Disciple discipline, sage training, first filial piety, second honesty.

Love the masses, but learn literature if you are kind and spare no effort.

Be filial to your parents when you enter. You should not be slow, and neither should your parents be lazy.

Parents should respect, listen to what their parents teach, and be responsible and obedient.

It's warm in winter and wet in summer, and it's sleepy in the morning.

Sue when you go out, but face it. If you live in a formal place, your career will remain unchanged.

Although the matter is small, don't be good at it. If you are good at it, you will lose.

Although the matter is small, don't hide it, it will hurt your heart.

Love what you like, strengthen what you have, and hate what you like, so go ahead.

Being hurt physically makes parents worry, while being hurt morally makes parents feel ashamed.

Love me, why is it difficult to be filial? Hate me, be filial.

I had a kiss, and my advice made me more. I like my color and my voice.

Don't remonstrate, remonstrate gladly, weep and complain.

If you are sick, try medicine first, wait day and night, and stay in bed.

Three years of mourning, often mourning, living in different places, no wine and no meat.

Worship, sacrifice sincerity, serve death, such as life.

Out, brothers are friends, brothers respect each other, brothers are in harmony, and filial piety is in the middle.

Light property, resentment, forbearance in words, and self-destruction in anger.

Eat or sit, old people first, young people later.

Calling people long means calling them on behalf of others. If people are not here, they will arrive.

Call your elders by their first names, and don't look at their abilities.

Lu Yu was long, impatient, silent and retired.

Get on the horse, get off the bus, stay where you are, and walk more than a hundred steps.

Old people stand, young people don't sit, old people sit, and life is sitting.

Before you respect your elders, you should lower your voice and ignore them, but this is not appropriate.

Advance is inevitable, retreat is inevitable, ask why, and it is already fixed.

Work for father, like father, like brother, like brother.

Early in the morning, late at night, easy to get old, cherish this time.

Wash, rinse, urinate and wash your hands in the morning.

The crown must be straight, the buttons must be fastened and the socks and shoes must be cut tightly.

Wear a crown suit, there is room, don't mess up and get dirty.

Clothing is noble and clean, neither expensive nor luxurious, and it is called home below.

For diet, don't choose, eat in moderation, don't overdo it.

When you are young, don't drink. Being drunk is the ugliest thing.

Take your time, stand up straight, bow deeply, and respect.

Don't practice the threshold, don't limp, don't squat, don't shake your moustache.

Open the curtain slowly, there is no sound, turn away, and don't touch the edge.

Hold the virtual device, such as holding the surplus, into the virtual room, such as someone.

Don't be busy, make mistakes, don't be afraid of difficulties, and don't be careless.

Never go near a noisy scene, and never ask questions about evil things.

You can get started, ask who will save you, attend classes, and your voice will improve.

When people ask who, it is not clear who is right, me and me.

If you use characters, be sure to ask clearly. Steal without asking.

Lend people, return them in time, and borrow things. Don't be shy.

Whatever you say, believe it first, cheat and jump, ridiculous.

It's better to talk less than to talk more, but it's better not to be smart.

Smart words, dirty words, market sentiment, cut them out.

Don't speak out of turn until you see the truth, and don't pass on what you don't know.

Don't make mistakes when things don't fit.

Every word, heavy, comfortable, not anxious, not vague.

What he said was long and short. It's none of your business. Don't be idle.

See people good, that is, Si Qi, longitudinal to far, to gradually jump.

See people evil, that is, introspection, if there is, change, not the police.

Learn to be virtuous, be competent, be inferior to others, and be self-disciplined.

If you wear clothes, if you eat and drink, you are inferior to others, so don't be sad.

Smell anger, smell pleasure, hurt friends, but hurt good friends.

Smell the fear of fame, smell the joy, trust the scholar directly, and gradually blind date.

Inadvertently, that's wrong, intentionally, that's evil.

If you can change it, you will lose it. If you cover it up, you will get a mistake.

Love all people, all people must love, the sky is the same, the earth is the same.

Those who walk high, have high fame, are valued by people, and are not tall.

Talented people are arrogant and convincing, not boastful.

Don't be selfish if you have the ability, and don't underestimate people's ability.

Don't flatter the rich, don't be arrogant and poor, don't be tired of the old and don't like the new.

People are not idle, don't fan the flames, people are uneasy and don't talk.

Everyone has shortcomings, so don't expose them. Everyone has private affairs, so don't talk about it.

