Of course, if you go to school with your classmates, it's best, and parents don't have to send you. After all, children have their own small groups that can take care of each other and will not be isolated. Parents don't have to worry too much about their children's safety and so on.
If the school is near, you can send it or not. Moreover, children can quickly open their own life circle in the new school, so don't worry too much.
It is not recommended to send. There is a school bus to pick up the children when you arrive, and contact the school before you leave. If parents don't let go, children will never grow up. ...
My Niu Niu was admitted to Shanghai four years ago. She wanted me to see her off before she left. On the one hand, I really can't ask for leave, on the other hand, I really want to exercise her. So I said to her, "mom won't see you off, I'll give you the money saved." When you get to Shanghai, buy yourself something more. " She agreed ...
School is about to start. I bought her a plane ticket and took her to the airport. She didn't speak all the way, and I knew she was scared. No one has ever been out of town. This time she ran so far, she must be very entangled in her heart ... but she didn't cry all the way, and I am looking forward to seeing her off. I don't want her to look back. As a result, at the moment she entered, she slowly turned around and called out "Mom", and my tears suddenly flowed out.
Five hours later, she called me and said that she had arrived at Shanghai Hongqiao Airport and met the teacher who picked me up, which reassured me.
In the evening, she called me again and told me about her day at school. She paid the tuition by herself, then got the key to the dormitory, went to the school accommodation management office with her classmates to buy uniform bedding, and went out with her classmates to buy some daily necessities ... There was an indescribable excitement in her voice. ...
Finally, she said to me, "Mom, you don't know that there are eight people in our dormitory who can sleep in bunk beds. Except that it's not from my mother, the other seven are from my mother! Their mother helps pay the tuition, wash clothes, cook and even make the bed. I am the only one, and everything is my own. Other aunts praised me for my ability ... "
After listening to her words, I felt a little guilty, but I still told her, "Look, your mother didn't send you away. You are satisfied ... other people's children are all helped by their mothers. Only my Kiki is the most capable and can do anything by herself! " ……
After all, children have to go their own way, and we can't replace them a little. It is better to let them go early and let them adapt to society and environment.
The more we work, the less children learn. When one day he needs to face it himself, will the child resent us for our "dedication"?
In fact, now that children are going to college, 80% of parents will choose to send them if economic conditions permit and time is sufficient.
On the one hand, when children are going to a strange city and an unfamiliar environment, their parents have too much concern and too much disappointment for their first trip. Trust the children again, I want to send them to school in person, and I feel at ease. Especially for girls, parents are not at ease. If they can send it, they must send it. My colleague's children went to Qinghai University to study. Although their parents are very busy, they just make time to report with their children. Only after making the arrangements did they feel at ease to come back. Otherwise, children go to school alone, and parents are not at ease at home.
On the other hand, all the conditions are good now, and it is normal for the whole family to travel. On the occasion of sending children to college, family outing can not only enjoy the fun with children, but also feel the atmosphere of college. It is also a matter of killing two birds with one stone. Because children go to school in different places, many parents have the opportunity to travel to the local area.
In addition, children have to bring a lot of luggage to school, some have to get off the bus, and they have to take the train or even catch the plane. If parents have time to give them a ride, they can help them.
Of course, this issue is also relative. Now, the transportation is convenient and the communication is developed. If the child is self-reliant, parents can rest assured that they don't have to send it. However, be sure to tell your child what to pay attention to during the trip and contact your parents in time. It would be better if there were classmates to go with.
If your family has money, it is no problem to take a special plane to escort. Because I have no money, my children go to school by train.
Should parents send their children to college? First of all, the family has formed the concept of sending them to college or not. Every family is different. If you want to send it, send it. If you think you don't want to send it, then don't send it. Family members form a kind of knowledge. In fact, many families have no chance to send their children to college. The family travels abroad, and then the children go to college to send their children to college. It is actually a wonderful experience for a family to take a parent-child tour and then send their children to school. Secondly, don't send it for the purpose of cultivating children. A child's 1 trip is a good opportunity to exercise him. You can discuss the route to college with your child. How to buy a car? How to get there? We can even go together. The partners here are all classmates who went to college with their children, and their friends are ok. This is a good training for children's ability to be independent, to communicate with others, and even to go out alone.
I think it is a feeling to send children to college, whether it is in this province, across provinces or at home.
When children face a new environment and a new stage of life, just like the college entrance examination, at an important moment in your life, parents will put down their work and wait for you at the door. There are not many such opportunities. As children grow up and step into society, they become more and more independent. Parents can accompany their children, and there are fewer and fewer opportunities to participate in their children's life events. How precious!
In a blink of an eye, the college entrance examination has passed for more than two months, and the new semester is about to begin. As a college student, you can feel the festive atmosphere at the beginning of the autumn semester every year. Bustling new faces, with curiosity and expectation.
However, freshmen today are very different from those ten years ago. Many of them have traveled during middle school, and there are also many brothers and sisters of college students around them. They are not so strange and shy about the university. I have met many freshmen. I haven't been to school for two days, and the internet bar outside the school gate has been cleared, or I can change into sports equipment and find a court to play. Generally speaking, freshmen don't need parents to send them away. They packed their bags, made cards and paid for them. They feel that they can't even show their reluctance, just like a bird out of its cage. Therefore, it doesn't matter if parents can't leave and can't deliver it in person. It is also a baptism for children to go to school alone.
From now on, if parents have the conditions, I personally recommend it. On the one hand, it can give children a sense of ceremony and let them enter a new stage psychologically; On the other hand, after coming, it's best to communicate with the counselor face to face, establish some contacts (you don't have to ask for dinner, you are very busy when you report, even if you ask, you won't go), just add a WeChat, and ask the child if you have nothing to do.
If you can, leave a few days in advance and play with your children all the way. Well, the main reason is that such opportunities are estimated to be less and less in the future. Once they go to college, the children really fly away.
Send or not, according to the actual situation! I have lived on campus since I was a child, and my parents are not very concerned about my academic problems, so I go everywhere alone and get used to this solitary life. At the same time, the family environment is not good, and my parents are not willing to spend money to accompany me to school. If economic conditions permit, I will definitely show them around my university campus. Besides, I don't want my parents to run around for this. They have worked hard enough for me, and I don't want to make them tired. There are only two reasons why children usually go to college to send their children to school.
The first is that children's self-reliance ability is relatively poor. Some children don't live in school from primary school to college, and suddenly they have to go to college far from home. Such a child is difficult to adapt to for a while. I've felt the same way. I'm not very homesick. I just moved to a new place suddenly, and it is difficult to adapt to life for the time being. We all feel this way. In this case, parents will send their children to school, accompany them around the campus, get familiar with the environment and roommates, and then encourage them to stand on their own feet. The children will stick to it and gradually stand on their own feet. Parents can rest assured of their children. Children always have to go through big waves alone. We must let them learn to face problems alone. Birds don't grow up unless they meet strong winds.
The second is that the child has been admitted to the university, and the whole family is very happy to read it. Go to college with your children and learn about their college life. If conditions permit, I mind parents taking their children to college. Children don't care about your money. What they really care about is your company, your encouragement and affirmation.
If I have children, I will definitely go to college with him. I will share my college life with my children and tell them how to spend it. What about you?
My daughter is leaving me to go to college. Should I send her? If I am sad in my heart and don't send it, I will definitely be more sad. There may be anxiety for a long time. Why do I hesitate to send it? It's too far, so you should send more if it's too far? Seek advice and answers ...