaction between familiar friends is a heart-to-heart interaction. To put it bluntly, it is to talk to girls.

So how do boys communicate with girls? Talk to each other, this is a kind of spiritual sustenance, heart-to-heart behavior such as sharing your secrets, stories, love views and so on.

Mainly to let girls know you emotionally and let girls' emotions move for you. When you can have a heart-to-heart relationship with girls, then you will enter a state where there are more friends than lovers.

Fourth, the relationship between temperature and taste.

Generally, before formal love, there will be an ambiguous period, which we call the love internship period.

Since it is a love internship, it means that couples can do almost anything in advance, such as holding hands and hugging relatives.

Five, intimate relationship stage

After an affair, that is, after the internship, you can become a boyfriend and girlfriend smoothly.

The relationship between the two people is in place, and the boy only needs to find a suitable opportunity: give the girl a promise or directly upgrade the relationship to a close kiss, and break the relationship between the two people, and then he can successfully determine the relationship between the two people.