See such a seemingly reasonable sentence in an article:

"Look at a family's happiness index, don't look at his family's wealth, housing and power, whether the children's grades are good or not, and whether the husband works hard or not. Just look at it and you will know that the hostess of this family is happy and not moist. "

This sentence has a major premise, and the three views of the hostess must be correct. If women don't have a very correct world outlook and don't understand, then this home will be destroyed by Feng Shui.

We often say that the man is the head of the family, the "pillar" of the family, and the woman is the "wind vane" and "barometer" of the family, which is a good feng shui for a family. What direction a home will take is very important for the hostess's three views.

We can have a rich wife in marriage, but only if your wife deserves money, and not all women deserve to be treated gently by men.

Recently, I was chasing a TV series "Anjia", and I can better understand the importance of this.

Father is a very weak person, and Pan Guiyu is very strong and unreasonable. In the latest story, Fang and his mother Pan Guiyu completely broke up. I finally understand why Fang Jia is so down and out, and why men in Fang Jia have no skills, all because of Pan Guiyu.

My father, who is full of flowers, has been urging Pan Guiyu to love his daughter more. Don't push him so hard, at least let his daughter have a way out. However, Pan Guiyu said that "all the money she earned belongs to our family", but she was merciless and even coaxed money from Fang.

She lied to Fang Rujin that grandpa was seriously ill and needed money badly, but she took the liberty of saving money to decorate the house for her son. When Fang came back, he had a big fight with him and knocked down the table with anger. Pan Guiyu even said, "How can I have you?"

As a woman, I am really ashamed of a woman like Pan Guiyu, who is unworthy of being a mother and ignorant.

My father is an honest man. He has a gorgeous room. His ruin lies in marrying a strong woman with three incorrect views. She is the master of everything in the family, which also leads Pan Guiyu to only think about "finding" her daughter and never work hard by herself.

From the beginning, their road was crooked.

Marrying a woman like Pan Guiyu not only ruined three generations, but also ruined all family ties.

In the TV series Anjia, Pan Guiyu and three other women can't get married. If you marry wrong, you will ruin three generations. Don't believe it.

02

The first kind of woman: Pan Guiyu

Who caused the tragedy in the room? It's Pan Guiyu.

Pan Guiyu has no culture and is extremely "patriarchal". Because she didn't like this room at first, she wanted to throw it away when she was born. Although I didn't throw it, I suffered a lot in their house from now on, either beating or scolding. It is an adult's fault that Pan Guiyu doesn't treat Fang as his own child. He only knows how to squeeze her dry. In her opinion, "if your grandfather hadn't stopped you, I would have thrown you into the well." Especially cruel, he can kill his own flesh and blood.

Pan Guiyu is heartless. She wouldn't let Fang Siken study, saying it was useless for girls to study. "How much did you spend at home for so many years? You lost money. " Fang was admitted to a key 985 college, and Pan Guiyu told the admissions office teacher that he could not get a college diploma.

But in this way, Pan Guiyu can brazenly say, "How much did I spend on your college education for so many years?" How can you be so brazen? Why do people have beautiful rooms when they go to college? It's an audit, so I can't even pass the exam, so I have to work and study. Lying is not afraid of thunder and lightning?

Pan Guiyu only knows how to search the room like a brocade, and tries his best. She doesn't want to make money. The family used the brocade-like room as an ATM. Such a mother directly leads her son to become a "parasite".

Just wait for the room to send the money back? Maybe if she doesn't give money, you won't make money yourself?

With a mother like Pan Guiyu, Fang's other three daughters will have no future, even the children will be ruined, and her son Fang Jiadong will have no future.

If you marry a bad woman, your family will never get over it.

The second kind of woman: Mrs. Gong's cousin.

When Mr. Gong sold his old house, he was stopped by an "outsider", who was their distant relative.

At the beginning, Mr. Gong's great-grandfather saw that she was pitiful alone with two children, so he asked her to build a small bungalow in the yard of his old villa, and he refused to let them pay the rent for so many years. Instead of being grateful, they became "baiwenhang".

Have you noticed that my aunt's two sons and daughters-in-law are the same kind of people as their family: greedy, shameless, ungrateful and trying their best to be hooligans.

A mistress with a bad world outlook will only lead her children astray.

So after all these years, the Gong family is still very rich. Even if the capital chain is broken, selling a house can solve the urgent need. However, Taibiao's aunt and her family still want to make a fortune by taking advantage. Not everyone can control huge wealth. In reality, the Taibiao family is "insatiable". Although I got the money later, I was still rewarded and turned against extreme poverty. "

Why are some people always poor?

Because they don't work hard, they just want to take shortcuts to take advantage, and the result is self-defeating.

