Get married in college
Did the other party take you away without giving your parents a penny, or did you say that you got married and didn't have a job, and you didn't earn a penny by marrying into his family? It should be the latter ... Both husband and wife work hard to earn money! If you are not too old, we can discuss having children later. That's not unfilial. There's nothing I can do if fate comes! You can also be filial to your parents after marriage.