Be sure to find someone you really like to fall in love with. Don't look at the people around you just because you are lonely and bored, you should find one yourself, so you will be unhappy in love.
What is the purpose of dating? Two people are happier together than one person. If two people are relatively silent, they will always look at each other and eventually feel bored. Do you know how terrible this is? What you feel with your partner is not lightness and beauty, but pressure and regret.
Your stubbornness can sometimes be your happiness.
You are different from others. It's not scary at all. Everyone around you likes to be good-looking and rich, and only you like to study hard, be smart and be practical. There is nothing to be ashamed of.
What kind of person you like is the accumulation of your growth over the years, your living environment, your reading experience, and so on. What you want is what you need. You know best what kind of person is best for you and what kind of person you will be most satisfied and happy with.
A sentence of "for your own good" may be a kind of mental rape.
Have you ever heard of such a person? He's a little controlling. He asks you to modify your original wishes and behaviors according to his wishes. He explained the reason to you. He makes you think, well, maybe it's right to listen to him. What he said is really good and good for me.
You like to eat some sweets after dinner. He said don't eat if you gain weight, for your own good.
You like to wear light makeup when you go out. He said it's bad for your skin, but it's good for you.
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Then, it is because of these little habits that you are unique now. You have lost these unique little habits. Who are you?
Yes, you are just this man's girlfriend. A girlfriend who fits his imagination completely, just like a personal tailor.
4. Girls should not be too active, but don't be afraid to take the initiative.
In fact, many boys in college are quite shy. Boys are so proud that they are really afraid of rejection, while girls feel that they can't take the initiative to be reserved and embarrassed to approach the boys they like, so many good boys have never had girlfriends, and many good girls don't have boyfriends. As a result, both sides were wronged.
This is completely unnecessary, just remember: approaching is not equal to chasing, and attracting is not equal to taking.
As a girl, there is nothing shameful about taking the initiative to meet a boy. After contact, in the process of getting along, you regard this as a process of releasing charm.
What you have to do is not to pursue a boy, but to express to him through getting along: I think you are not bad, you can try to pursue me.