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I haven't graduated from junior high school yet. Have you graduated from college? It is still early.
One day at the beginning of the year, I suddenly hitched. I graduated from college 10! A flick of your finger.
Not long ago, I went back to Yangcheng to attend the 10 graduation reunion.
Counselors are still smiling like flowers, and the students are as kind and lovely as then. Tears welled up in his eyes as he spoke, and he seemed to have returned to the most innocent teenager.
Like the military parade, 10 is a big node. Looking back,
10 year, 30-year-old bear corrected himself.
10 years, four grandparents left;
10 years, two little lives, a brother and a younger brother, made out of nothing.
/kloc-what kind of experience is it to graduate in 0/0?
Like watching a movie, recall the cognitive changes in 10, and listen to the clock? The ring.
When I was a student, I watched my mother get up early and get greedy for twenty years. I cooked almost three meals by myself and never hired a nanny.
I thought it was normal when I was a child. Isn't every mother like this?
When the hostess, can only wave a white flag to surrender.
Choose fresh ingredients in the vegetable market every day, pay attention to which store has the highest cost performance and balanced catering;
Washing, drying, folding clothes, mopping the floor, cleaning the table and other housework, I have not left behind every day;
There are also rice, oil, salt and eggs, cleaning the bedding in each room, changing the wardrobe, cleaning the windows and washing the toilet. .....
Mom, how did you win all this easily? It's a god!
10 year, it is not easy to find that "Tao was unusual in those days".
Everything except reading is an upgrade.
Looking for someone, I used to think it was a natural thing, with deep feelings, and then treat each other as the whole world and try my best to be nice to TA.
As we all know, selecting people is a deep knowledge. If you can't choose well, you still want to have a safe haven, and minutes will become a stumbling block.
When I got married, I used to watch others' relaxed and calm transition, thinking that everything would be fine if I got the certificate.
As we all know, we don't open big books until we get married. It is not the union of two people, but the integration of two families. How to manage, how to keep fresh, and learn and grow every day.
With children, look at the older generation. It's as easy as a hen laying eggs, and I have to work hard the next day. Isn't this human instinct?
As we all know, a successful pregnancy is a blessing. High pressure and fast pace push white-collar workers into a corner.
Be the happiest pregnant mother 10 months.
As we all know, I worry about not eating enough nutrition from time to time. Worried that one day after B-ultrasound, the doctor said that he lacked arms and legs, and worried that the umbilical cord around his neck would affect the delivery, which was full of all kinds of worries and doubts.
Raising dolls, I thought it was just a pair of chopsticks at home. When I was a child, it seemed that my parents were too lazy to take care of me.
As we all know, having a baby is the first step in the long March.
Will it be backward,
When to start English enlightenment,
How not to yell or call it emotional guidance,
Will you make bad friends outside? ......
Invisible time and effort.
By the way, this is only when the child does not have a fever or a cold.
It is effortless to see others calm, and only by personal experience can you know how painful it is.
If I had known it was so difficult, would I have made the same choice?
People, go forward bravely.
In high school, Miss Meng loved her very much, and her composition was often praised.
Quoting classic literature is full of shining life truths, and the most important thing is to change people's hearts.
However, once the college entrance examination is over, I don't want to write that kind of article again.
Guilty.
Write the philosophy that what you get on paper is always shallow.
Write down the motto "Young people are easy to get old but difficult to learn",
Write the slogan "tempered",
Write the sadness of "full moon, sunny day and round moon" ...
It's just a test article under the routine.
Sometimes I wonder if the author of ancient poetry is "worried about adding new words"
After graduation, I can't read enough ancient poems backwards, but it's like opening a new window and seeing a completely different scenery.
"Snow is too late in spring, so it flies over the trees in the courtyard" naughty,
Heartbroken "The bright moon doesn't know how to leave sorrow and hate bitterness, and shines obliquely through the Pearl Lake",
The kindness of "but how much love there is in every inch of grass, and enjoy three rays of spring",
The ambition of "moss is as small as rice, but bloom is as peony" ...
Reading is no longer the same as chewing wax-I suddenly understand a lot.
How did you "don't know the taste" before?
-I only recited it when I was a student, lacking personal experience. I have little knowledge and experience, and I have read it, but I don't understand it.
After leaving school, I really have the mind to relax and feel the nuances of literary works.
In a few words, it is no longer a gorgeous rhetoric floating on paper, but a stone thrown into the lake, which arouses inner ripples and waves.
To put it simply, you can hear them laughing and crying from far away.