A good man is a good man. The more people know, the more they think.

To preach that people's evil is evil, and if they are seriously ill, it is a disaster.

Good advice, moral construction, violation of regulations, both lose.

You know, more, less.

If you want to add people, ask yourself first. If you don't, you will be quick.

Gratitude wants to repay, resentment wants to forget, resentment is short-lived, and gratitude is long-lasting.

Being a servant is expensive, though expensive, kind and generous.

Persuade potential people, but don't use your heart. Persuade people with reason, and they are speechless.

The same people, different classes, popular customs, the benevolent hope.

Nut eaters are afraid, outspoken and unattractive.

Kindness, infinite goodness, moral progress with each passing day, less life.

Unfriendly, infinite harm, small people entering, everything is not good.

Spare no effort to learn literature, but learning literature will become flashy.

But in practice, don't study literature, be self-righteous and ignore the truth.

There are three ways to read, heart and mouth, and faith.

If you read this, don't be amazed. Don't get up if it's not over.

Patience is the limit. Work hard. Time is up.

If you have doubts, follow the notes, people will ask and seek truth.

The room is clean, the walls are clean, several cases are clean, and the ink and stone are correct.

Ink grinding is partial, the heart is improper, the words are disrespectful, and the heart is sick first.

List classics, there is a fixed place, to read, to restore.

Although there is an emergency, the volume is neat and there is a defect, which must be repaired.

Non-sacred books, screen reading, cover up intelligence, bad will.

Don't give up on yourself, don't give up on yourself, be virtuous and docile.

Translation:

At home, when parents call us, they should answer it as soon as they hear it. Don't answer slowly.

When our parents ask us to do something, we should act quickly and don't delay or be too lazy to do it.

When parents want us to study hard and teach us, we must be respectful and not casual, and we must listen to our hearts.

If our parents blame our mistakes, we should obey and bear them. We shouldn't go against them and make them sad.

As children, we should pay attention to whether our parents wear warm clothes and live in warm places in winter.

Consider whether parents feel cool in summer. Get up every morning, be sure to visit your parents and ask how you are; When you come back at night, you must also greet your parents.

When you go out, tell your parents where you want to go. When you get home, you must meet your parents and reassure them.

There is a certain order in daily life, and we will not change what we do casually. ?

Although things are small, don't make a decision without telling your parents. If you act arbitrarily, it will be detrimental to your duties as a child. Although things are small, don't hide behind your parents' backs. Parents must be very sad to know.

Parents should try their best to prepare everything they like, and parents should carefully exclude everything they don't like.

If our bodies are hurt, it will definitely bring sadness to our parents. If our character is missing, it will make our parents feel humiliated and humiliated. ?

Parents love their children, and children can be filial to their parents, which is extremely natural. What is the difficulty of such filial piety?

If parents hate us, but they can still be filial, it will be commendable.

Most people always think that what parents have paid for their children is the obligation of filial piety. What's the difference between this and bargaining in the vegetable market? ?

When parents make mistakes, they must persuade and correct their children, but when persuading, they must never keep a straight face, keep an expression, be gentle and cheerful, and speak gently and peacefully.

If parents don't accept our suggestion, wait until parents are happy.

If parents are still stubborn and don't listen to advice, people with filial piety can't bear to let their parents fall into injustice, and even cry loudly and beg their parents to mend their ways, even if they are scolded by their parents, they have no complaints. When parents are ill, children must taste the cooked soup first, whether it is too cold or too hot.

No matter day or night, we should serve our parents and not be too far away from them at will. When your parents are seriously ill, they need someone to take care of them most, especially their children can accompany you and take care of their daily lives. This is the warmest and most satisfying thing for parents.

When our parents are seriously ill and dying, as children, can we give up this opportunity because of our busy career or lack of time? ?

Parents died unfortunately and had to mourn for three years. During the mourning period, they often cry because they miss their parents, and the place where they live has become simple. They have given up drinking and eating meat.

Handling parents' funerals should conform to etiquette, not sloppy, and be sincere when offering sacrifices.

Respect your dead parents as before. ? Why are you doing this?

Confucius said: "Children are born three years before they leave their parents' arms and can eat by themselves, which gives parents a little relief. As children, why can't we always miss our parents and love them during the three-year mourning period? "

In life, parents are our closest people and give us the most kindness. We should study hard the etiquette of filial piety to our parents, regard filial piety as a major event, and operate with our heart in order to stand between heaven and earth.

