1, agree with your own ideas

Many people don't have their own opinions, mainly because they don't believe in their own ideas. They are hesitant and indecisive when they meet things, and they are easily defeated. In the process of growth, it is like faith, like a beam of light, leading us forward. We believe in it and agree with it, and our hearts will be filled.

Step 2 learn to refuse

When you encounter something you don't want to do, be firm and powerful, and refuse others generously. Don't over-explain, you have the right to refuse.

3, have their own principles and bottom line.

Your character, position, bottom line and principle, if compromised, are the principles that others can trample on you at will. Without the bottom line of principle, how can we stick to ourselves and have our own opinions?

Step 4 stay sane

Compared with boys, girls are naturally emotional, and often emotional feelings will lead us to make wrong judgments, so it is very necessary to train our rational thinking. We need to be rational in love, social interaction and work.

Step 5 read more books

Girls who don't have their own opinions often get into trouble because they lack knowledge reserves in their hearts. Then if you want to become independent, you might as well read more books. If you read more books, you will form your own opinions, have your own independent ideas, and know what you want and what you don't want.

6. Go out and see the world more.

Girls who have seen the world are more likely to have a big picture. When you have seen everything, you will not be trapped by some small difficulties and interests, because you know what the world is like and where your final direction is. You can travel once or twice a year. Don't go to hot spots, there is no point in crowds. You can go to places like Northwest China and Tibet to make you feel the shock brought by the magnificent scenery.

7. Make more excellent friends.

Man is the product of the environment, and the environment will affect him. You can be what you are in what kind of circle, so learn to socialize and make more friends than yourself. If the level of friends around you is not as good as you or similar to you, it is difficult for you to have room for improvement.

8. Have your own goals and pursuits.

Think clearly about what you want and what kind of person you want to be, and then use reverse reasoning to know what you should do.