After the exam, parents will choose to invite relatives and friends to dinner, so that they can tell relatives and friends that their children have achieved academic success and receive congratulations from all parties.

However, the once-popular admission banquet has recently turned into a weariness of entering a higher school, and many people are miserable when they mention it.

First, sort out the events.

For candidates, it is a very happy thing to be able to enter colleges and universities after their academic achievements come out. Parents pay attention to etiquette and will choose to go to hotels to entertain relatives and friends. In addition to expressing congratulations, relatives and friends will also express their support for their children's studies and give them some red envelopes to congratulate them.

However, too many people hold school banquets. Some netizens said that their friends have only been there with their children. I used to be admitted to the university and hold a school banquet. Now I am admitted to high school, and those who are admitted to undergraduate courses also hold school banquets. A child has been there more than once. When he goes to eat, he always asks for a red envelope to show his mind. The burden is too great.

Parents think that their children have finally passed the exam, and more people should know the good news, so they invite all their relatives and friends to dinner. On the surface, it is mutual congratulations, hoping that the children will develop better in the future, but after a full meal, it is business. These relatives and friends can give their children some financial support. Although they treat people to dinner, they can't bear to have many relatives and friends, so they can return their money and make a net profit. Over time, they can't control themselves. Whether to participate, if the child is too young, in case of no contact in the future. If you don't go, the relationship between the two people will be unfamiliar again. How can you get along in the future?

Second, the event reflection

School banquet is a very common thing in society. As long as there are students at home, they will basically hold school banquets and attend other children's school banquets. Its original intention is to congratulate children on being admitted to an ideal school and developing better in the future. But now it has become a means for many parents to seek benefits. Parents can take advantage of school banquets to accept red envelopes from relatives and friends for legitimate reasons, so that many parents will entertain relatives and friends no matter what their children do.

Some friends' own students may have an exam soon, so they think they should take it. Anyway, they sometimes hold banquets themselves, but some friends may not be married, so giving students red envelopes will feel a little wronged. In addition, they often hold graduation parties, which cost one-to-many each time, which invisibly increases their living burden.

School banquets have existed in society for so long that it is impossible to cancel them all at once. What parents should consider is how to handle the school banquet correctly, which will not only receive the blessing from friends, but also make friends and relatives feel miserable and unable to afford it.