Nowadays, male college students don't feel very concerned, and rarely spend a lot of time and energy chasing a girl they like. This is not because male college students are not so interested in girls, nor because they have no time. In fact, after in-depth observation and analysis, the reason why male college students prefer to be single is actually very helpless.
1. The economic cost is too large to bear.
More than a decade ago, universities were relatively pure land, chasing girls was relatively simple, and the economic expenses were not as big as they are now. At that time, girls were easily moved by a boy's flower and a movie, and their living expenses were not big. As long as these expenses are saved, there will not be too much pressure on the economy.
Nowadays, college girls have broad horizons, and it is difficult for boys to impress them with roses and movies. Now many girls like to use Apple phones, IPAD and other electronic devices, often thousands or even tens of thousands. These economic expenses are unbearable for most boys who have no income. Even in love, girls buy high-end cosmetics, beautiful clothes and so on. This is an endless expenditure.
Male college students can't afford these economic expenses, and it is difficult to get the favor of girls. Boys simply don't chase girls, preferring to live alone.
2. Girls are not serious about feelings, and it is often boys who are sad.
In the past, girls fell in love, and once they established a relationship with boys, they were eager to get married. But now, with the open concept, many female college students have no intention of getting married when they are in love, and even when they are in contact with boys, they will not refuse to date other boys.
This practice sometimes makes boys very disappointed and sad, and often falls into the pain of falling in love. Many times, boys have experienced the blow of love and often prefer to be happy bachelors rather than pursue girls.
3. In the face of breaking up after graduation, I don't want to face fruitless feelings.
I fell in love at school and had to break up when I graduated. Many times, because of different regions and different family environments, they can't live in the same city, and they can't solve their married life in the future. Adventure island, which has become an unavoidable problem.
Many boys want to understand, since there is no result, why delay girls' youth and years? This will only make them both miserable. Although love is beautiful, there is no need to let it start without marriage. Especially the younger generation, will not sacrifice their future for love.
4. Social competition pressure, no energy to chase girls.
It is undeniable that it is difficult to find an ideal job after graduation because of the increasingly fierce social competition. Nowadays, college students are not as popular as before, and it is difficult to develop in society after they can't find a good job.
How can I find a good job? Only after graduation can we achieve excellent results in school, which is the only hope. As men, for the sake of parents' expectations and their own future, male college students focus on their studies and improve their abilities. I don't have the financial conditions and time to chase girls.
Many times, due to economic pressure and ideas, male college students would rather live a single life than chase girls. Objectively speaking, students' thoughts are not very mature during college. If the conditions are not suitable, love will only take up a lot of time and ultimately have no result. At this time, you might as well focus on your studies and wait until your ability is improved and your mind is mature to pursue love, which is a blessing to yourself and each other.