Young men and women in the new era are becoming more and more open-minded, and everyone is no longer constrained by the concept of love and marriage in one step. If you feel together, don't push the future to the point of talking about marriage. If one day, everyone has no feelings, they are free to break up. Skin-to-skin dating is a piece of cake, and cohabitation will inevitably lead to physical contact, which also makes many female college students pregnant. Although I haven't graduated from college, it seems that pregnancy and abortion are no longer rare.
After Li Juan went to college, she changed several boyfriends back and forth. After all, it is a bit unreasonable to have no predecessor in this era. After staying for a while, Li Juan and her boyfriend went out to rent a house. When two young people live together, it is inevitable that the gun will accidentally go off. Li Juan was pregnant for four times, and an ex proposed to him, but Li Juan didn't want to settle down, so she refused, aborted the baby, and the two broke up. Li Juan has no idea about marriage, saying that she is too far away to think about it for the time being. Li Juan is not surprised by such a situation. Some of her friends are pregnant, some are attached to the "big boss" and have everything. There are really not many men and women who have never been in love on campus.
According to a survey, more than half of female college students are pregnant after intimate relationships, which is already quite high.
So why is the pregnancy rate of female college students getting higher and higher when they are not married?
1, I'd rather not take protective measures in order to feel safe.
Although the atmosphere of lovers in love is good, because both sides are not mature enough, women are prone to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss in relationships. Always worry about whether the other person is tired of himself, and whether he doesn't like himself after the love period. Therefore, when intimate relationships occur, some girls are more willing to "do things" without security measures in order to seek security, which leads to an increase in the probability of pregnancy.
The girl who did this was both distressed and helpless. Women are willing to give everything for love, but it is definitely not a good idea to leave a man's heart on his children.
2, at the critical moment, I don't know how to refuse.
Many times, the first sexual act between lovers takes place in a bush fire. College students are adults. Although many girls are in love for the first time, the secretion of hormones makes them want skin contact. Faced with such a situation, many people don't know how to choose whether to refuse or accept.
Facing the hesitation of girls, it is not an absolute refusal, but it is acceptable in the eyes of boys. As a result, many women are half-coaxed and half-deceived before they really get in touch with each other, which happens unconsciously. This has also caused many couples not to take safety measures when they have sex for the first time, leading to an increase in the proportion of pregnancy. Perhaps, for many people who fall in love for the first time, the first intimate relationship comes suddenly and is at a loss, because not knowing how to refuse may lead to pregnancy.
Therefore, girls must think clearly before having sex, whether to accept or refuse, and don't let things happen in a muddle.
3, vanity, playing with feelings.
With the growth of age, people begin to have psychology and ideas other than study and life, the most prominent of which is people's comparison and vanity. College students are becoming more and more independent in economic management and have more and more understanding of money. Many girls want beautiful and expensive luxury goods, but they have no money. The idea of wanting a rich boyfriend is particularly strong at this time. So sometimes we will see some female college students get off luxury cars, or lead middle-aged men who are very different from their age.
Those successful people, with money and time, can give girls a lot of material satisfaction. Some girls want to find a rich man because of vanity. Because the boyfriends of people around you are better than their boyfriends, rich and considerate, and the heart of comparison has also made many girls lose their heads.
In order to live a superior life in vain and satisfy their material desires, many people become slaves of money. The girl seems to be a caged bird. Even if the other party doesn't want to take protective measures, you have no reason to refuse, because you have got what you want.
Maybe some people think you are so lucky that you won at once. But life is often bloodier than TV series. The girl with this mentality finally got pregnant, which is not pitiful, because she doesn't take her body seriously at all.
What effect does regular pregnancy have on women?
Although some studies show that women can get pregnant more than 40 times at most in their lifetime, too many pregnancies will bring a lot of harm to women's health.
Men and women in love always want to contact each other more. However, despite this, women still feel uneasy. "What should I do if I am pregnant?" They are afraid and unfamiliar with pregnancy. If you don't want children, you must have an abortion. Don't think that this is just a simple operation. Abortion is equivalent to giving birth to a girl. After the operation, women are weak and need to be recuperated by confinement, otherwise it will bring great harm to the body, leading to poor health, cold hands and feet and sudden weight loss. If you have multiple pregnancies and miscarriages, think about the pain you have to go through, which is a great blow to the girl's health. It is not surprising that some girls are pregnant many times, but it will actually lead to an increase in the probability of female infertility, and it is also easy to cause irregular menstruation and various gynecological diseases.
Many times, intimacy is based on mutual love. Many girls are sincere, whether passive or active, but for their own health, safety measures must be done well. Girls should know how to love themselves, and to love themselves is to be responsible for themselves. Don't make fun of your body for a moment of "infatuation" and "passion" Love yourself and take good measures, and your life will be less painful and troublesome.