Then why on earth? One of the most important environmental factors is: men! Woman! Divide! Cloth! Don't! Jun! How uneven is it? The ratio of male to female in most colleges and universities is seriously unbalanced. The number of boys in science and engineering colleges is far greater than that of girls. Looking for someone? Look at the girls around you to choose from. I finally met a happy one and finally got up the courage to contact me. Most of them are already taken.
Besides the curse of the ratio of men to women, what are the reasons? You said: "The proportion is insufficient, you can contact more to make up!" There are few girls, so it is always appropriate to have more contact. Ok, then let's talk about the problem of male-female contact. Who are the most exposed girls? Class, of course. In a class, a group, it is common to get together for dinner and sing KTV on weekdays. Talking about the sky is more logical, and there may be some chances of success. You say, all right! It's solved! Case solved. I found a way! Pair up independently in the class! How harmonious this is!
But unfortunately, the girls in the class are not enough to meet the needs of so many single boys. Many engineering majors only have three M-girls in a class. How to divide so many wolves? At this time, you found something was wrong again. Alas, there are so few girls in a class, it seems that the average ratio of men to women is not enough.
After talking about environmental factors, let's go back to the root of the problem and see what boys who don't chase girls think. First of all, because we don't have much contact, it's actually difficult to fall in love with anyone, such as junior high school, senior high school and even primary school. Sitting together every day, one-third of 24 hours a day, is easy to have deep feelings, but when you go to college, you rarely love someone who will never forget. Do you think it's because of maturity?
The sequela of puppy love being stopped, whether you like it or not, active or passive, the excessive intervention of middle school students in puppy love has affected your life. In particular, many people are not independent enough and brave enough to take a big blow. Even if there is a little sign, it is secretly suppressed. Sometimes we convince ourselves that this is friendship, but is this the case? Sometimes we are just afraid of being told by the teacher. We begin to deceive others like this, and then deceive ourselves like this. Time has turned the false into the true, and we have lost a large part of our ability to love.