What bothers me most is that every time I go home, my parents have changed, my white hair has increased, my wrinkles have deepened, and my body seems to have lost weight ... Yes, my parents are old. . Maybe I haven't seen you for half a year, so it's easier to see the difference. It's really hard to watch my parents grow old.
So my relationship with my parents can be said to be closer. I won't let them lose their temper again, discuss with them more, and go out shopping with them during the holidays.
Being away for a long time has made me more aware of the importance of getting home and relatives. If you work in the future, you won't have time to spend with your family. The tree wants to keep quiet, but the wind will not stop; My son wants to serve his parents when they are old, but they are gone. I hope we can spend more time with our families and cherish our relatives and friends.
How long can I stay with my parents in my life?
I don't miss my parents very much.
I remember when I first went to college, I basically didn't want to. I don't know what I'm busy with, but I don't have time to think at the end of the day.
The bond between my father and me seems to be that in addition to eating and chatting at home during the New Year, the contact after one year is really pitiful.
My mother gave me a love card. She likes to talk to me once a week about her family and my school. Although at first I felt as if I was completing my official duties, I was not very patient. Later, I took the initiative to call, not for money, but to hear her voice.
This may not be homesick, but I think it should be a habit. My concept of home has always stayed above my family, not a village hundreds of kilometers away that I don't even know. It is also possible that when people grow up, they are more or less sensible and gradually understand their parents' difficulties. Sensibility actually appears slowly. I gradually became more patient than before, because old people learn things slowly. I slowly taught my parents how to use smart phones, how to use computers, how to send text messages and how to send voice. This process requires interaction between both parties.
We grow up in flight, and don't let our parents fall behind.
Because there are cares and fetters. Across time and space, our relationship with our parents is not just that simple.
With the performance of age, the distance from parents is getting farther and farther. After going to college, some people may travel for the first time, accept a new thing, study harmoniously, enter a new group, get farther and farther away from their families, and talk less and less with their parents. Going to college is a new beginning and your first stop into society. Maybe you are trying to learn the way of doing things and dealing with the world. ...
I went to college, some were busy studying, some were busy playing games, and some were in love. After you hesitated to go to college, you learned to be independent and learn your own life. However, have you forgotten one important thing? All your expenses at school come from your parents' hard-working hands. Don't forget that you haven't been able to support yourself. ...
After going to college, I have less and less communication with my parents. I spend most of my time thinking about living expenses and tuition fees, and occasionally I mention learning. ...
When you are in college, please remember that more phone calls, more care and more communication, even a greeting, will warm your parents' hearts.
There has been a change. Compared with before, there is less contact, and we gradually understand why parents do things we didn't understand before.
I live in a high school. At that time, I went home once a week and seldom called home. Many things feel natural. Sometimes I understand my parents, sometimes I don't. But it is not unreasonable.
After going to college, I can't go home twice a year, and sometimes I go back after a long vacation. In most cases, I choose to work part-time outside. On the one hand, you can earn living expenses, on the other hand, you can increase your experience.
If you don't go home, the only contact with your family is phone calls, videos or other things.
Fortunately, I taught my mother to play WeChat before I went to college, and then I often left messages on WeChat during college. My mother will reply when she sees it, and she will speak in her hometown dialect, feeling more connected than in high school.
But because there are many things to do after college, I will reply with some expression packs every time I have no time. As long as I reply to the expression pack, my family will know that I am busy and reply when I have time.
That's it. After college, I had more experiences, and I gradually realized that it was not easy for my parents.
There may be more and more things after work, but frequent communication with home will continue.
College students know that parents are not easy, so they are more considerate of their parents, and the more they grow up, the more grateful they are.
People on earth are good at living. The same nature varies from upbringing to upbringing. Change and constancy depend on many factors. It is influenced by family education, school education, social education and environmental education, as well as media, network and new media. Most of them remain unchanged. Some people lose their original intention and forget their roots with the changes of time, experience, experience and education. As a result, they lost themselves, family and affection!
I didn't go to college, but I also had the experience of studying in my hometown without my parents.
Let's talk about the biggest change with parents first. When you leave your parents on 18, there will always be a strange feeling, like no one can take care of you at last, and you can finally do what you want with confidence. It is true that their families are not around, which makes them very worried. My mother is afraid that I will wander around without eating all day as soon as I get off the phone. Although every phone call is repeated, I still feel that they are not at ease. As for my dad, I get along well with him and dare to say anything. Just like a friend, I gradually realized how a father's responsibility is reflected.
Generally speaking, there will definitely be changes after leaving parents, but these changes are developing in a good direction.
I feel strange, I don't want to call, I don't want to go home, and I don't want to ask for money from my family. I finished military training in my freshman year, just in time for the National Day, and many students went home. If you don't want to travel, you have already found a job of distributing leaflets, and you still can't bear to eat and drink at 30 a day. Then I go out to find temporary workers every week and don't go home during the winter and summer vacations. I don't think I have anything to say to my family, and they haven't asked me how to live. I didn't remember it until I graduated from college.