Filial piety may not make our family rich or have a garden villa to live in, but it can establish a natural and harmonious order and let us live in a peaceful and pleasant environment.

Home, if it is a person's fortress, filial piety is the cornerstone under the fortress. More filial piety, more protection for the family. Let's use filial piety to make the family an indestructible fortress.

Look down on the money used outside the body and care less, so there will be no resentment between brothers; Don't speak too impulsively. If you hurt your feelings, you should be able to hold back, and then unnecessary contradictions and resentment will disappear. ?

In daily life, some people think that children are young, get along with their elders, and don't expect too much from them. When they grow up, they will naturally adapt and even spoil their children, giving them delicious and useful things first, so that children can take it for granted and don't know how to treat their elders politely, thus misleading children to develop bad habits.

However, Disciple Rules teaches us not to neglect the virtue of cultivating comity from childhood because of the love of adults. Whether eating or drinking, please ask your elders to use it first; If you sit with your elders, ask them to sit first; If you go with your elders, let them go first. ?

The elders heard it when they called, so they should call for the elders. If the called person is not here, you should report back to your elders, and you can further ask your elders if they need any help. ?

When addressing elders, you should not call them by their first names, which is impolite; Don't show your talents in front of your elders and despise them. ?

When you meet your elders while walking, you should salute and greet them quickly. If your elders don't talk to us, stand aside respectfully and let them go first.

If you are riding a horse, you have to dismount when you meet an elder. If you take a bus, get off and let the elders go first. Wait about a hundred steps before getting on the bus or getting on the bus. ?

If the elders are still standing, young people should not sit down first. If the elders are sitting, we can only sit down if we are allowed to.

Speak in a low voice in front of your elders, but the answer is too low to be heard clearly and inappropriate. Just be gentle and clear

Walk quickly when you meet your elders and behave politely. Quit slowly when you leave.

When the elders ask questions, they should stand up and answer, keep their eyes fixed and don't shake from side to side. ?

Treat uncles as respectfully as your own father, and treat brothers of the same race as friendly as your own brothers. As children, we should try to get up early and go to bed late at night, because the years of life are limited and time is easy to pass, and young people become old people in the blink of an eye, so we should cherish the precious time now.

Be sure to wash your face first, then brush your teeth and wash your hands after defecation every morning. This is a good boy who pays attention to hygiene. ?

Wear the right hat when going out, and button up when wearing clothes; Wear socks and shoes properly, and tie your shoelaces tightly, so that your whole body looks neat.

Take off your hat and clothes and put them in a sealed and protected position. Don't throw them around to avoid wrinkling and soiling.

Dressing is neat and tidy, not expensive and gorgeous, but according to one's status and family's economic situation. ?

Don't be picky about food, and eat in moderation, not too much.

We are young and underage, so we shouldn't try drinking, because being drunk is the easiest way to show inappropriate words and deeds.

Walk slowly and stand up straight. Pay attention to bow deeply when saluting, and be respectful when bowing.

Don't step on the threshold when entering the door, avoid leaning forward when standing, don't spread a dustpan or look dignified and strong with your feet when sitting, and don't shake your feet or twist your hips to show your graceful posture. ?

Open the curtains slowly when you enter the door, try not to make any noise, stay away from the edges and corners when walking and turning, and keep a wide distance to avoid touching the edges and corners and hurting your body; Treat empty tableware as carefully as full, and enter an empty room as if you were in someone else's room.

Don't be in a hurry, you are prone to make mistakes when you are in a hurry, don't be afraid of difficulties, hesitate to retreat, and don't be sloppy. We shouldn't stay near places where fighting is easy; There is no need to ask questions about evil and bizarre things. ?

Before we start, ask: "Hello"? When you are about to walk into the hall, first turn up the volume to let the people in the hall know; If someone asks, "Who are you?" Say your name when you answer. If you just say "I" or "I", the other party can't hear who it is.

If you want to use other people's things, you must make it clear to them in advance. If we use them without permission, it is equivalent to stealing.

Return the borrowed things as soon as they are used up, and it won't be too difficult to borrow them from others when they are in urgent need.

These principles of common language behavior enable us to know and act, master ourselves, make things more efficient, treat people more harmoniously, and create a harmonious environment between body and mind.

If you can't do it for a while, don't be discouraged, as long as you can clearly understand the direction, agree with the enlightenment of the sages, and be willing to ponder slowly with kung fu, just as Pushi can slowly present beautiful jade. ?

