An analysis of young college students' love morality
Abstract: With the development of society and the opening of ideas, it is an inevitable trend for college students to fall in love.
There are all kinds of problems. College students' love morality includes their moral understanding of love, moral feelings of love and ways of love.
Germany and the moral behavior of love.
(College students' moral understanding of love refers to their objective moral relationship with love.
Understand the principle and norms of this relationship, and conduct moral evaluation on this basis. The moral emotion of college students' love refers to their moral needs.
Attitude experience in emotional life. The moral will of college students in love means that they set a love goal and overcome difficulties to achieve it.
The psychological process of the goal. The moral behavior of college students' love refers to the existing love that they follow with social moral norms as the code of conduct.
The lifestyle shown in Love Life.
) The following will analyze some problems in the process of college students' love from three aspects.
And solutions.
Keywords: young college students
love
moral outlook
First, the current situation and analysis of college students' love morality
It is common for college students to fall in love during their school days.
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The average age of college students is
20
About 20 years old
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It's very close.
Citizens and adults are protected and bound by law.
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They are eager for love when their sexual psychology and physiology are mature.
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And the rules and regulations of universities in China.
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There are clear provisions in the regulations
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College students can get married.
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therefore
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There is no doubt that college students fall in love.
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but
Love is followed by ideological rejection and fluctuation.
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Endless quarrels between lovers
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Be trapped by emotion
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chuck up one's studies
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The end of regret
Live and fight for love.
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There was a campus wyndell dichinson incident.
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The influence of social phenomena
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With economic globalization
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Introduction of Western Cultural Concepts
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While accepting new ideas, college students
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Also accepted the "sexual liberation"
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"sexual freedom"
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With this in mind.
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Love is not about
marry
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Love is not an expression of true feelings. Being in love is considered as a way to solve troubles during college and a fashion.
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appear
A charm
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at present
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College students' love in school not only has a relaxed and free environment.
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It has its physical and psychological inevitability.
But love is more than love.
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It is also a moral activity.
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Zhejiang University students' goodwill "A person has a good impression on several opposite sexes at the same time,
And fall in love with it
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Do you think this is correct?
"
An investigation into ...
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answer
"Foot two boats.
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It shouldn't. "
10
A few years ago.
47%
~
100%
; but
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After many years, this kind of "multi-angle love" is almost deviant and the recognition is as high as.
49.8%
. Questions about chastity
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Now there is.
27%
Some students no longer regard it as women's life, but the oppression of human nature by traditional morality. Old customs have always been biased.
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Just consider it.
For women,
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in fact
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As a company,
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The virtue of discipline and self-discipline
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It is a quality in people's minds.
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Can consciously suppress people's emotions.
desire
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Strictly regulate human behavior.
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Men in love should correctly understand its meaning.
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The most direct meaning is to help people understand.
And grasp the value of your behavior in the process of love.
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two
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The negative influence of college students' bad tendency in love.
1.
Destroyed the foundation of good love and happy life.
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The famous writer Hugo said
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There are two births in life
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The first time is at the beginning of life.
That day;
The second time was on the day when love was born.
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visible
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What a noble feeling love is.
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Two of the same kind
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Heart to heart; Love each other; The two have the same idea.
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Synaesthesia
* * * Bitter
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When both sides are in a humble situation, help each other
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Beautiful love is the source of a happy life, and any utilitarian and selfish idea is a blasphemy against this beautiful feeling.
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also
Destroy the foundation of lovers' good love and happy life.
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The concept of love is actually a person's world view.
Outlook on life,
value orientation
optometry
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Opportunism in love is extremely unfavorable to the healthy growth of college students' body and mind.
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2.
The economic pressure is great.
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Violations of law and discipline have increased. Most college students are still pure consumers.
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tuition and miscellaneous fees
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Mainly the daily expenses.
Depend on parents
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Household goods, but the vanity of "comparing" makes many college lovers spend money like water.
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Gifts can't be returned less on holidays.
Miss by going up one flight of stairs?
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Ordinary parties should not be poor, but they should be turned over.
