1, new environmental factors
For freshmen, their psychological state is always very tense, because they concentrate on their studies and prepare for the three-year high school exam. Suddenly, when you come into contact with a new environment, a new face and a new way of learning, it will be difficult to adapt.
2. Academic reasons
After arriving at the university, many students can't adapt to the teaching mode of the university, which leads to unsatisfactory grades. Unlike junior high school and senior high school, they can't accept the gap for a while, which leads to psychological problems.
3. Self-discipline behavior factors
The relaxation of time management directly leads to the self-discipline of personal behavior out of control, and students who are addicted to online games abound. The longer the time, the greater the gap between myself and other students who have completed their studies normally. Loneliness is also gradually formed, gradually lacking self-discipline and becoming more depraved and lonely.
4. Lack of experience in dealing with tense interpersonal relationships.
Many university dormitories are composed of 4-8 people, who come from all corners of the country and have some differences in personality. So in daily life, collision and friction are inevitable. However, for college students who have just entered the campus, there is still a lack of guidance and help in dealing with these frictions. Once it is not handled well, the relationship between the two sides will not only be alienated, but also produce psychological obstacles, leading to a lonely psychological state.
Loneliness is usually manifested as "you feel that you don't understand others and no one understands you." You are eager to be close to others, but you are afraid of disappointment, so you would rather let loneliness devour you again and again. When you are lonely to the extreme, you will feel very tired and unable to get along with others. You feel out of place, you seem so close to them, but you feel so far away from them, talking less and thinking more and more. "This time is very difficult, but as long as you get through it, you can re-examine yourself. Talking to yourself, growing up in loneliness, every growth is carried out in loneliness.
Conclusion: Loneliness is not terrible. Even for some people, enjoying loneliness is a kind of enjoyment of life. Different stages have different interpretations and views on the word "loneliness". Therefore, only by facing up to this lonely psychological state can we understand it and overcome it.