How can a person become rich? First of all, you should take the right path, not the crooked ways. If you don't take the right path and just want to take ill-gotten gains and wealth that doesn't belong to you, then you will eventually be eaten by greed.

It has been three generations since I married a woman like "big aunt", but I still don't take the right path and pass it on from generation to generation. The result is tragedy.

The third kind of woman: "Jing Zuo" Zhang Chengyu

Zhang Chengcheng gave birth to a child, but it didn't turn out to be Xu Wenchang's. She was completely dumbfounded. When Xu Wenchang arrived, Zhang Chengcheng looked at him awkwardly. But Xu Wenchang is very generous, and still gives children red envelopes like an uncle.

Zhang Chengcheng is an arrogant woman with three incorrect views, and she is very scheming. She is not a "silly girl". After divorcing Xu Wenchang, Zhang Chengcheng couldn't bear to cheat, and then Xu Wenchang became angry from embarrassment, and the fake divorce became a real divorce. In this regard, Zhang Chengcheng is not ashamed. On the contrary, when she was pregnant, she knew that she was pregnant with a "little everyday" child, but she still depended on Xu Wenchang.

I got hit in the face.

Zhang Chengcheng betrayed Xu Wenchang and confiscated all his property, leaving him nothing. When Xu Wenchang was ready to get his property back, Zhang Cheng never repented, saying that Xu Wenchang was cruel. That's right. Only women with unhealthy world outlook will be self-centered and feel wronged even if they make mistakes.

A woman like Zhang Chengcheng, no matter who is in trouble, will be put on a hat one day.

There is also a combination of Zhang Chengcheng and Pan Guiyu to deal with this room, and she doesn't even let go of the most basic conduct.

A woman with a corrupt personality has an incorrect outlook on life and no meaning at all. We can foresee her ending, and it will only get worse. After being with the children, it is conceivable that the children have no job and no sense of responsibility, and their lives will only be poor and not good.

No matter how much happiness you have, you will still ruin it.

The fourth kind of woman: Kuang Anbang's wife

Remember grandma Jiang's big niece? A woman who has no filial piety but only loves money.

It was the first time that she struggled with the room like brocade. She moved her hand first like a shrew, and when she went up, her hair was as stuffy as brocade.

"You said this was my karma, and I'll show you what I can do today."

She thinks she is arrogant and looks down on real estate agents like Fang. Obviously, they were untenable, but they fought back.

Grandma Jiang had a new idea because of the first video conference in the house and his wife's meddling. With his wife blowing the pillow breeze, Kuang Anbang insisted on putting it off, even losing the most basic filial piety and respect for his aunt and uncle.

Kuang Anbang and his wife have a son, and then the son, like them, likes to take advantage.

In family education, men are often busy outside, while women mostly take care of their children at home. With such a wife, what good son can Kuang Anbang have? However, their home is a "snake and mouse nest", not a family that does not enter the house.

03

Of these four women, Pan Guiyu is the one I hate the most. Pan Guiyu is so evil. Especially after seeing her break with the room, let people copy the guy. I don't know how there can be such a woman as Pan Guiyu in this world. I can be so cruel to my daughter and have the face to say, "I can hit my own child if I want, but it's none of your business." It is the room that keeps giving you money, and as a result, there is no gratitude, only endless demands.

Everything has become a matter of course, taking "taking advantage" as a matter of course, doing whatever you want, getting something for nothing.

We often say: a reasonable woman is a healer in marriage; And a woman like Pan Guiyu will only be a picky and prodigal wife.

Whether a family can live well is largely related to yourself. You can't blame others, you should reflect on yourself more, instead of just thinking about taking advantage.

In fact, the situation in our family is quite similar to that in a well-furnished family, except that I have a good mother. My father, like a father with a beautiful room, is honest and can't move things. My mother is also very strong, but she is honest and loves children very much. Both boys and girls have the same pain, because my mother just gave birth to three college students in our family, and several daughters are doing well at present. Even so, my mother never wanted to take advantage of the children. There is a natural affection in our family.

Mother's three views are correct, which is good feng shui at home. I know this sentence very well. Several children in our family are influenced by my mother. We believe that we can live a better life through our own efforts, and we will not "search anyone" or "squeeze anyone".

Song Dandan said that whether a family is peaceful, safe, stable and quiet depends entirely on whether there is a happy woman at home.

My mother is such a person; As for Pan Guiyu, she just wants to make trouble for her family. They are not unlucky, but feel that the road is crooked. People still have to rely on themselves, even their relatives, and there is not so much to do.

This also reminds men that if they want to find a good woman and have a good prospect, they must marry a good wife, otherwise it will ruin three generations, which is very realistic. Of course, if you want to keep your wife well, you have to be a good man yourself. Only in this way can you complement each other.