First: There are several classmates around me, mostly single mothers and babies, who make love loudly in front of female friends every day, but when they really introduce boyfriends to them, they will immediately refuse. If male students chase them, they will be at a loss, will not get along with boys so much, and will immediately refuse others.
Second: don't want to fall in love, concentrate on your studies. I also have such people around me, who are excellent, but never fall in love. Such people don't want to fall in love, maybe they haven't met the person they like yet. Some students think that they are still students and have no ability to give the other half a good life. They want to study hard and improve themselves, so that when they meet someone they like, they can move forward boldly. There is a saying that is true. In front of the person you like, we really feel inferior.
Third: one of the main reasons why college students don't fall in love is that they have been waiting. I found that people around me want to fall in love and have someone they like, but they never take the initiative. They just want to wait for the person they like to confess to themselves, but in the end they may wait for the person they like to be driven away by others, and the person they like to fall in love with others. Therefore, if you have someone you like, you can take the initiative, especially for boys. If you take the initiative, the person you like may catch up. Unless the person you like likes you very much, you may wait for love. Besides, you can't wait for love just by watching it.
Fourth: It is best for everyone in college to have a love. If there is someone you like in college, you'd better be brave. At least the students around you are college students. In college, there are many peers, so it is relatively easy to find a partner. Moreover, we are all classmates and spend more time together in our daily life and study. You can get along and get to know each other's personalities and other issues. Another important reason is that in college, everyone is inexperienced and simple-minded. If you leave the society, you will find that it is really not easy for you to find a college student like yourself. When you leave the society, you will find that not only girls want to find boys with better conditions, but also boys will take a fancy to girls' family conditions when looking for the other half. Of course, this does not mean that all people are like this.
Fifth: this kind of students, who are forced to be single, have no chance to contact the opposite sex at all, or have less contact with the opposite sex. For example, some normal schools have more women than men, and some engineering schools have more men than women. Only a few students of the opposite sex were preempted by students who started quickly. If most of the remaining students are introverted and unsociable, it is possible to be single for four years in college.
Sixth: Some students are single because they are too demanding. Some girls may have watched too many novels and TV plays, and always feel that their boyfriends are not only tall, white, rich and romantic, but also good at learning and capable. Do you dare to ask if such a person really exists? Even if such people really exist, there are certainly not many such people. So, we are all ordinary people. If you make the first decision, maybe your love will come.
There are classmates around me who want to fall in love and have been looking for someone else to help introduce them. When asked about their parents' requirements for the other half, they will say that they are capable, self-motivated and have a decent appearance, but if they really introduce their boyfriends like this, they will despise them.
In fact, being single also has its advantages. Sometimes we envy the sweetness of two people, and sometimes we are glad that one person is free.