1, with strong autonomy. On the issue of love, female college students have outstanding personality, emotional impulse and are not limited by traditional customs. They generally don't ask their parents' opinions before or even after the relationship is established.
2. The motive of love is simplified. Many college students don't think too much about whether they can be together in the future, and they don't consciously realize that they should choose a lifelong partner. They value the process of love and despise the result of love. They fall in love because they need to love and be loved, mostly out of instinctive love and attraction. "They don't want to last forever, they just want to have it." It is the general psychology of college students. There are also some college students who fall in love out of conformity or vanity, and regard love as a means to enrich their after-school life, relieve loneliness and fill emptiness. It can be seen from these that college students' love psychology is not mature enough. Lack of deep understanding of feelings.
3. Self-control and frustration resistance are weak. Once in love, female college students are not always good at controlling their emotions, letting them indulge at will, lacking rational control ability, relying too much on the object of love, and suffering a little twists and turns. Once love is frustrated, it will be out of control and unable to extricate itself, which will have a serious impact on learning. Due to the lack of mature experience in getting along, many college students can't accommodate each other and deal with all kinds of problems encountered in the process of love calmly and rationally. It can be seen that it is an urgent problem for college students in love to learn and face rationally to straighten out the relationship between study and love and correctly handle the problems encountered in love.
4. Love is immature and unstable. At present, college students' love is younger and the number is on the rise. People begin to fall in love in the first grade, which is not an isolated phenomenon. Some students even fall in love as soon as they enter school. These junior students, because of their shallow social experience and simple thoughts, many students don't have a clear concept of their life goals and needs, which leads to their simplicity, naivety and immaturity in treating love. In terms of mate selection criteria, appearance is often emphasized, while internal factors are ignored. In the way of love, the form is often emphasized, while the content is ignored. In love behavior, the process is often emphasized and the result is ignored; Value pleasure over responsibility. This kind of immaturity in love, coupled with their economic independence during school, changeable feelings and ideas in the process of love, and lack of ability to properly handle emotional entanglements in love, can easily lead to periodic interruption of love, or uncertain choice of love objects, and the success rate of love is very low.
5. On the issue of lovelorn, most college students can treat it rationally and get through this psychological dark period safely. Most college students treat lovelorn love through "talking to friends" or "rational thinking", taking a tolerant attitude towards themselves and each other and respecting each other's choices. But there are still some students who can't get rid of the "emotional crisis", some lose confidence and give up the pursuit of love; Some are devastated and give up on themselves, thinking that everything has lost its meaning; Some regard each other as enemies, wantonly vilify each other, and even make extreme behaviors that hurt each other. Therefore, college students need to know some common sense of love and learn to face their emotional problems with a mature attitude.
6. The concept of love is open and the traditional morality is diluted. With the development of the times, the love concept of contemporary college students is increasingly open, and the traditional moral concept is gradually diluted. With the continuous expansion of the scope of opening to the outside world, the prevalence and exaggeration of various news media and online literature, contemporary college students' love concept tends to be open and bold, unwilling to accept the shackles of traditional concepts, and the way of love is open. Under the passion of love, some college students even show too much intimacy in public places and public places. Many college students can't correctly handle the relationship between feelings and sex, and can't treat their emotional problems rationally and maturely. They just want to enjoy the sweetness of love, ignoring the responsibility behind love, which leads to a series of problems.
The above is an introduction to the characteristics of college students' love view.