Everyone should have more or less self-psychology, but many people can control it well, but in love, many people are too self-psychological, especially those students who are chased. Perhaps they will have a sense of superiority in the process of being chased, and at the same time they will feel that they are being chased very hard, so in many places, their self-psychology is relatively heavy, which is not conducive to the sustainable development of emotions.

2. Being too realistic and taking money too seriously.

As we said before, love in college is equal to cleanliness and purity, but some people, like society, always base their love on money, which makes the love that should be pure full of copper smell. Although it is true that falling in love now requires a certain economic foundation, some students have gone far beyond this scope.

3. The mentality of comparison is too heavy

Everyone has the psychology of keeping up with the joneses, and many things may have the joneses. In love, it may be that the boyfriend bought himself some brand-name lipstick, brand-name watch, brand-name bag and so on. In fact, we all know that most of college students' financial resources come from their parents, and a small number of college students may choose to work part-time to earn some pocket money, but in fact they can't afford those brand-name bags and watches. Maybe some students are really rich at home, but this is only a few people.

4. excessive pursuit of perfection

Everyone wants his other half to be perfect, which is only an idealized situation, but in fact it is rare. The other half will have some flaws more or less. After all, no one is perfect, so when setting standards for your partner, you must be realistic, not blindly demanding perfection, but considering your own situation.