Speaking of your present situation, you are certainly right to ask for money. But there are many right things, and sometimes the right things are not wrong. It's certainly right to ask for money, because he took up your time and you did help him. But this will cause problems in implementation. It is tenable in theory, but it does not mean that it is well implemented.
But I think we must follow the national conditions. Yes, your charge is reasonable, but it always feels strange, don't you think? At least I've never seen anything like this. If you give a conscience price, one hour 50 yuan. Well, the other person may think you are not interesting enough: students ask a question for money, which is not interesting enough. You also feel bitter: say it yourself, 50 an hour is already very cheap, and the time is long, and your time is precious. I think that although many times we advocate the unification of one yard and one yard, can you really deny that these money exchanges have damaged the relationship between classmates? This is gonna be awkward. Because not many people can do this, people's reason and emotion are inseparable. Therefore, in general, the exchange of interests between universities is also very subtle. For example, if I give you a lecture, or do something for you, and you treat me to KFC, our relationship will be closer. This can not only give some benefits to the helper, but also avoid the damage of direct money to the relationship, and the whole process is relatively harmonious. If I tell you a topic all afternoon, you will give me 50 yuan as a "reward", which will make me embarrassed. However, long-term psychological counseling certainly needs a certain amount of remuneration, but this kind of remuneration can't be put forward naked in many cases, and it will be "not in line with the national conditions".
Of course, some people don't have the consciousness of "inviting you to dinner". In their view, the help between classmates is justified, and you can ask him for help without inviting him to dinner. On the contrary, when he asks you for help, he will hardly invite you to dinner, because that's his character. In fact, this is also an investment, a human investment. Such people usually attach great importance to feelings. Still more sincere.
But I really haven't seen anyone give money to my classmates, at least in China. Because many times, even if it is not harmonious on the surface, at least what we do should have a certain "human touch." Although it's right for you to ask for money, even from a human point of view, once you do this, it seems that you have broken some hidden rules. Because you are classmates after all, and you have to stay in this circle. As soon as the money is collected, so is Sakyamuni.
Ok, now, if you want 50 hours, and the other person is unhappy and you are unhappy, then you can put out the benefits naked and say that the other person will think that you will not come to work, and even the relationship will not get too close in the future. In this way, the other party feels embarrassed, because once you ask for money, it often means that the other party has brought you a burden and the other party may feel guilty.
Now the question comes, what should you do:
Of course, students should help each other, but you can't talk about topics everywhere. I think if I can be admitted to your school, my basic learning ability is not bad. If you look carefully, you can learn, and the school teachers have time to answer questions. He can ask the teacher, so can his classmates. You might as well tell him directly: you can finish reading the book first and ask questions if you don't understand. So he will study hard instead of relying on you to speak. In fact, many books are very clear. Especially high numbers. You can spend an hour a week talking with him and meeting him, so that his learning ability will be improved. You won't spend too much time. I think it's totally okay. Because reading is often a place where you get stuck first or don't know how to ask again. So you won't tell him every day, so I think the other person is also a lazy behavior.
As for the counselor, I think you should explain your interests. You should show that your time is precious, and you can only spare one or two hours a week to talk. You can talk to the counselor directly. If the counselor really helps them, the counselor can find students who are learning a lot better in the class, and everyone takes turns to help each other, so it will be beneficial to share equally. This is reasonable for you, too. So it won't take too long.