Give as much as you can, lest your daughter be embarrassed in front of her classmates! The school is also a small society, and students have entertainment in their lives. They are right to go out and live a well-off life! 10 years ago, my son went to college with an income of 2500-3000. I won't give it in winter and summer vacation. I didn't know until a few years after graduation that his father quietly gave pocket money [covering his face])
Let me put it this way. Some students 1 0,000 is enough, 2000, 5000. Just like your salary, you can live 3,000 yuan a month, 30,000 yuan a month, 300,000 yuan a month and 300,000 yuan a month, depending on your family ability.
My daughter is studying in Dalian, and my father and I discussed giving her a month's living expenses of 1500. Originally, our daughter could not be poor, and the living allowance could not be reduced like others. The living standard in Northeast China is 65,438+0,500 a month. In less than half a year, my daughter actually cried that her living expenses were less.
The thing is, my daughter didn't come home at eleven o'clock last semester, and we also went to her grandparents' house for the New Year, thinking of watching it with the children. Grandparents love their granddaughters and ask them how they are at school. How's the food? Buy something delicious after the holiday. My daughter said that my mother would give it to me one month 1500. In addition to food and shelter, buying snacks for ten dollars is also a luxury for her. He also said that he wanted to eat nuts and went to the supermarket to see three squirrels. I didn't expect a box to be so expensive that I didn't want to buy it. When grandparents heard that they were in a hurry, they told us that the child's money was not enough, so don't be too tight, and give more appropriately. Grandma and my daughter said that if they couldn't afford three squirrels, they would buy one first [covering their faces].
Eating a meal every day costs more than 50 yuan, and it costs more than 500 yuan a month/kloc-0. So, don't doubt the child. But good habits should be cultivated, such as where money is spent, making necessary records, and letting children have a good plan for life. I hope I can help you.
Under normal circumstances, the monthly living expenses of a big girl 1500 yuan can only be basically enough. If you want to make cosmetics in buy buy or even want to be extravagant, you can't.
Dalian is a big city after all, and its consumption level is not low. My daughter goes to college in Dalian, and the monthly living expenses can be roughly calculated as follows:
First of all, it is three meals a day. Breakfast 10 yuan, noon and evening 15 yuan. One day in 40 yuan and one month 1200 yuan.
Followed by the dormitory accommodation fee. Different schools charge different fees, about 750 yuan per semester and about 150 yuan per month.
Also, it's other miscellaneous expenses. It mainly includes water, electricity, air conditioning, WlFl, transportation and other expenses, totaling 150 yuan for one month.
Altogether, the total cost is *** 1500 yuan. This is just the daily living expenses. I don't fall in love, make friends or go out to spend money. I just have classes in the teaching building and read books in the library every day.
If you want to make friends, go shopping, watch movies, drink milk tea, taste coffee and make up in buy buy, one month 1500 is definitely not enough.
Therefore, it is really understandable that the daughter of the subject goes to college in Dalian and gives 1500 yuan a month. In general, 1800 2000 yuan a month may be more reasonable.
My son's monthly salary in Hangzhou is 1200. He said enough [covering his face].
It's really not enough in Dalian. Of course, we only eat in the canteen, no dinner, no clothes and daily necessities. That's enough.
I know this problem. I am a sophomore medical student. Generally speaking, my breakfast, a three-dollar bread or two one-and-a-half steamed buns, a one-and-a-half soybean milk, is three yuan or four and a half yuan.
Lunch: One meat, one dish and one meal in 6 yuan or 7 yuan.
Just like dinner
So, eat for one day: 15- 18.5 yuan.
450-555 yuan a month
A cup of milk tea 9- 10 yuan, 2-3 cups a month: 18-30 yuan.
Telephone charge: 98 yuan.
Does not include books and accommodation that have just started school.
Generally, the water and electricity charges in our dormitory are very small, and the average person is the most in 5 yuan.
This is the most basic: 57 1-688 yuan.
But girls, you know, want to buy cosmetics, go out for dinner, buy clothes, buy online, order takeout ... all kinds of daily necessities. ...
Don't buy anything special, 1500 is enough.
Unless she is in love, or the price in Dalian is higher, forget it.
If you can't communicate well with your daughter, you can't pay more. I think you should communicate with your daughter more. Many families limit how much money they give their children every month. Therefore, there will be a balance in some months. When the child thinks about it, there is still extra money to spend, but when it comes to special things, if it is not enough, it can only be asked from home. If it's not enough, you can't let her starve. No, you have to give it. When I was in college, my family never limited how much money I could spend every month, but I knew the financial situation at home like the back of my hand. I spent all my money where I should have spent it. Maybe some months are over, but most months are lower than others. I hardly borrow money from my classmates, but my total telephone bill is lower than that of most people. So the point is not whether the money is enough, but where it should be spent. Compared with college students, you have to teach her how to manage money.