First, don't be obsessed with online games and online TV dramas.
? More time? This is the great difference between college and high school. If you have more time, you need to arrange, plan and manage your own time.
Your spare time determines the height of your life. Some people choose to watch network TV, play games and visit Taobao, but others choose to learn new things, constantly extricate themselves and renew themselves. As time went on, they went to two different lives.
Girls, don't let the computer become a DVD player and immerse yourself in a fictional life. Boy, don't let the computer become a game machine. Living upside down day and night will make you lose yourself. Open a book, you? Earn? The possibility is always great, open a web page, you may? Pay? Yesterday afternoon.
Harvard has a famous theory:? The difference between people lies in their spare time. Set aside two hours every morning or evening for reading, studying, thinking or participating in intentional speeches and discussions. You will find that your life is changing. Stick to it for a few years, and success will wave to you. ?
In fact, the difference between people is actually very small: 1, you are in bed and he is exercising, so he is healthier than you; 2. You are coping with the lecture, and he is studying hard, so he won the national inspirational scholarship; 3. You are finishing today's plan, and he is working hard for next year's plan, so he has a better future; You are looking for an excuse to stay in bed. He got up early to study in the Woods in the morning, so when he applied for the job, his fluent and standard British English shocked all the people present. You spent a lot of money on your parents. He has started to earn his own living, so his views on money must be different from yours. He is richer than you. 6. You are calculating your own interests, and he is considering the interests of the other party, so he is more connected than you.
Second, you must go to the library more often.
Universities must go to the library. There are not necessarily masters in the classroom, but there must be in the library. Universities are places to learn from masters.
When you graduate from college, you only need to look at your library card to judge how your university is to some extent. Look at the types of books borrowed by your library card, and to some extent, you can judge what you will develop in the future.
Don't believe it, son. It's true. The field of thought, if truth does not occupy it, will be overgrown with weeds.
There are two kinds of illiterates in the world: one is illiterate, and the other is illiterate with low IQ who only read newspapers, news, textbooks and superficial articles. If you don't read the brilliant thoughts in the sky of human wisdom, you will be tragically illiterate to some extent. I hope you go to college and will not be illiterate when you graduate.
Between heaven and earth, only humans can read. Reading is the most important path for everyone's spiritual growth! Universities will really lose a lot if they don't cultivate the habit of reading.
Third, be an early riser, sleep less and get up late.
The secret of foreign language learning is actually half an hour early every morning; Go to evening self-study 45 minutes after dinner. 75 minutes more every day, nearly 370 hours a year and nearly 1480 hours in four years. Water droplets will wear away stones.
I'm sorry, I'm a foreign language teacher, but the reason is the same from this morning.
The early bird catches the worm, but this is a big bug. I hope you can also use your courage to verify Harvard theory and witness the miracle, because? Work hard? This is another name for miracle!
Nan huaijin:? Whoever can control the morning can control the life. If a person can't even get up early, what do you expect him to do this day?
I said:? If a person can persist in getting up early all the year round, he will overcome an instinct of human beings-lazy cancer, control his own life, have a beautiful life and embrace happiness. ?
Why? Franklin said: I have never seen an early riser, diligent, cautious and honest person complaining about bad fate. ?
Getting up early is a requirement for yourself. This request comes from a humble and great wish that I may not know in my heart, that is, to change myself, improve myself and become a better self day by day.
Fourth, join the student union.
If possible, join the student union. You can meet more people, expand your social circle, expand your contacts, and exercise your ability of organization, planning, leadership, communication and execution.
What needs to be written in front is that college students are students, and their major is always the first. If universities don't have a good professional foundation, learning can't be conquered, let alone students' union.
5. Make a career plan as soon as possible.
Take advantage of the loose branches and ample time in the university to discover who you really are, what you like and what you want. The most tragic thing is that after graduation, you have to decide your future direction, but you still don't know anything, and you still take out the killer weapon when volunteering for the college entrance examination. My dad and my mom said? .
Many students don't start making life and career plans until their senior year. An active student should start planning his future when he enters the university.
