Although it is incredible that our children don't attend interest classes now, how to choose remedial classes is puzzling many parents. Every parent wants his children to have a better life, a higher realm and yearning, but many parents are confused and anxious about what to learn, when to learn and how to learn.
This book is divided into two parts: artistic enlightenment (including musical instruments and painting and dancing) and physical enlightenment, covering almost all the existing interest classes in society.
Through reading, combining the experience of teachers or coaches, and reviewing by students and parents, I think there are many places in the interest class that I haven't noticed before.
First, the so-called interest class must be based on the interests of children.
The excellent students selected in the book have a strong interest in the subjects they have studied, and some children are even fascinated. Interest is the best teacher, and children will never get tired of what they like to do. A note will be played hundreds of times, and an action will be repeated for several months. Even if you encounter difficulties, you can persist and not shrink back. Otherwise, children obviously like football, but parents naturally want their children to learn piano. Presumably, children will find it a torment to practice the piano every time.
Second, choosing a good teacher is more important than a good institution.
Throughout the book, many experts or teachers think it is more important to choose a good teacher, because teachers will directly teach children and influence them. The so-called good teacher is not only professional, but also has the excellent quality of educating children, patience, love and responsibility. Learning any skill requires hard work and sweat, and you will encounter various difficulties and bottlenecks in the learning process. At this time, teachers need to effectively guide and encourage their children, communicate well with them, and help them overcome difficulties and forge ahead.
Third, parents should help their children, choose what I love and love what I choose.
Faced with many interest classes, parents often spend a lot of time watching this one is good and that one is cool, and they don't know what to choose. In fact, parents should relax their mentality, let go of excessive utilitarianism (which is helpful for further studies), pay more attention to their children's interests, and choose interest classes according to their preferences and choices, so that hobbies can become a skill and a friend who can accompany their children for life.
Any kind of study will go through a boring period. At this time, parents should not only encourage their children, but also find ways to help them overcome difficulties, and sometimes they need persistence. Children's nature is to play. When love becomes less pleasant or even painful, escape is an instinctive reaction. At this time, parents should settle down. Now that you have chosen, you should stick to it. Parents should understand that no matter on the way to school or doing other things, they should not give up easily, otherwise they will get nothing in this life. Only by overcoming difficulties can children grow up and gain unprecedented sense of accomplishment and self-confidence, thus turning difficulties into motivation to continue learning.
Interest classes are not about watching other children learn and worrying that their children will lose at the starting line, but continuing to carry forward a child's hobby and becoming a thing that can make children happy and accompany them for life.