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My own daughter.
(
man
)
Friends should never be more shabby and fashionable than others.
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all of these are
Need money to support. The heavy economic pressure brought by love makes the "comparer" overwhelmed.
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Some people even take risks.
,
steal
And fraud
.
3.
Cause psychological problems.
The age of college students is generally in
17
~
22
About 20 years old
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Students in this age group experience less adversity and suffering.
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Although psychology is rapidly maturing
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But it is not fully mature.
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Psychological endurance is very limited.
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Once you are frustrated in love,
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having self-respect
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And self-confidence will be hit hard.
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It is easy to have psychological problems.
4.
Love is weak in moral consciousness and legal consciousness.
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College students are right.
"
nature
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Contempt and misunderstanding of ...
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Damage the dignity and sanctity of love.
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Polluted the campus cultural environment.
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It has seriously affected the normal development of college students' physical and mental health.
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College students' falling in love has become an unavoidable objective fact in today's university campus.
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Fall in love with college students.
Unhealthy trends and their negative effects cannot be ignored. Establishing correct love morality is beneficial to the health of college students.
Grow up to be a successful person.
Third, establish a correct view of moral love.
one
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) change the bad cognition of love.
1.
Mistake goodwill for love;
2.
Comfort to relieve boredom and fall in love;
3.
Love and marriage are two different things;
4.
Only love is supreme;
5.
Others have me;
6.
The appearance is worthy of the audience.
Two.
) choose the right time to fall in love
Love needs a mature time, and growing college students should carefully choose the time of love.
First, when the psychological development is relatively mature.
Second, when the outlook on life is relatively stable.
Third, when the social experience is relatively rich.
Fourth, when the economy is relatively independent.
Three.
)
Establish a correct view of love
The so-called concept of love is the basic view and attitude people hold towards love. The formation and development of the concept of love can be divided into three stages:
The first stage: the preparation stage of love concept, usually starting from middle school.
The second stage: the full development stage of love concept, generally starting from college. Young students are dissatisfied with life and feelings.
Confirmed
With the deepening, emotions began to develop from floating passion to stable rationality, and love gradually moved from obscurity to reality, which was manifested in the standard system of mate selection.
Change, enter the ideal choice period of love objects, outline the idealized opposite sex image in your mind, and form the criteria for mate selection in your mind. sequence
The third stage is the perfect and mature stage of love concept. At this stage, the concept of love is basically formed, and under the guidance of the concept of love, it begins to change from the problem of love.
Explore the practice of heartfelt love. When you find the gap between your love view and reality in love practice, you will re-examine the original love.
View, at the same time, according to the problems and requirements of social reality to be adjusted and revised, and constantly improve, form a stable view of love.
College students are in the full development stage of love concept.
In order to understand the meaning of love,
Know the nature of love,
Understand the foundation of love,
To make love occupy its proper position in life, we must correctly handle the relationship between love and learning, love and collectivity, love and morality.
(A) the relationship between love and school. We should strive for love from the success of our studies and careers. College students should focus on their studies and love each other.
Love obeys school. Only by correctly handling the relationship between love and learning can the power of love become the driving force to promote learning and learning.
The success of love will consolidate development.
(2) The relationship between love and the collective. Young men and women in love should not confine themselves to the world of two people. If they are paired,
Break away from the collective,
Will limit the scope of communication,
Hinder your own development and progress,
It is not conducive to optimizing personality and improving social adaptability.
(3) The relationship between love and morality. Only on the basis of noble morality can we combine the emotion of love with moral responsibility.
Get true love.
4) To make love develop healthily, we must cherish the moral value of love in the process of love and follow the moral requirements of love. This body
Now: the premise of love is that both sides are equal, respect each other's feelings, respect each other's personality, and force each other without their consent.
In the crowd.
When choosing a lover, we should not only pay attention to the appearance and posture of the other person, but also pay attention to the moral quality, and pay attention to the purity, kindness and thought of the soul.
Progress and emotional loyalty, don't judge people by their looks, take people by their money, and take people by their power position.