As the saying goes, facts speak louder than words. Let's learn some facts first. At the recent job fair held in colleges and universities, some business leaders said that employees' anxiety and communication skills have increasingly become the main driving force for enterprises to win in the market competition, so employers pay more attention to the "emotional intelligence" of job seekers when recruiting. A recent survey on college students' occupational adaptability shows that 42% students think that social communication ability is particularly important in job hunting, which greatly exceeds the proportion of professional ability, basic knowledge and skills and other knowledge abilities. When answering "You feel that you are particularly lacking in quality by choosing a job", the rate of choosing social skills is as high as 34.8%, ranking ahead of the ability to analyze and solve problems, operational skills and basic knowledge. The survey results show that more and more college students realize that the lack of social skills has become a "roadblock" for job hunting.

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Good social psychological quality and interpersonal skills are not innate, but can only be obtained in the social practice of recidivists.

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First of all, we must understand the connotation of extensive socialization, not excessive socialization, not promiscuity! There are essential differences between the three. We can't think that a lot of high-frequency social activities are extensive social activities. As for the social activities of people at different levels in class, you socialize with 100 people of the same kind, and you socialize with 10 people of the same kind. Which is more extensive? The answer is undoubtedly the latter! Therefore, it is extremely one-sided to think that extensive socialization will take up time and energy! Let's break through each other's main point of view, that is, extensive social interaction will affect learning and take up time and energy. Although the other party hasn't started to state their own views, we should nip in the bud) (~ 1 a3 G# V6 m8 s/ g: p' E

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"Taishan does not allow soil, so it can become big, and rivers and seas do not choose trickle, so it can be deep." Only by socializing widely and contacting people at different levels can we understand more values and ways of thinking, broaden our horizons, and understand how to think from different angles in our future study and life.

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4 P$ e0 S0 F8 l8 U！ F, A: O Today's society is a society of interpersonal communication, competition and cooperation. The increase of professional mobility and self-employment put forward higher requirements for college students' interpersonal skills. It can be said that interpersonal skills have become one of the most basic qualities of college students, and the most direct and effective way to cultivate interpersonal skills is to socialize widely and do good deeds. Why not?

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