Great youth, a year out of school is a waste. I think weariness of learning is not a physical reason, but a psychological one. The school has a psychological counseling room, so talk to the psychological teacher. Or talk to better teachers, classmates and friends.
Has the university started yet? Don't you like your major? What's the problem? What you said is that you are suddenly tired of learning, but I think one thing has a great influence on you.
You are in adolescence and easily confused. See what advice the counselor gives. Don't drop out of school easily, because you have dropped out of school for a year, which is really too long. I feel a little pity.
Thank you for your invitation.
You said that college life suddenly became very confused, and you began to be tired of learning and wanted to have a rest.
Is it feasible to study for one year?
As can be seen from the problem, you are a thoughtful and brave person.
People. It is normal to be confused at some stage of life.
Yes At the moment, I'm curious, what makes you suddenly very
Confused? What happened? Can you be more specific? while
What do you feel at this moment when you say this?
Suffering?
You can think about it or write it on paper, for example
What will happen to you if you drop out of school? What will you do if you don't quit school?
What is it like?
If you are given an imaginary wand and you wave it,
Your life will change. What do you want it to be?
What about the appearance? If you were given an imaginary wand, you would
What will you change with a wave of your hand? When you change
Now, what did you find? Your moment
How do you feel? What about your family and friends?
You know?
When you come out of your heart with these questions.
At this moment, do you have a new decision?
I believe that confusion and confusion are also opportunities for you to grow.
# Psychology has you # # Counselor said #
What makes you feel confused? I suggest you find out the reason why you are tired of learning. Don't you like majors? Still hard to learn? Still feel that the employment prospects are not optimistic? or ...
If it is a professional problem, you can consider changing your major, but the opportunity is only once. I hope you can consider weighing the pros and cons and choose a better major. But after major adjustment, I'm afraid there will be a process of adaptation, so you should be mentally prepared. If there is a big span with the original major, I'm afraid it will be reduced by one year, which is also a factor to be considered.
If you have difficulties in learning, you have to find ways to fill in the shortcomings as soon as possible. You are a college student, which means there should be no problem with your learning ability. You can make a feasible plan for yourself, and if you work harder, you should still be able to keep up.
If you feel that the employment prospect of this major is not optimistic, you can do a career planning consultation, consider studying part-time in a second major, and give yourself an alternative path, which is a wise choice. However, it needs to be reminded that you should graduate smoothly, otherwise you will have trouble getting a job in the future.
If it is for other reasons, it is necessary to prescribe the right medicine. Puberty confusion, some from psychological problems, if necessary, do psychological counseling, let professionals help you analyze the reasons, study countermeasures together, avoid detours and delay time. The good days are gone forever. I hope you will get out of your confusion as soon as possible, cherish your youth and make great achievements.
What is the most precious thing in the world?
Time!
Quitting school is not recommended. You can use the holiday to go out for a walk, volunteer or teach, experience real life, graduate early, and there are more important things waiting for you!
My suggestion is that it is best not to drop out of school, because once you choose to drop out of school, you will not want to go back to school. Because this kind of thing really happened when I was in college, that is, our classmates. I majored in preschool education in college, and there are more girls in my class. There is a girl who doesn't like her major very much because her mother chose it for her. After consulting with my mother, I chose to take a year off from my sophomore year. I thought I'd come back from a year off to finish college, but I didn't come back when we graduated.
College life is very different from high school life. The pace of study is not so tense, the teachers are not so strict, and the learning tasks are not so heavy. People are relatively free, and if self-control is not strong enough, they will feel confused more easily.
In my opinion, the two stages of college are easily confused.
The first stage is when the university just entered the school.
When I first entered the university, I would feel fresh about many things, and I would also compare my present situation with that of my senior three. This relatively free atmosphere will easily make you loose. When people spend a period of time aimlessly, without precipitation or harvest, they will feel very confused. I want to know why I want to go to college and why I want to learn this knowledge.
If you are confused during this period, my suggestion is to participate in various club activities and enrich your life. Because, once a person's life becomes full and there is not much time to think, this sense of confusion will be weakened, so that it can slowly return to normal.
The second stage is approaching graduation.
Faced with the problems of internship, finding a job and what to do in the future, people will easily feel confused. And this kind of confusion will last for a while, but with the stability of your work, you will slowly find your way and your confusion will gradually weaken.
I wonder how old you are. University is a rare time in life and a good time to study. When you work, you will find that there is no such quiet and peaceful time to study. So you can take a proper vacation, relax, adjust your mood, adjust your body and mind, and then go back to school. For you, this is the best opportunity to learn and improve, and now there is an epidemic, the employment situation is very severe, and the pressure of professionals is also great, so take this opportunity to study hard, improve yourself, improve your skills and make your life better. Trust you. Come on.
College life is suddenly confused and tired of learning. I want to take a year off and adjust. Is it feasible? According to the meaning expressed in the title, Mr. Zhou Xiao does not recommend dropping out of school.
Reasons for the confusion of college life: Why not be confused when you are not fully adapted to the environment and have many choices? Because senior high school does problems according to the needs of the curriculum, there is no extra time to think about other things, and there is only one choice, that is, going to college.
When you get to college, you will find more free time, more time to plan and control yourself, and more choices. When there is no class, you can study by yourself, play basketball, go shopping, play games or have a rest in the dormitory.
