Compared with boys, girls' minds are mostly delicate and thoughtful.
If everyone in a dormitory has a good personality, they may get along more harmoniously.
However, if someone in the dormitory has a bad temper, contradictions are inevitable. For example, some people have bad hygiene habits, snore while sleeping, and borrow money without paying it back, which are easy to cause conflicts. Even some girls are isolated by roommates because they are too good.
There are 6 people in a dormitory and 5 WeChat groups, which may have exaggerated elements, but it can also reflect the complexity of the relationship between girls, far from being as harmonious as it seems.
I think there must be dormitories with good relations and bad relations, but most of them should be neither bad nor bad, contradictory, but tolerable, at least seemingly harmonious.
I don't think it is necessary to spend time thinking about this problem, because everyone has his own personality and many hobbies and interests. Some aspects can be discussed with these people, and some aspects can be discussed with them. It is normal to find different groups in different problems and aspects. Don't complicate such problems, and interpersonal relationships will be simple and harmonious. Be yourself, don't speculate about others, everyone will relax and focus more on learning and doing useful things.
Before I went to college, I always saw all kinds of comments, saying that the relationship between university dormitories was very complicated, and everyone was doing their own thing, ignoring each other and scheming. In addition, because I always see some murders, poisoning cases in Fudan University, Ma Jiajue incident, etc. I was particularly scared at that time. I forwarded some remarks in my circle of friends all day, thanking my roommates for not killing.
When I really went to college, I found that it was not so terrible. We slept four times, from different places. It must be awkward at first, but after getting along slowly, I found that everyone is actually very easy to get along with, and I didn't care so much, but it is inevitable that there will be uncomfortable places when getting along, but it has not reached the point of quarreling, and the most is to spit behind my back.
We are all teenage college students. Being happy in the dormitory is of course the most important thing. You don't have to guard against this and that all day, which makes everyone unhappy. Moreover, I found that most dorms actually get along well. Everyone will barbecue together on weekends and travel together on holidays. University is the dormitory culture, and the class consciousness is weak, so the dormitory relationship is very important. If you feel that everyone is isolating you, you should reflect on your own problems.
Six people and five WeChat groups sound particularly exaggerated, but in fact there are quite a few such things, and there are several such examples around me. Girls fight like boys, and then it's time to talk about the quarrel. This sensitive nature of girls determines that girls' quarrel is a knot in their heart, not a quarrel, but will become more and more serious.
Several friends (girls) around me have a particularly big contradiction in the dormitory, as big as six people and five groups. Basically, they quarreled for three days and quarreled for five days, but they still lived together. Nobody wants to move out. In fact, they make noise every day because of a very small thing, and they all feel boring, but there are always one or two troublemakers in the dormitory who want to make a splash in ordinary life because they can't hide from others. They all went to study in the distance. Since fate is arranged in a dormitory, there are so many incongruities every day, which shows that the jealousy of girls is at work. Don't underestimate the jealousy of girls, which is better than being right everywhere and being lonely everywhere.
The relationship between girls is simple and complex. In college, roommates may come from all over the country, and everyone's customs are different. Be tolerant of everything, don't haggle over every ounce. There is no deep hatred between two people, so water and fire are incompatible. When you look back at what you have done when you are older, you will feel naive. The friendship during school is simple and beautiful, which will never be forgotten. There are so many wonderful things to do, why bother about boring little things?
Friends walk together all their lives,
Those days are over,
A glass of wine, a lifetime of love, a lifetime.
May everyone gain a sincere feeling.
May all people be bathed in the sunshine of friendship
1, ¦Ð2 Yan Yu Di is not a student of Tsinghua University. Yan didn't say which university she was admitted to, but now she is a dentist with good professi