If you didn't know their family situation, would you really do it for them? I am very happy to live a life full of ceremonies. After all, it is the teacher's pleasure that my students can live a high-quality life. However, when we know that their sneakers may be parents' living expenses for one month; When we learned that one of their steaks had eaten up dad's food expenses for a month; Can I be happy when we know that the tickets for Zhang Mingxing concert are their parents' salary for one month?
Life needs a sense of ceremony. It is human nature to pursue high-quality life, but it is by no means ahead of consumption, isn't it? Spend tomorrow's money to fulfill today's dream? . Classmate, you haven't earned any money, have you? Behind the exquisiteness is the embarrassment of our parents sweating. When you used your parents' hard-earned money to sing "Mother by Candlelight" and "My Old Father" in KTV, did you ever think about how much sweat your parents had to pay for this night's consumption? When you consume steak and coffee in high-end restaurants, has it ever occurred to you that your parents bargain with the vegetable seller for 50 cents in the vegetable market? When you travel around, send photos, see the beautiful scenery and sigh? Years are quiet? Have you ever thought that your parents in your hometown are all for you? Carry a load? ?
Behind the exquisite life are those profligate youths. How many students will not hesitate to buy a mobile phone? Naked loan? Even selling kidneys and eggs; How many students spend a month eating steamed bread and instant noodles in order to buy high-grade cosmetics and brand-name bags? Dear students, it is cool when you show off in front of others, and the bright life in your circle of friends is also enviable. However, is the effort and cost behind this really worth it? Today's circle of friends seems to be a stage for performance. Even if life is a mess, show your best in your circle of friends. We spare no effort to dress up and perform. We are alive, more like being seen by others. The circle of friends is like our gorgeous coat, wrapping ourselves gracefully. But no matter how exquisite the coat is, it will always be just a coat, so we still return to reality.
A truly exquisite life does not necessarily require brand-name bags, western-style red wine, high-grade cosmetics and brand-name sports shoes, nor does it necessarily require running around idolizing, being truly exquisite and focusing on the inside. It's not the luxury of swaggering around the city, but to really confirm yourself from the heart, understand your value and not lose yourself. Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said: Take a bath, look at flowers and have a meal. If you feel happy, it's not all because the bath is clean, the bloom is good, or the food is to your taste, mainly because your heart doesn't get in the way. ? So please their attitude towards life wholeheartedly, in fact? The original intention of exquisite life. What should I do if I can't afford to drink high-end red wine and go to a high-end hotel? Putting a flower, lighting a candle and laying a clean tablecloth is also a delicate and ceremonial life; Look down on the concert, so what if you can't travel? Isn't it simple happiness to make a cup of tea, open a book and purify your mind once?
Do we have the ability to live our own lives instead of showing them to others? Exquisite of course, life can have some sense of ceremony, but there is no need to make others like us, right? Exquisite and performance, consumption is beyond our ability, beyond the tolerance of parents. Students, what do you have now? Exquisiteness is the pursuit of ideals and beliefs, and it is the forbearance and restraint in the ordinary. Does life really need so much? Pseudo-exquisite? , not that much? A sense of ceremony? .