Nevertheless, I am willing to believe that human nature is good and treat anyone with sincerity. Even if others are unfriendly to you and have a plan, just be yourself. When you can't influence the environment, you can change yourself to adapt to it.
There are really many dormitory problems in universities. I am a sophomore now, and I have been in the dormitory for nearly two years. The relationship between them is to meet every day and sleep together in the dormitory at night. Good people are still the same as before, and the relationship is just the same. I once fantasized about my college roommate, but I never thought it would be like this. In fact, I personally hope that my dormitory can help each other, be considerate and understand each other.
I remember that shortly after school started, my roommate and I had a big fight. Our class is divided into groups. There is a girl in our dormitory who wants to be with me, but I have an appointment with them again. Then I turned this girl down and didn't go with her. This group was divided by the temporary teacher during class.
But I don't think there is any right or wrong in this matter. Grouping means that everyone should be together when it is appropriate. I just don't want to be with them. When I return to the dormitory, she will question me and make me feel that I have committed some heinous crimes. Then, we didn't talk much for a week in a row. Later, she suddenly figured it out. She apologized to me and said that she had come to her senses.
Another time, I was the head teacher of Class One, and then I happened to meet the Mid-Autumn Festival. They gave me some moon cakes and I took them back to my dormitory. Personally, I don't like eating moon cakes, so I'll give you some. There are only four moon cakes, and I gave them to four people at random, but one girl didn't. She didn't give it to me for another reason, because she didn't eat moon cakes like me, so I divided it.
However, it seems that others don't understand this. She told me a joke directly. Why should she ignore me? It makes me stupid. She was obviously not joking, and then others contacted me for many days without talking to me, giving me the cold shoulder. Later, I explained to him the behavior at that time, and she thought she was too narrow-minded. Now she has moved out of our dormitory and changed rooms with others. Time can ease everything. She will talk to me now.
Contradictions need time and confession. If I do something wrong, I will apologize directly to others. But it's not my fault. If she misunderstood, I would explain to her. But if she doesn't listen, there's nothing I can do. I just need to be myself.