Never get married and have children before you are mature, it will be very painful later. Most people, of course, a few people are happy, but the probability is too small. I have a classmate who got pregnant unexpectedly in junior year. To tell the truth, she is having a bad time now. She could have finished her studies well and ruined her future. In short, before getting married, you'd better put up with it. Let's study in the university, and you will gain more. Marriage is in the second stage. If there are no children, I suggest you observe for a period of time. After all, the boy has gone to work, but if you are still studying, it means that all the expenses after marriage are dominated by him. After marriage, it will be rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, not those in college. He may complain that you spend money like water, and you may feel that he doesn't earn enough. If you have a certain economic strength, step into social work and meet all kinds of people and things, you still think that the other person is worth spending a lifetime with you, and it is not too late to get married again. In fact, I think the advantages of getting married in college outweigh the disadvantages for future life planning, but there is a big premise that this marriage requires a lot of parents. After all, both young people have no income, but no one tells you how to solve the daily necessities of life. Getting married means forming a new family. Without the support of parents, the source of tuition and living expenses, all expenses before and after giving birth need to be borne by your parents. Nominally married, actually still attached to parents. Children are basically born to your parents, and you need their parents to help you take care of them and raise them.
But why do the advantages outweigh the disadvantages? In the final analysis, getting married in college requires parents to pay, which is a disadvantage.
The profit is much higher.
Compared with work, college is still the easiest time, and it will not delay study because of marriage and children. If you are delayed, it must be because of yourself. After all, how many people's universities are used for profligacy, and how much of their knowledge can be used outside society? So what's the impact on their studies? Which of the students who can't get the diploma and degree certificate in the end can't get it because of marriage?
Moreover, after graduation, there is no need to take marriage leave and maternity leave, and the child has passed the lactation period and does not need to accompany him all the time. At this time, you can basically concentrate on your work and work hard for your career, and enterprises will be more willing to have you. Such people are more stable than other graduates and will not leave their jobs easily.
When you reach middle age, your children have grown up, and you have savings at home, your life will begin to change from struggle to enjoyment, and you will go out on vacation regularly to relax.
In fact, such a life plan is also my ideal life, but the reality is that your university is still young, and few people can and are willing to undertake such responsibilities, and few parents can support you.