When we put ourselves in our own shoes, don't forget that you are still a member of society!
Let's talk about this female college student who makes us feel "unbearable".
Minako honestly watched the video three times, just to see the problem clearly. Obviously, the quarrel between lovers on the Internet is untenable. The female college students in the video are sitting side by side with their boyfriends. When the female college students rushed up, the boy obviously stopped, but seeing that his girlfriend was so fierce, it was estimated that he could not stop. Moreover, after that, her boyfriend tried his best to stop beating her mother, so judging from these three actions, the probability of quarreling is almost zero, and finally it is just everyone's guess. Female college students did not mention the rumored problems in the following explanation!
The girl in the video kicked a stool. From the angle, she didn't see clearly whether she kicked the little girl. So "kicking" or "kicking" is terrible. Just ask this mother how good her writing is. Do you want to talk about kicking a few meters?
Looking back, I explained the situation of female college students. Let's analyze it again. The idea that "harmony is the most important thing" has been circulating in China since ancient times. So it is wrong for the girl to kick a stool to scare people first. Whether she really wants to hurt the little girl or not, it is wrong to get angry with a four-year-old girl. After all, children are young and many things are not well understood, so in the face of such a situation, don't start anyway ~
Let's look at the root cause of this incident, which is the problem of the little girl. For four years old, some people think it's quite old, while others think it's still very young and they don't know the problem clearly. So this is a very contradictory place for many parents in modern times. They think children should be childlike, mature early and do things carefully ~
Minako believes that before the age of 65,438+08, you don't need to take on too many responsibilities, so many things can be treated as children. But once you reach the age of 65,438+08, you will face many problems even if you are immature. If you can't do it, you must understand how big the sanctions are!
In the end, parents who make a mountain out of a molehill are actually the last thing to do. First of all, she's an adult. How can things be over and she hasn't figured it out yet? Besides, she is a mother. If she educates children and how to solve problems, she should be stronger than female students in terms of age! As for the lack of education for children, that is the first. If you blindly think you are a mother, then you should protect the calf. So, in the case of "insulting your mother", did you make the same mistake of "putting aside truth and talking about feelings"? Sorry, you are a citizen. When you think about yourself, you should realize that children's behavior is first of all a lack of respect for others.
After that, the mother in the video fought with the dissuader, which was cruel to the girls. Her IQ is really zero when she is impulsive!
For this article, minako only thinks that a few short sentences are enough to summarize what parents should do, because everyone knows how to do it, but they just can't!
1: Protect the calf. Your child is injured and needs to be coaxed and protected.
2. The behavior of girls can be blamed, but they can't do it. The degree of doing it is really too heavy. You can watch the video if you don't believe me.
3. Tell your child why this happens when you go home, and tell your child what to do to avoid such harm.
Three o'clock is enough. As for leaving psychological shadows on children, hahaha, Minako was instilled with many shadows by his mother since childhood. Up to now, she is super resistant to pressure, and she doesn't feel bad for Minako's life, at least not the little princess, nor is she effeminacy. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude ~