1. Understand that your situation is very common, and don't blame yourself for it. Just understand this problem and try to change it.
2. Understand the meaning of university: not only for studying, but also for surviving in society and exercising one's various abilities. There is a saying that "what you learned in college is what you left after you forgot all the knowledge".
The most important difference between university and high school is self-study and self-discipline. It may be difficult at first, but learn slowly.
Make a plan and carry it out step by step. The important thing is that the plan has not died. The plan needs to be adjusted according to the specific situation. For example, if you make a plan for this month, don't set such a thing as what time it is every day, because every day is different. You should mainly write down what needs to be done this month and the deadline. And roughly estimate the time you need to complete each task, and then assign tasks. In this way, you will be much more likely to finish the plan eventually, and you will have a great sense of accomplishment, which will increase your confidence in sticking to the plan in the future.
5. About failing the subject: When I first went to college, I also thought that college courses were very difficult, especially we had to study pure sciences such as advanced mathematics, linear algebra, probability statistics, college physics and college chemistry, which was very big. But as long as you listen carefully in each class, take notes (of course, not all, only the difficult points), and read the book several times after class, your homework will certainly not fail. So as long as you stick to it as mentioned in 4.
6. Of course, everything is based on your persistent efforts.
7. concentrate. When studying, you must concentrate, and you can't do your homework while turning on the computer. Have fun while playing. When studying, put everything that will affect your study, such as computers, out of sight. Only things for study are put on the table.
PS: Actually, there are many more. I can't remember it at once. Let's write so much first. Besides, it's no use talking too much. The main thing is to practice.
Second, learning methods.
1. You don't have to preview, but the teacher must read the textbook again after class to understand everything in the book and in class. You'd better make a summary after learning one. Because there is a lot of content in college, it is easy to remember.
2. Finish your homework carefully
3. English:
1. I heard: 1. Buy an English book with MP3, and read it every morning before getting up and going to bed (it is said that this period of time has the best memory) (it is better not to stop reading after MP3).
2. Watching American TV series: (1) Watching subtitles, watching images and listening to English (2) Watching images, listening to English without subtitles (3) Listening to English without subtitles and images, and being able to dictate (4) Just watching images, you can guess what the characters are saying through the scene.
If you can complete these four steps, I think your English listening and speaking should be very good.
3. When doing the problem: When listening, you must guess what kind of dialogue it will be by looking at the options when the paper comes down. When listening, you can listen with questions.
Two. Reading:
1. Reading more and remembering more are good for reading, writing and vocabulary.
2. Do the reading training of CET-4 or CET-6 simulation or real questions.
Don't worry about the correct answer after doing gestalt reading. Be sure to look at the detailed explanation of the answer and see why it is wrong and what the author thinks.
Three. Buy a word book and recite it every morning before going to bed. Don't be greedy, just recite dozens every day. It is suggested to recite "Liu Yi 5000" in CET-4 and CET-6 (there are exercises after each class); In TOEFL, it is recommended to recite words by category.
Third, (active) after-school life.
1. Choose some interesting or useful elective courses.
2. Join the Student Union: This is very helpful for your processing ability and interpersonal relationship. (PS students are sometimes very busy ... and often stay up late to finish the task ...)
3. Join various clubs to enrich after-school life: Don't join too much, choose one or two aspects that interest you.
4. Attending classes: free resources, you know, it costs money to attend classes outside (PS: to be honest, I haven't heard much about it ...)
5. Make friends and expand contacts.