How to do career planning? I remember a classmate talking at length about his career planning: what degree he will get in four years, what position he will take in seven years, promotion to manager in ten years, promotion to director in twelve years, vice president in sixteen years and CEO in twenty years.
Such a long-term plan is meaningless. If you want to make a plan, two steps are enough. 1: Set an exciting but pragmatic goal for two to three years. What is this? Step two? Maybe it's work, maybe it's graduate school, maybe it's going abroad. If consulting wants to achieve this goal, what is the first step? How can I get there? After that, I will be down-to-earth, flexible to complete the first step, to the second step, one's deceased father grind, go abroad.
Winter and summer vacation part-time
College students, winter and summer vacations, still like to stay at home? If you can make good use of the eight winter and summer vacations of the university to do various internships, experiences, teaching and experiences, what kind of experienced and colorful resume will you write when you graduate from your senior year?
Time is the fairest, everyone's day is 24 hours. Time is the easiest to get, but it is also the least cherished. Don't always feel young, it's too early to do anything. There's a saying? Remember when a teenager suddenly became bald on a wooden horse? . According to the Internet, time is the fairest resource. There can be 24 hours in a day. Wherever you water, brilliant flowers will grow. If you read one book a week, it will be 520 in ten years, and you can read hundreds. If you write 500 words every day, it will be 6.5438+0.8 million words in ten years, so you can write a book. You are in a daze every day, and you will become cute after ten years. You eat like crazy every day, and you'll gain weight in ten years.
We should make use of winter vacation, summer vacation and various holidays. Instead of washing dishes, it is better to do some internships related to your major, hobbies and future orientation.
6. Don't fall in love because of loneliness.
I think it is shameful for college students not to fall in love in college. Don't fall in love because of loneliness, and don't waste your university with so-called love just because you see that everyone in the dormitory is in love. For some boys, college is about chasing girls' history. For some girls, college is the history of one boy after another. But when you meet someone, you can promote each other. The best love is to be excellent with another person.
Seven, don't fail, you can skip class several times.
Do not fail. With the first time, there will be countless times.
Why did you skip class several times? If there is nothing more important than skipping classes in your university, it will be miserable enough.
Eight, diligent and self-disciplined!
Laziness is inherent in us, and we can learn it without learning. It is also important to overcome our lazy cancer by self-discipline, otherwise the university will be a wasteland. Roland said, don't be lazy! Laziness is a strange thing, which makes you think it is ease, rest and blessing; But it actually gives you boredom, burnout and depression; It deprives you of hope for the future, cuts off your friendship with others, and makes you more and more narrow-minded and suspicious of life. Work harder every day, don't think you are working hard, it's far from it!
Nine, form a series of good habits and make Excellence a habit!
Form a series of good habits, such as getting up early, reading, fitness, traveling and communicating with people. Excellent people are people with good habits.
A good habit of people is to deposit a sum of money in the bank. You can withdraw its interest at any time and enjoy it for a lifetime. A person's bad habit is like owing someone a usury, always paying it back, always unclear, and finally leading people astray.
The way to get rid of bad habits is to take them away first and then put them in. The second half is very important, because if only the bad ones are pulled out, the empty ones are actually very dangerous.
Ten, like your school.
Love your school, maybe it is not the first choice, but you can make it the best choice after four years. Love your school. If you can only use negative words to describe your school, it is not that the university abandoned you, but that you did not treat your university well.
No matter how good the university is, there are scum, and no matter how bad the university is, it can produce talents. It is not the university that determines your future, but no matter what kind of university and environment you are in, you should know what kind of person you want to be.
I like a passage on the internet very much, and I also send it to you: What is the significance of studying in college? First, learn to be a man (how to get along with people, how to deal with people, how to live freely); Second, learn to learn (learning methods, learning ability); The third is to enjoy life (experience the ups and downs of college life and appreciate life); Fourth, learn to look at problems from a long-term perspective (friends, setbacks, wealth, employment); The fifth is to learn self-discipline.