Here are some possible reasons and solutions:
1. Changes in living environment: After entering university or work, we may enter a brand-new living environment, meet different people and things, and get in touch with different social circles. These changes may lead to alienation or severance from friends.
2. Different hobbies: With the different time and experience, we may change our lives and hobbies, which are no longer the same as our friends' topics and hobbies, and may also lead to estrangement or break up.
3. Differences in social circles: After college or work, we may come into contact with different social circles, and the ways and topics of communicating with friends may also change. These changes may lead to alienation or severance from friends.
Personal growth: after entering the society, we may face all kinds of challenges and difficulties, and these experiences may lead to our growth and change. In this process, we may alienate or break up with our friends.
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Different values: Different outlook on life, values and lifestyles may lead to different ideas with friends, and may also lead to alienation or breakup.
Faced with these reasons that may lead to estrangement or breakup with friends, we should take the following measures:
1. communication and understanding: the relationship with friends has become alienated or broken, probably because of the lack of communication and understanding between them. I suggest you take the initiative to communicate with your friends, understand each other's recent situation and thoughts, try to understand each other's position and feelings, and try to solve the problem.
2. Find * * * Similarities: I suggest that when you associate with friends, try to find * * * similarities and find the same topics and hobbies. By sharing our lives and experiences, we can enhance mutual understanding and establish a closer relationship.
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Contact new social circles: If the relationship with friends has been alienated or broken, I suggest you try to contact new social circles and expand your social circle. In the new environment, meet new people and things and re-establish contacts.
4. Sincerity and respect: When getting along with friends, be sincere and frank, and try to avoid hiding your true intentions and needs. At the same time, we should respect others' feelings and privacy, and don't interfere excessively in others' lives.
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Accept change: after entering the society, we may face all kinds of challenges and difficulties, and these experiences may lead us to grow and change. In this process, we should learn to accept changes and adapt to the new environment and interpersonal relationships.
In short, it is normal that the relationship with friends will change with the change of time and space. We should understand and respect this change, try to find solutions to problems, and find new social circles to expand our influence.
Many people and things in life have passed, so there is no need to regret, entangle or even recall. Just like taking a bus, people get on and off at every stop. In fact, only the driver (family) can accompany you to the end. Every time you alienate a group of friends, it often means that you know another group of friends. You can't just live in the past forever, but always keep an open and positive attitude towards people you may know in the future.
Generally speaking, we should adopt a tolerant and understanding attitude towards the disappearance of friendship. Friendship in life is precious, but the relationship between friends is also changeable. We should face the change of friendship with an open mind.