Many freshmen are particularly curious because they have just entered the university. The pent-up feelings in high school kept sprouting in my heart, resulting in the idea of love. Compared with the hard education in high school, college life is undoubtedly very free.
This change also makes students yearn for love, expect love, and launch a pursuit offensive against the people they like. Love comes, I don't know how to talk about it, I have no experience, I don't know each other, I pay blindly, and soon love is gone. Love has no goal and pursues blindly. Some people may think that we will always be together, we will get married, but often the result is separation. There are also many people who fall in love at the beginning of freshman year. Both of them wanted to get married, but they broke up in senior three. College students come from all over the country, and many people finally break up because the distance between them is too far, so they give in to each other and go to his/her city. In other words, the opposition of family led to the breakup of lovers.
Misunderstanding of college students' love:
1. Some students will regard love as a "game", seeking only the process but not the result. They fall in love on impulse and lack rational thinking, which leads to hot and cold. What's more, because they want to fall in love too much in the early stage, they will find that lovers don't really occupy their hearts, which is very distressing and unfair to others.
2. In the early stage, for the sake of their favorite opposite sex, some students made compromises, were too enthusiastic, and even tried to please. After falling in love, they become inseparable, follow each other, causing inner shadows, and even seriously regard each other as their own "private property". They can only talk to themselves and cannot communicate with others normally, so they are too jealous and possessive. If you affect others, you will also hurt yourself.
3. Be yourself before falling in love. Only by doing a good job of yourself and living a good life can a person shine a unique light and attract his own love. Otherwise, it may just be disguised to attract love.
Love is not the only thing in life, nor is it the main factor in life. If we regard "love first" as our only belief, as life, or even the whole of life, such a life and life will be like a stagnant pool. After a long time, we will be depressed and finally lose control of our emotions and behaviors.
Many people think that love is too idealistic and romantic, and they all want to get married and live comfortably with a talented, charming and single-minded partner. But in real life, people are not perfect. When encountering contradictions and problems, we should rationally control our feelings and emotions.
6. The motivation of some college students is not love itself, but to make up for their inner emptiness, loneliness or conformity. This kind of students seldom combine love behavior with marriage when choosing a spouse, and lack a sense of responsibility. There are also a few students who, in order to show their charm, associate with several opposite-sex students at the same time, engage in multi-angle love, and are not even sure about their relationship.