I remember a famous person once said: the realization of virtue is made up of behavior, not words. The key to a brilliant career and a successful life is noble sentiment. Representing the future of our nation, we need to learn and inherit many things. However, the most basic question is: what kind of mental outlook, what kind of ideological quality and what kind of moral standards should we take over the baton of human civilization? Learning the subject "the relationship between public and private" makes us understand that the so-called "personal image" refers to the specific form and mental outlook that can arouse people's thoughts or emotional activities, and is a summary of the overall impression of people's inner beauty and external beauty. A person's "image" is not only the expression of personal civilization, but also the expression of social civilization; It is not only the embodiment of personal cultural accomplishment, but also the requirement of social development and self-development. In life, in every corner of society, everyone wants to be welcomed and accepted by everyone. To do this, we must create a good self-image. Now, as college students, we must create a beautiful image of college students. To create a beautiful image of college students, we must first understand the true meaning of "self-image" and "college student image": the so-called "self-image" is our psychological image of ourselves at any time and any place, the way we look at ourselves, and the way we know and feel ourselves. It refers to our hearts, not necessarily the way others look at us from the outside. Our self-feeling is an internal filter between us and the "outside world", through which we can examine and evaluate our life and performance. It determines our belief in what we do, what we say and feel, involves our motivation, perception and attitude towards people and things, and affects and is influenced by things around us. On the whole, the image of college students is a comprehensive impression of college students' appearance, speech and behavior. In the comprehensive impression, the first impression is quite! Yes, because appearance and praise are more intuitive. The good image of college students is cultivated and shaped from the university campus. Secondly, cultivate and shape the good image of college students from their own words and deeds and appearance, and pay attention to language. Language is the basic tool of human communication. People exchange ideas, transmit information and express their feelings through language. Civilized language sets up the image of human civilization, eloquent language sets up the image of human eloquence, humorous language sets up the image of human humor, and hypocritical language sets up the image of human hypocrisy. 2. Be polite. Manner refers to a person's style, appearance, manners and attitude, and also refers to the explicit expression of a person's spirit, temperament and personality. Therefore, demeanor actually includes mental state, appearance etiquette, behavior attitude and manners. It actually reflects a person's morality, character, temperament, knowledge, attitude and so on. Someone said, "Elegant manners are an unimpeded passport to a friend's heart. "This is a" passport "that every college student friend who is eager to succeed in choosing a career deserves. 3. Pay attention to the instrument. Instrument is an important aspect of college students' self-image. Appearance image mainly refers to a person's appearance and figure. It is an intuitive external image composed of individual physiological characteristics and clothing. Beauty in appearance is the natural beauty of human beings. People with beautiful appearance won the first chance of success, because people in modern society are used to looking at, evaluating and choosing people by the standard of beauty. 4. Pay attention to specific behaviors. Behavior must be correct. You don't need to "walk like the wind, stand like a pine, sit like a bell, lie like a bow" like the ancients, but at least you should stand and sit like one. In fact, people's gestures and smiles will leave a lasting impression and produce unexpected effects, and their actions and actions should not be taken lightly. Pay attention to public civilization, such as don't talk loudly in public places, don't spit everywhere (don't laugh, this is a very serious problem. ), don't bring inconvenience, such as standing left and right when taking the escalator, and don't lean on the handrail when taking the subway by car. Be polite to people. Pay attention to manners and be polite to people. As the saying goes, "Many people don't blame etiquette", and China is also a country of etiquette. As a college student, I have studied knowledge and culture for so many years. If I don't even know manners, I will learn in vain. Courtesy, respect for the old and love for the young, righteousness as a friend, tolerance as an enemy, this is the real ceremony. Pay more attention to exercise. College students are lazy in their daily life (especially in their junior and senior years) and stay motionless in front of the computer all day, which not only directly damages our eyesight, but also reflects our health, thus invisibly affecting our own image. Again, interpersonal communication is not only the shaping of one's own beauty from the above words and deeds, but also the overall function of thought, ability, knowledge and psychology. The lack of any one aspect will affect the quality of interpersonal relationship. Some students have bad psychology in interpersonal communication, such as social fear, timidity, shyness, inferiority, indifference, loneliness, isolation, suspicion, pride, jealousy, etc., so it is difficult to establish good interpersonal relationships. Strengthen self-training, improve their psychological quality, and communicate with each other with a positive attitude. 2 Improve your interpersonal charm. Every individual has his inner interpersonal charm, and he is the embodiment of a person's comprehensive quality in social life. This requires college students to enrich their inner world, from appearance to speech, from image to knowledge, and improve themselves in many ways. Psychological research shows that a good social image will leave a deep impression on each other in the first communication, and with the deepening of communication, knowledge will become more dominant. Especially the personality cultivation of college students, and expand their own connotation. 3. Let the reputation increase (1), and keep your word. If you say it, it doesn't matter whether it goes up or down. You can't say the same thing to the previous one and say the same thing to the next one. In this way, if you gain a few, you lose the majority, and if you lose the people's hearts for a long time, you will be shelved. 2. Things will end. Nothing is big or small, and what is promised must have results. The so-called result is an echo, whether good or bad, it is a reply. As long as you try your best, the other party will understand, otherwise, you will perfunctory each other. After a long time, you will know that there will be multiple negative effects. 4. Be helpful. When others need your help, as long as you are not arrogant, you should promise without thinking and do your best. If there is nothing you can do, you should tell the reason directly to gain people's understanding. Don't speak ill of others behind their backs. Speaking ill of others behind their backs can only damage their own image. 6. Be kind and human. Even in the face of strangers, be polite in trifles and details, and don't think you are superior. 7. Have a strong sense of justice. Right is right, wrong is wrong, don't follow suit. 8. Do things openly and honestly, and never use despicable or cunning means to achieve your goals. 9. Be patient when listening to other people's opinions. Be able to listen to others' opinions patiently, express your opinions objectively and modestly, and don't be stubborn.