I discussed this question in depth when I was in college. Nowadays, college education in society is not only about learning professional knowledge, but also about self-cultivation.
When I was in college, students with good grades didn't necessarily get along well after graduation. On the contrary, people with above-average grades, self-cultivation, aura and wit get along better. When the students with good academic performance were admitted to the civil service, the students with medium academic performance had already bought a house and a car.
The ultimate goal of going to college is to have a good development in the future, improve one's self-cultivation and cultivate one's atmosphere, so as not to mix too badly in the future.
I don't quite agree with what you said. It's someone else's business to mix people up if you can't go to college. In case someone has a family business waiting for him to take over, you can go without this diploma, in case someone has connections. Being yourself is the most important thing. You need to know your actual situation and what you should do. People who have gone to college will have different horizons, knowledge and temperament. If you ask if you have studied in a university, I think you should look at the standards. Is it true that a man without a primary school diploma becomes a big boss and a doctor works under him? Yes, can you? There are a lot of people in the university, do you want to?
Look at a group by the worst standards, and you will never see the real facts. If there are people hanging out all day in college, are all college students hanging out? Are there any college students who can't find jobs, and all college students can't find jobs? It's too one-sided. If you stay at home and loaf around all day, it's really useless for you to go to college, because you live in a dormitory and it's no different from not going to college. As long as you can work hard to reach one third of high school, it should not be difficult to find a job. Can reach two-thirds, that is a great god.