Look at the environment. Everyone around you will have different choices. People who like to study go to the study room with bags, students who like to go shopping, students who want to develop hobbies join clubs and so on. It seems that everyone has his own suitable choice and is happy.
At this time, an uncertain heart that does not adapt to this pace of life shook. I feel that I love studying, so I also go to the study room. I find that I can't sit still, and I want to join a club and look back, because I have no talent and am shy. Playing games in the dormitory feels decadent. If you think about how fulfilling you were in high school, you don't know what you should do and what is right in college, just like the grass on the wall swaying in the wind.
I began to be confused and tired of studying, didn't want to stay in school, and even wanted to go back to the third year of high school to repeat.
Make a good plan to make college life no longer confusing. I remember that counselors often mentioned the word "confusion" in class meetings in universities. You're not the only one confused. In fact, most students will have this situation, but you have not communicated.
At that time, the teacher also gave us a sentence: "When you feel confused, it is time for you to study." Whatever you study, you don't need it now. Learning can't be wrong, and learning is the lowest cost.
When you are confused, you can talk to the teacher. If you are embarrassed to talk to the teacher, you can go to the seniors and ask them how to deal with this situation. You can also go to the school's mental health counseling center to seek the help of professional teachers.
In fact, the real way to get rid of confusion is to work hard on yourself, find the goal, make a good plan and go on steadily.
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Regarding the suspension mentioned by the main body, Mr. Zhou Xiao did not mention it. Returning to school after dropping out of school may be confusing. This is a stage that life needs to face and experience. Choose a choice that suits you, don't be timid, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and go on firmly, and you will succeed. Perhaps this is the true meaning of growing up, enjoying life while experiencing unhappiness.
Finally, I quote a passage from Bi Shumin to end this answer.
I am a teacher Zhou Xiao, a tutor, a remedial class and a class taught by a school. I hope my answer will bring you something.
Many college students have this experience. When they were freshmen, they felt very fresh and just "liberated" from high school. For many people, high school life is boring and not "free", so their freshman life is completely released and they are free to fly themselves.
Freshman passed by in a hurry, and by sophomore year, many people began to be confused, not knowing how to spend their college life, whether to continue like this or to re-plan. Unfortunately, many people waste their college life in such a hurry. At the age when they should really struggle, they chose comfort and regret their lives. Therefore, I feel that when I am a sophomore, I must have a clear plan for my future. In order to have a clear plan, I need to ask myself some questions. The first question is, what will I do in the future and what is my long-term goal? It can be said that the person who knows me best is myself. In order to find the direction, it is very important to have a correct and clear positioning for yourself. For example, if someone wants to be a university teacher, then you need to know what it takes to be a university teacher, such as a doctor's degree. You should prepare these conditions for yourself, take your time, slowly but surely, step by step, and the final success will definitely belong to you.
Secondly, what I want to say is that a long-term goal must be accompanied by a short-term goal. If there is only a long-term goal, it is easy to make the goal fall into fantasy and not be in place when it is implemented. From this perspective, this goal is of little significance. Short-term goals can be set as one-year goals or one-semester goals. You will find that many successful people are a combination of long-term goals and short-term goals.
Of course, everyone has their own college life. Everyone is an independent individual. We shouldn't compare ourselves with others. Life belongs to us. Take every step and watch yourself make progress every day. This is promotion, long-term persistence and a happy life must belong to you.
It is true that college students can apply for suspension due to illness or personal needs, but suspension is of great importance and needs careful consideration.
First of all, taking a year off school means that students graduate one year later than their peers, which means that you need to spend more time completing college courses. This is the most intuitive influence.
Secondly, if you come back from a year off from college to continue your studies, you will feel unable to study at first. After all, it takes time to take a year off from school and not study at all.
Thirdly, you need to re-establish the interpersonal relationship with your classmates, because your classmates have started the next stage of the course after a year of suspension, and you need to take classes in the same classroom as the next class. Finally, the educational work and training plan of the university will change, and the university will accept the new educational work and training plan after returning to school for one year.
Finally, learning is not an easy task. It's normal to be confused in your study. What we need is to adjust our mentality in time, not to avoid it deliberately. Really not in the state, you can give yourself a little vacation, go out for fun, travel, go home for recuperation and so on. It is still not recommended to drop out of school here.
People's emotions often have some ups and downs, and when things go wrong, there will be some relatively low and negative emotions. If the times change, I will also pay attention to adjustment, which will gradually ease to a normal and positive state. Young people are particularly prone to this situation. I was the same when I was young.
You said you were suddenly confused. I wonder if you feel that you have no sense of direction, no goal, no idea what to do, no interest in anything and no mood. If this is the feeling, you can take the following measures to adjust and try:
First, tell your trusted friends. Second, go out for a walk and change the environment. Now that the epidemic is basically over, we can go for an outing or hike on May Day.
Third, calm down, remember and sort out what important things are worth writing down when you grow up.
Under normal circumstances, I believe you can adjust your mentality and emotions and gradually cheer up.
Generally speaking, don't drop out of school easily; It doesn't matter if you really drop out of school, but it's okay to think about what you can do during your suspension and turn it into an interesting, meaningful and valuable time. All roads lead to Rome, as long as you are a positive child.
Have fun!