Anyone who speaks must first pay attention to credit. Can fraud and false words always work in society?

It's better to talk less than to talk more. Everything is real. Don't talk nonsense. In addition, treacherous and eloquent words, obscene and indecent words, and the common tone of rogues should be effectively removed.

Before seeing the truth of the matter, don't express your opinions easily, don't know things clearly enough, don't spread them easily, and don't agree easily. If you agree easily, you will be in a dilemma.

Speak steadily and comfortably, and don't speak too fast or too fast, or speak vaguely, so that people can't hear clearly or get the wrong meaning.

Others say that others are right and wrong, so don't mind your own business. ?

Seeing other people's good behavior, I have a good idea to keep up with him. Although there is still a long way to go, I will certainly catch up with him as long as I work hard.

Whether it is a big good thing or a small good thing, we must have fantastic confidence and courage to do it. Xiaoshan should not act rashly, but should seize the opportunity to do it in time and try his best.

When you see others commit crimes, you must first reflect on yourself. If you make the same mistake, you should change it immediately. If you don't do this, you will be more vigilant not to make the same mistake.

When moral knowledge and talent are not as good as others, we should try our best to catch up. As for the clothes we wear and the food we eat, we don't have to worry or be depressed. ?

I get angry when people say I'm wrong, and I'm happy when I praise them. In this way, there will be more and more bad friends, and sincere and beneficial friends will not dare to be with us.

If I hear others praise me, I will first reflect on myself, for fear that I will not have these advantages, but become a hollow reputation; When I hear others criticize my mistake, but I accept it gladly, then the more honest people like to be close to us.

If you don't do something wrong on purpose, it's called fault; If you knowingly commit a crime, it is a crime.

If you accidentally make a mistake, you will change less and less if you are brave enough to correct it, and you will gradually become innocent. If you deliberately cover up your mistakes, there is another crime of covering up.

Caring for the public, like heaven and earth, is absolutely selfless. Good people, bad people, smart people, stupid people, precious people, poor people and racial boundaries are all pure kindness, not for fame and fortune.

It is a great harmony realm of "Great Harmony in Heaven and Great Harmony in Earth".

Everyone is a gentleman who loves the masses. He has the idea that I am a family with someone, so he is willing to put aside his selfishness and care about the masses. If we learn to be kind to others everywhere, improve morality, maintain character and learn all kinds of talents in depth, I believe we can also make a cause that benefits the masses.

People with high moral character naturally have high prestige, and people admire virtue, not whether they are outstanding in appearance; People with great talents naturally have great prestige, and people are impressed by real talents, not just expressing their opinions.

Don't be selfish and conservative about what you are capable of doing; When you see that others are talented, praise them more, and don't belittle them because of jealousy.

Don't flatter the rich and seek glory; Don't show arrogance to the poor, don't abandon relatives and old friends, and don't blindly like new people and new friends.

Confucius, the most holy teacher, taught us that the poor can enjoy themselves more morally than flattery, while the rich not only do not hinder others with pride, but also respect the public with courtesy.

Poverty and wealth are just different lifestyles. We should learn etiquette to enrich our talents, give full play to the benevolence of others and me, and create a happy society of "being poor means being happy, and being rich means being polite".

If someone else has something to do and is too busy, don't bother him with anything; The other person is physically and mentally unstable, so we won't interfere with him with gossip.

Never expose other people's shortcomings. If others have secrets that they don't want people to know, we shouldn't tell them.

Praising the good deeds of others is equivalent to doing good deeds by yourself, because the other party will be more encouraged to do good deeds when they know it; To preach the sins of others is tantamount to doing evil by yourself. If you hate them too much, it will bring disaster.

Doing good deeds can encourage each other, and both people can build good virtues. If they make a mistake and don't convince each other, both sides will leave defects in their behavior.

When dealing with people in property, we should distinguish clearly and unambiguously.

In other words, property is generous to Dobusch only when it is with others; Take less of other people's property; If you have something to entrust or talk to someone, ask yourself whether you like it or not, and stop immediately if you don't like it.

Others are kind to me, and I should always want to repay him; If you accidentally form a hatred with others, ask others for forgiveness and forget the hatred as soon as possible. The shorter you stay in complaining, the better, but the intention of repaying kindness lasts forever.

Pay attention to your behavior and don't be frivolous when you treat your servant. If we can be kind and generous, it will be more perfect.

Power can make people obey, although they dare not resist on the surface, but they don't think so in their hearts.

