Read more books in your spare time, and take a walk in your city when you don't want to study. I am in Beijing, and I will go to art galleries, museums or bookstores on weekends. It doesn't have to cost a lot of money. Sometimes two subway tickets are enough.
3. Live in harmony with roommates, respect everyone's habits, know everyone's bottom line and stick to their own principles. Also, don't spend all your time in the dormitory. It makes sense to go to the library to learn something new by yourself, or go out for a walk, as mentioned above. Distance produces beauty.
You can cultivate a new skill, such as making videos, taking photos, or programming, learning a foreign language, following your hobbies, and trying to find things you like more.
Some interesting club activities are worth attending. This year, I went to the school astronomy club to watch the stars, met many friends from other schools and saw some great gods. It feels great!
6. You still need to make up something ~ University life can be as long as you feel full and meaningful ~ But don't waste time staying up late to make up your sleep, and enjoy your three-month summer vacation!
7.？ Don't rush to deny any facts.
You don't have to listen to any truth, because the correct truth needs to be carefully disassembled to understand, and the listener must have some experience to understand the connotation behind the truth. You will see and hear a lot of truth, and feel that it is normal to meet each other late or to be dismissive. But when you see them, I suggest you keep them in mind. Maybe one day, you will suddenly realize their true meaning.
8.？ Learn to accept your own shortcomings and acknowledge the existence of great differences.
Maybe in the past, you were "someone else's child" in the neighbor's mouth and "I have a student" in the teacher's mouth. Being admitted to this university can make your parents proud for a long time, but don't forget: if we can be admitted to a school with you, everyone is not bad.
What's more, for some reasons you know, you may be one in a million, but your roommate practiced the skill of one in a million to get into this school.
Here, there are various ways to evaluate everyone, and so are the roads you choose in the future. You must admit that some people have greater advantages than you from the beginning because of their professional choice, family background and coincidence. Moreover, some differences do not mean that you can make up for them through hard work, because when you catch up, others will continue to develop on the original solid foundation.
Learn to accept differences and understand that you have many shortcomings compared with some people, but don't compare absolute results with relative growth, because every inch you enter will bring you joy, and competing with too many factors beyond your control will only bring you trouble and pain.
9.？ Don't worry.
Of course, when you first enter college, you will be confused and anxious. You want everything, but you seem to get nothing. What I want to tell you is that anxiety is meaningless. Do what you have to do now, don't think too far. In the future, in what you are doing now, your anxiety will not shorten the journey, and your decadence will not make this journey longer.
The so-called "getting rid of anxiety" means that you should get rid of the interference of anxiety and directly solve the problem itself that brings you anxiety. You waste all your time on anxiety, how can you have time to do things? The consequences are just a vicious circle.
10.？ Road confidence
Everyone has his own life, and everyone has his own way of living. I don't know which of the three grasses in life is better. Why do you think you must be as young and famous as others? Maybe you are a late bloomer. There are various methods on the Internet, each of which tells you that it is particularly useful and criticizes other methods as unreliable, but in fact, every method can get good results as long as it is adhered to.
It's just that many people are not sure about their own path, change direction halfway, and repeatedly consume their time and energy. Of course, in the end they got nothing. Find the path that you think is suitable and has positive feedback, and go on firmly.
1 1.？ But when choosing the road, we also need to consider the reality.
The path most people take may not be dazzling, but it is flat enough, and countless people have tried it for you. There is a high probability that a certain road is correct. The road taken by a small number of people, although they may receive unexpected achievements, often means extremely high risks and efforts that others cannot do.
Therefore, when choosing your own path, if your ability is not enough, or your family can't stand the toss, then don't gamble, seek stability first, and then develop. It is much more reliable for ordinary children to find a suitable field to accumulate first than to gamble on their future and family destiny.