Some people explain these three words like this: reunion after a long separation, the starting point is meeting, the runway is chasing each other, and the end point is meeting. Take it back, there is a process, and it has been determined to lose. You don't know if it will come back, and your heart is as white as ashes. Suddenly one day, it appears in front of you. And a false alarm will let you know what loss is.
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A few days ago, I went to the shopping center with a friend to discuss business. The boss is a very kind sister. Because I do related business, I talk more. When exchanging business cards, the boss stares at a friend's business card and calls out his nickname.
It turns out that she is a friend's mother's hair. They got married separately in the late 1980s. In the early years, the elderly of the previous generation were still there, and everyone occasionally took their children home. Gradually, because I am in two cities, my communication technology is not as good as it is now, and I am not good at letter expression, so I have no choice but to break contact. Therefore, I haven't seen each other for almost twenty years.
Later, they spoke by phone. At this time, the two old people are over 500 years old and their children have married. My friend's mother has a lot to say on the phone, but she doesn't know where to start. She looks very emotional, but she is afraid of being too emotional. She hung up the phone, fearing that the thin voice could not convey her thoughts.
A friend received a message from his mother: Thank you, son. You helped me find my best friend. This is the happiest thing for me in recent years.
Some people say that every encounter in life is a reunion after a long separation, so what kind of encounter should this life be? After many years, when I saw you again, I was already a parent. Maybe time can really take away a lot of things and change a lot of things, but the warmth that lingers in my heart remains the same.
The poem says: After parting, remember to meet each other and dream of being with you several times. There is a silver plaque left tonight, and I still fear that meeting is a dream, and I am earnest.
I always think that the best thing in life is meeting. Later, I learned that what is rare is reunion. Saying that we will never be apart is mostly an impulse when I was a child. After all, we will face the sea of life in our respective journeys. The starting point of this life is to meet, and then at a certain intersection, if you are lucky, you will eventually meet.
There is a line in "Your Name": On the day that is far away from now, we agreed to meet again. I know. I will find you.
If we meet again after such a long separation, I hope you are all right.
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The word "recovery" is a good description in most cases.
For us, the lack of life is actually a very normal thing, goods, money, love, friendship. Maybe we lost something and it was picked up by a kind person. Maybe we met in the sea of people after some unsolved misunderstandings and lover's mistakes.
At these moments, we are often grateful and even suspect that this is a gift from heaven.
Eason Chan has a song called "Best Bad Friends", which was written by Huang Weiwen. This song is about his friendship with Miriam Yeung.
Someone commented: This song always makes me imagine a picture. The two met in the bustling crowd and were staggered by the crowd. One of them raised his hand excitedly and pretended to touch the back of his head embarrassedly. The other man smiled and said he understood, so he turned and walked into the crowd. Thinking about it, I don't know when I will see it again. You don't know if it will come back, and your heart is as white as ashes. Suddenly one day, it appears in front of you.
At that time, he was a close friend in the circle, and he would give all the good lyrics he wrote, such as Yong, but unfortunately I am Aquarius and Wild Child. He also appeared in the movies Undercover in Love, herself and ganci agni to help her play a supporting role.
Later, for some reason, they became strangers, so strange that they turned their backs on a stage and pretended to turn a blind eye.
We don't know the story between two people, but we only know that Miriam Yeung's songs haven't had Huang Weiwen's name for more than ten years.
Until 20 12, at the exhibition in Huang Weiwen, pregnant Miriam Yeung slowly appeared from the lifting platform, and Huang Weiwen appeared with a stroller, and they had a "century hug". People always say that without Miriam Yeung, Huang Weiwen's works are like something missing.
Fortunately, the prelude of "Best Bad Friend" sounded and the audience understood it. Then, at the concert in Miriam Yeung, Huang Weiwen appeared, holding Huang Weiwen in her arms and crying. The wild characters finally reconciled on the road of life.
Those recovered treasures are always full of unspeakable apologies and slightly sad joy, so when hugging, they are careful but extra hard.
Huang Weiwen later wrote "The Best Debt", saying: I only hope that I can put this life behind me and remember that the world I share with you, and you are the best debt with me.
But not everything can be saved, and no one can always have such good luck. Life is a long unknown and unpredictable. Instead, "the stranger in Japan was the closest XXX yesterday."
A long life will inevitably be lost, but those missing things will always look at the forgotten parts of the past years. The former indifference turned into the previous appeal and had to be taken back inadvertently.
When people experience this roller coaster-like ups and downs, they often feel sorry for their persistence, for the care of the gods, and gratitude will breed beauty.
It is precisely because of this that being recovered sounds so beautiful.
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A netizen on Zhihu told such a story:
September 5, 20 16, I was just a senior and endorsed in the corridor outside the postgraduate entrance examination classroom. Because I want to change my major to graduate school, I want to be like a goddess who fills the sky. Can I get the exemption quota? Can you pass the interview? Can't pass the postgraduate entrance examination? Everything about tomorrow is at a loss.
Just when I wanted to go back to the classroom, I received a new email from the Chinese University of Hong Kong, which began with "Thank you". If it is an admission notice, the title is usually simple and rude "Congratulations". There is no doubt that it was rejected. Although it is summer vacation, a newspaper that has been built and not built can be rejected or attacked, especially at this time of loss.
I did psychological construction in my seat for a long time before I clicked on the full text of the email. Looking at it, I found something wrong. My application status is "successful"?
I have been studying Chinese in Hong Kong for half a year now. Later, I learned that Xiaomi's habit in college is to write "thank you" at the beginning of each reply. A false alarm became a turning point in my life. Perhaps a lot of gifts given to you by fate are wrapped in wrapping paper that wants to rise first and then suppress.
One day, you suddenly woke up and found that the alarm clock didn't go off, thinking that you overslept. When you pick up your mobile phone, you find it's still early, so you sigh and spread it out on the bed with relief. You rushed to the station with a big bag and a small bag, thinking that you would definitely miss the ticket check. When you find your place to sit down, your heart finally puts down. When you are waiting for the doctor's trial in the hospital ward, you finally know that you are healthy.
Han Han said that sometimes, the word "false alarm" is the most beautiful idiom in the world, which is a hundred times better than anything cheerful, colorful and smooth sailing. Do you know what loss means? These days, I feel even more so. May sadness and fear pass, and people outside know how to cherish it better.
The word false alarm often reminds us to cherish the status quo in a joking way. In this process, our heart often speeds up, we get depressed, we blame ourselves, and we assume that if we didn't, we wouldn't be like this now. And fate seems to hear your voice and give you a "false alarm".
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Socrates said that the most precious thing in the world is not "not getting" and "losing", but happiness that can be grasped now. Life is a long corridor of time, narrow and with no turning back. Even if there are regrets and sufferings, we have no chance to come again.
Some people are doomed to disappear in the sea of people, some things are wrong and cannot be redeemed, and some things are too long to start again. So reunion after a long separation, recovery and a false alarm will sound so beautiful.
After all, we are unpredictable fate. Only by grasping the present in a hurry can we pursue those people, things and things without long-term separation, loss and false alarm.
Maybe you already have the moon, the moon and the ocean, but you just can't see it. You won't think of it until you lose it. Maybe you always knew what you had, but you naively thought you would never lose it.
Zhang Xiaoxian wrote: Why do we never know how to cherish the people in front of us? In the foreseeable reunion in the future, we thought that there would always be a reunion and an opportunity to say sorry, but we never thought that every wave of goodbye might be a farewell, and every sigh might be the last sigh on earth.
I am full of mountains and rivers, and I am far away. I advise you to have pity on the person in front of you. Life is like this. When you are with people around you, hug hard, try hard, and be more sincere and persistent when you encounter things. When drinking tea, you should cook it well; When you are in love, love desperately and don't have other thoughts. This is the meaning of the moment.
At the end of the movie Search, Ye Qiulan said what she wants to do most now: I want to live every hour, every minute, every second and every day.
Only in this way, when we meet again after a long separation, find it again and have a false alarm, will that feeling come more real, more open and more enthusiastic.