The name of the person who used to be an examination question on the examination paper is no longer just a name, but a life of flesh and blood, full of blood and tears, love and hate, hate and bitterness for most of his life.
They all say that a work is completely different when you watch it at the age of 10, 20 or 30.
Books are different, people are different.
Not only poetry and literature, but also history and many cliches, such as second comprehension and epiphany.
In the midsummer of 20 1 1, I finished reading seven books "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty" in the library like watching a drama, with a runny nose and tears.
In high school, the teacher said that we should cherish the feelings of our classmates. I didn't understand it before, but I did after graduation in 10.
When I was a child, I really wanted to take stray cats home to take care of them, but my parents refused. I can't understand it at the moment. 10 after graduation.
In TV series, the story of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the abbreviation of various parents. I used to hate it, but 10 learned it after graduation.
When I was in college, I saw the picture of taking a baby in Desperate Housewives. 10 after graduation, I finally got the message with a smile.
There are many roads, and personal experience has become a variety of rich footnotes.
Graduating with students' thinking inertia will be awkward at first.
When doing the problem, it is either right or wrong, and it is generous.
Out of school, the world is not black and white as previously thought, but a complex system.
what do you think? Why don't you just tell the truth? What's so complicated?
However, with the rapid development of the Internet, ordinary people still can't get the first-hand details quickly and accurately, except those who visit.
Chongqing bus crashed into the river. At first, netizens swarmed, and the saliva almost drowned the female driver.
Because the report is one-sided, they all blame the female driver who is facing the bus for not driving.
As a result, many media hit themselves in the face.
The female driver is not the perpetrator, but also the victim-her driving was damaged by a bus.
Even the reporter of the uncrowned king can't guarantee to present the truth to us.
Which is true and which is false?
Under the demand of commercial bloggers, marketing is great.
Under the demand of shaping and maintaining the star image, the water army has sprung up everywhere.
In the shadow of human weakness, there is a small gap in the rules.
Under the invisible power game of all parties, there are also helpless choices.
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Face the world and see flowers in the fog.
Zhang Ailing said, "Life is a gorgeous robe full of lice".
Look, is this robe beautiful or ugly?
Even if you get the details of the facts, it looks right from different angles.
As the saying goes, it is difficult for an honest official to break housework when the public says that the public is right and the old woman says that the old woman is right. Isn't that right?
Standing at both ends of the scale, I dare not judge easily.
If you are not the top candidate in the college entrance examination, you will definitely prosper in the workplace.
If it weren't for the love in the city, we would have held hands for a hundred years.
If you are not a business wizard, you must not be an emotional love rat.
If it is not a controlled family, it is doomed to fail to cultivate successful children.
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Let go of the single-dimensional judgment and see the influence of comprehensive factors.
Open the book of life, which is intriguing. Just like old wine, the older it gets, the more fragrant it is, and it is worth tasting slowly.
Studying at school is hard, but the work is better.
The school is a playground model with clear rules and routes to play. If you follow the map, you will never get lost.
Society is a model of wilderness, and the map may be inaccurate because of the signal, and the rules need you to figure out.
Somewhere in the jungle, a small beast may jump out, which will make you unprepared and rack your brains to get it done.
In the wilderness mode, you are afraid and scared. I only hate the time in college that year, and I didn't suck enough water like a sponge.
I read a set of written theories at school and didn't understand until I stepped into the workplace. Oh, my God! It turns out that there are many abilities that "the school does not teach, but the society must use".
Communication skills, efficient tools, reading methods, intimacy, cognitive science, information analysis, verbal expression, business thinking, copywriting, target management, family finance. ..............................................................................................................................
Just like a hungry silkworm meets a mulberry leaf and greedily devours it, expecting to gain weight in one bite. 10 read more books every year than in the previous 20 years, and read books every 20 1 16 years.
I thought it was finally possible, but the radius of the unknown circle is getting bigger and bigger. ...
Knowledge is updated faster and faster. What I learned the year before last may be eliminated this year.
Dreamever and frontpage, which once helped me win awards, are now replaced by things I don't know;
Photoshop, which the university is proud of, has not won any stupid mito software on the mobile phone now;
Giants like Kodak and Nokia, who would have thought that glory was gone?
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10 years, the smart phone made out of nothing and completely captured everything in people's lives.
Parents born after 50 resisted smartphones from the beginning, and then secretly used them.
Under the torrent of society, even retired people dare not slow down, not to mention us post-80s and post-90s.