Only by influencing each other with reason can people be convinced without complaining. ?

Although few people use maid servants now, the relationship between superiors and subordinates can still be seen everywhere. Let's learn from the fraternity of benevolent gentlemen, think more about the public and build a warm society of mutual concern and understanding.

Extended data:

Disciples Rules was originally named Xun Mengwen. This was written by Li Yuxiu, a scholar in the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty.

Its content adopts Article 6 of The Analects of Confucius, "Disciples are filial when they enter, and younger brothers are younger when they leave. They are sincere, believe that they love all people. And if you are kind, if you have spare capacity, you will study literature. " The literal meaning of.

It is composed of three words and one sentence, two sentences and one rhyme, and is described in five parts. It specifically lists the etiquette and norms that children should have when they are at home, going out, treating others and studying, with special emphasis on family education and life education.

Later, it was revised and adapted by Jia Cunren in Qing Dynasty and compiled into Disciple Rules 1 08 0.

After the middle Qing Dynasty? This book is the most popular and once became a compulsory teaching material for private schools. It is the best reading for enlightening and cultivating honesty, educating children to do their best, being idle and honest, and cultivating loyal family style.

The story behind Disciples Rules:

Words come to the mouth, faith comes first, fraud is false, how can it be ridiculous?

Anyone who speaks must first pay attention to credit and lie. How is that possible?

Story Ji Guo Hou Ting

Ji Guo, a native of Maoling in the Eastern Han Dynasty (now Xingfeng, Shaanxi Province), was a secretariat in Bingzhou (now Shaanxi Province), and he was always kind to the people and kept his word.

On one occasion, he went to Xihe County (now Lishi, Shanxi Province) under his jurisdiction to inspect. There are hundreds of children, each riding a "horse" made of bamboo poles.

On the way, I greeted Ji Guo, saw him off and asked him when he would come back. Ji Guo calculated and told them the date of his return.

Ji Guo's patrol went well and came back one day earlier than scheduled to tell the children.

I was afraid that Ji Guo had lost his letter, so he spent the night in a wild pavilion at a distance from the city. He didn't go to town until the next day, and the children welcomed Ji Guo back on the way.

Guangwu Emperor Liu Xiu praised him as a virtuous satrap. Later, Ji Guo lived to be eighty-six. Jiguo achieved innocence and integrity!

Speaking today, honesty is the first, and what you say to yourself must be put into practice and carried out in your heart.

If you promise others, you must keep your promise. You can't just promise what you can't do, and you can't use deception or rhetoric.

Keeping promises in speech acts lays a good foundation for a person's future development in society.

If we don't keep our word, find some excuses to cover up our broken word, and your reputation will get worse and worse.

If you really can't keep your promise for special reasons, then let's be honest with each other. When he really understands your situation and your sincerity, he will take a step back.

But if you continue to cover it up, he will get more and more angry, and it will be difficult to clean it up then.

Therefore, keeping promises with others must not be delayed, and the more it is delayed, the more difficult it is.

Disciples Rules, originally named Xun, was written by scholars during the reign of Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, and its content adopted Article 6 of The Analects of Confucius.

The literal meaning of "Disciples are filial when they go in, younger brothers when they go out, sincere and trustworthy, loving people, and kind and spare capacity, so they study literature" lists the rules and regulations that disciples should abide by when they are at home, going out, treating others, receiving things and studying.

As can be seen from the name "A Dream", the purpose of Li Yuxiu's writing this book is to enlighten children.

"Enlightenment" means enlightenment, which is what we call enlightenment today.

However, with the full support of the Qing government at that time, Li Yuxiu's original intention was successful.

At that time, the Qing government listed Xun Meng Wen as a compulsory book for children's enlightenment.

Just like we have to study Chinese and math at school today.

Later, it was about 36 years of Qing Qianlong.

At that time, a scholar named Jia Cunren, after reading Xun's Mongolian, found that this book should not only be used as a teaching material for children's enlightenment.

This book is too good. Although everyone knows these simple truths in the book, they have not really realized them at all.

Children's influence is too limited. Instead of expecting the next generation to become talents, let this generation of adults grow up.

Only when adults understand the knowledge in the book will society be more beautiful.

In order to realize his plan, Jia Cunren revised the book and renamed it Disciples' Rules.

The word "disciple" has a wider scope.

Not only children, but also all the scholars in the world. At that time, all scholars were advocates of Confucianism. However, scholars at that time also claimed to be disciples of Confucius)

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