The boss got married for the second time, and the janitor barely followed a thousand. The boss returned a thin envelope. He was very moved to open it! The significance of courtesy, in social communication, there are different ways to exchange feelings between people, and courtesy is one of them.
Dear relatives and friends, classmates and colleagues who get along with each other day and night, respected superiors, and family affairs, we should all go and see them, or send a gift to express our feelings. This is a means to extend friendship and enhance emotional communication opportunities. These are beyond reproach. However, with the development of society, the names of ceremonies are increasing, the atmosphere is getting worse and worse, the scope is getting wider and wider, and the patterns are constantly being renovated, which makes people really difficult to deal with. Marriage should be accompanied by gifts, death should be accompanied by gifts, children should be accompanied by gifts at full moon, housewarming should be accompanied by gifts, opening should be accompanied by gifts, children should be accompanied by gifts at university, high school should be accompanied by gifts, birthdays should be celebrated, and then remarried ... and so on.
There are more and more accompanying ceremonies, and people feel that accompanying ceremonies are not promoting friendship and emotion, but seem to be exchanging something with each other. Today is your full moon, tomorrow is my birthday, today you get married, and tomorrow I will get married again. You send him and he sends you, which makes everyone eat "buffets" frequently, spending money on their own meals and wasting money on each other. Neither the host nor the guests wanted to do this, but because of the "nonsense face", no one wanted to pierce enough paper, and the nature of the ceremony changed. However, the phenomenon of following the ceremony is becoming more and more serious, showing signs of getting out of control. In some places, etiquette is so serious that half of a month's salary is etiquette. Therefore, most people are extremely reluctant after following the ceremony, and they will scold "evil follows the ceremony" in their hearts.
Uncle Liu is faced with the problem of obeying etiquette. Uncle Liu is over 60 years old this year. He worked as a security guard in a company and worked here for many years. The boss and employees of the company also know Uncle Liu. Uncle Liu's family is also very bitter. There are seriously ill old people and unmarried sons. In addition, Uncle Liu's wife is in poor health and takes medicine every day. Uncle Liu's son is over 30 years old and still has it.
In fact, Uncle Liu's monthly salary is not high, about 2000 yuan. However, after all, Uncle Liu is so old that he is content to earn 2000 yuan a month. It's better to earn some money than to idle around at home. After all, there is a large family waiting to support themselves at home. The boss of Uncle Liu's company was married once, and I don't know why he divorced. At that time, when the boss got married for the first time, Uncle Liu had not come to this company. Well, after all these years, the boss is getting married again.
It was circulated in the company and the boss himself admitted it. Uncle Liu doesn't like to pay attention to such gossip. Generally, this kind of news is that young people in the company love to join in the fun. Although Uncle Liu has worked in this company for several years, he usually doesn't have much overlap with his boss. In Uncle Liu's mind, he felt that the boss might not know him.
With the arrival of the boss's wedding, the employees of the company began to discuss giving gifts to the boss. He overheard someone say that the number of people in the company is generally 2000. Of course, the top layer must have given more, and the bottom layer gave at least 1000. Uncle Liu is very worried about this matter, and he is also very entangled, because his monthly salary is about 2,000. If he gives the boss 1000, it is equivalent to losing half a month's salary.
However, almost all employees in the company did so. If they don't follow, it won't look good. Maybe I lost my job. Finally, Uncle Liu went to the bank and put 1000 yuan in the red envelope. Uncle Liu hesitated when he released the money, but he was a company security guard and couldn't attend the boss's wedding. He gave the red envelope to a young man who usually has a good relationship with him and asked him to help him bring it to the boss.
After the wedding, Uncle Liu was on duty in the company as usual. At this time, the young man came over and handed a red envelope to Uncle Liu, saying that it was given by the boss himself. Obviously, red envelopes can be felt very thin. Uncle Liu thought he must be as thin as a hundred. Uncle Liu went home and opened the red envelope. He was dumbfounded. There was an invoice of 10,000 yuan in it, and a letter from the boss, all of which were written with words of thanks.
The boss said: Thank you, Uncle Liu, for doing your duty for our company for so many years. There has never been a mistake, and the company has seen it. Without you, our company wouldn't be where it is today. As the oldest employee of our company, I sincerely say thank you on behalf of the company. Please don't mind this little gift. Uncle Liu was moved to tears after reading this letter. He also feels sorry for his boss. He thought of his boss like this before. In fact, his boss has never forgotten him.
What do you think of this? Bian Xiao believes that people must be kind, otherwise they will forget their original heart. Don't do anything against morality and conscience. In life, we must learn to understand others. Think from other people's point of view, don't be self-righteous. Bian Xiao hopes that everyone can live a happy day. I can find someone I want to work with for a lifetime as soon as possible.