Lifelong learning must be an ability that our generation can't lose.
Always be a pupil and keep fighting!
At school, I look like a good girl. Do you study consciously?
Not exactly.
Although parents don't chase after them with whips, they are also the kind of children who are pushed away by the old man of time.
At any point in time, whatever the school asked, it was done.
At school, the habit time is arranged by others, just listen to the password and do the action.
Like firemen, we never think about what will happen in the long run.
/kloc-Graduation in 0/0 is a transition from "passive life" to "active life".
It turns out that we can take the initiative, hold the steering wheel and work hard for what we want.
Keep trying to change yourself and challenge the "I could have" that I was afraid of before.
Never know how to cook, go to a table to entertain friends,
From running 800 meters to running marathon, running 5 kilometers happily,
From hating fishbones to eating all kinds of fish,
From 30 years of incorrect pen holding posture to correct hand shape,
From fear of socializing to initiating sharing activities,
Never liked to speak on the stage,
I've never been on a self-help traveler's plane,
From admiring others to performing instrumental dances on the stage,
From WeChat official account to the submission and publication of books ......
Looking back, I wasn't so scared, I just magnified myself.
When they gradually become a reality, they have more confidence in themselves.
Life is not necessarily 100% on the desired track. But when you have a goal, you will unconsciously approach it.
Even if you turn a corner, you will see another village and board a new shore.
Walking in the exploration, you will experience a famous saying in psychology, "Know yourself, man".
Man is an inert animal. To change oneself, we need to contend with the primitive desire of the brain or conform to human nature in order to achieve our goal.
Even if the boss gives you a task you don't like, the attitude of "active life" is meaningful.
Choose to break it down into several parts.
Choose to do it in the morning, noon or evening.
Choose to do it while listening to music or standing. All the rights are yours.
Take the initiative in life and learn that I control my brain, not that I am controlled by my brain.
Have a sense of control in your hands and happiness in your heart.
Kites fly in the blue sky and fish jump in the blue waves.
At school, I used to be an extreme perfectionist. I must write beautifully and copy my notes correctly, even when I revise them, I feel ugly.
How can we always be satisfied when we set foot on the society and make rapid progress?
/kloc-after graduation in 0/0, I gradually learned to put it down quickly in the ups and downs of the roller coaster.
I can accept all the things that I was crazy about when I was a girl.
Is the heart old?
No, it's about "growth thinking".
Ancient Greek philosopher Epik Titus (ε π? κτητο? ) said:
"People are troubled not by things themselves, but by their views on things."
Growth thinking reshapes the view of things and becomes as elastic as a soft ball.
It advocates the belief that many things can be changed, including people's personality.
It advocates that it is no longer one-sided pursuit of showing achievements, but to see if it is better than before.
Seemingly positive, in addition to optimistic meaning, can also help people find the essence of action.
No longer proved to be the greatest mother
I won't break into a furious rage when my child is disobedient occasionally, but I will make continuous progress in my role as a mother.
No longer the perfect wife
-you don't want to examine and judge each other in every detail, but pursue the running-in and growth of two people in intimate relationships.
No longer prove that everything can be done overnight.
You won't be used to accusing yourself of being powerless, but you will find a personal management strategy that is more suitable for you than before in the pursuit of twists and turns.
I used to get stuck in my head when something happened, and I didn't want to turn around easily. I think so.
Now when something happens, it's like taking a prism, passing a beam of light, reflecting various angles and flashing rainbows and sunshine!
When you choose to rebuild your heart and work hard instead of pursuing a perfect life,
It will plant the seeds of sunshine and sprout more sweet hopes and longings in the monotonous and repeated boiled water days!
Spring and autumn change, morning and evening alternate.
Time has feet, running all the way.
Ten years have passed.
The ambition to grow up is engraved in my heart.
/kloc-Graduation in 0/0 is a history of my inner struggle.
In the big and small things in life,
Upgrade all the way to fight monsters;
In the process of growing up,
Read a lot of old truths;
Among these strange messages,
Understand the complex meaning of the world;
In the rapidly changing times,
Study as hard as a pupil;
With a positive attitude,
Try to design every day in your life;
Inspired by growth thinking,
Stop pursuing extreme perfectionism.
Keep time with words and draw strength with farewell.
/kloc-the feeling of 0/0 years, although not true,
May we find * * * Ming,
May young people find guidance,
Hope 10 years later,
Curiosity about the world travels through the solar system,
Meet a more vivid and interesting self!
Talk: How would you evaluate the past 10 years?
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