How to get along with college roommates?

lxgwd LV 12

20 13-04-08

I'm going to college soon, and I haven't lived in a league. How should I get along with my roommate? I am easy-going, not very outgoing and not very independent. My popularity is ok, and I won't take the initiative to provoke others. Now do I take the initiative to get along with my roommates at first, or do I keep a certain distance from them? Do you have to fight back when you meet unreasonable people?

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Baisha yiren

LV 1 1

20 13- 10- 12

1, goodwill. Is to be kind to your roommate. They may all be strangers at first, but they all come from the same starting point. Don't use hostile eyes, confront each other, get along sincerely, and look at your roommate sincerely.

2. Support each other. Being a roommate is also a fate. Cherish each other's time together, and college time flies by in a hurry. Roommates usually live together and support each other when they are in trouble.

3. Take appropriate measures. The university says there are long and short. When we get along, there will definitely be disputes and contradictions. If the contradiction is not serious, we should tolerate each other and take a step back. However, if the contradiction is serious, the dispute is too close and involves issues of principle, it should be discussed in time, but within an appropriate range, it should not be too blunt. After all, we have to live together in the future.

4. Don't stick to principles when appropriate. The principle is also very flexible. If it's no big deal, it should be changed at the right time. Don't stick to the rules. For example, several people in the dormitory went to eat together, and when they left, the rich one in the dormitory said that he would treat them to pay the bill. He strongly said that he would treat them, and other students would be fine, so you should not stick to AA system at this time, even though you really want AA system and don't want to be in debt. At this time, everyone is happy to eat. If you insist on it yourself, you will be unhappy. If you don't want to owe her, invite her to dinner and pay her back later.

5. If you have activities in the dormitory, you should participate. Don't be special or individualistic. Although you don't think so yourself, if you don't participate in the activities in the dormitory, your roommates will think so and gradually alienate.

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6. When classmates are chatting, don't keep silent and be silly. Try to say a word or two, so that you won't be bored.