Xiaoxing's material desire is not high, and the rent is only a few hundred yuan. She basically doesn't buy clothes and basically doesn't go out to buy food. Last year, the total consumption was less than 20 thousand. When the money was running out, she found a temporary job and resigned after a month or two. Continue? Get down? .
To tell the truth, the pressure of life now is really too great. For these young people, they don't have much desire for life, lose confidence in themselves after being frustrated, feel confused about identity change after leaving school, escape from themselves, lack goals, and can't find the value and significance of survival. There may be some incomprehensible contrasts behind the seemingly high degree of education, such as the high-pressure learning environment from childhood to adulthood, the internal examination papers that began when entering the university, and the mechanical labor after entering the job. They made all this? Squatting clan? Reason.
For people who like quiet and low-key, it is not invisible, but the circle is different, and we may not find it. Maybe these young people just haven't found the good jobs in the traditional impression, such as civil servants, doctors, teachers and so on.
Now young people have entered a new industry. Because of the pressure, their desire gradually declined, so they began to muddle along. Giving up is easy for everyone, and the comprehensive conditions are almost the same. If you want to go up, there are too many difficulties to overcome, but it is easier and simpler to give up.
How to build a city? Squatting clan? Stand up? If we want to change this phenomenon, we should change it not only from teenagers themselves, but also from various themes such as social environment, family and school.
Young people must first learn to accept themselves and find their own goals in life. Parents should give more understanding and encouragement and guide their children to find their own development path. Parents should not speak highly of their children's achievements, but should allow them to develop in a diversified way. Parents should change their ideas and reduce stress.