I saw a report in the news some time ago, which caused many people to think deeply. A new college student refused to propose a toast at the company's annual party. Finally, the leader was furious and slapped him in the face, which caused great repercussions. Of course, it is wrong to hit people for whatever reason. But when you think about it, a large part of the hidden rules in the workplace is wine culture. How to deal with the relationship on the wine table is also very important. Even if there is no liquor, you can properly handle the toast and liquor of the other party, so that you and the other party have face. This is an important performance of a person's high emotional intelligence, which will make you more comfortable in social and family life!

The following is the way to deal with the wine bureau that doesn't want to drink.

Let me say a digression first. If you are a person who hates drinking, the best way is to try not to go and have fun. Because as long as you get into the wine bureau, it's hard not to take a sip of wine. No matter how good the eloquence is, if you don't drink the last bite, it will also affect the feelings between some colleagues, leaders or relatives. So cutting it off from the source in the first place is the best solution.

Then let's talk about how to seal it if necessary.

First, if you don't want to drink, don't drink in the first place.

If you don't want to drink when sitting on the wine table, you should try to show your dislike of wine and don't show your interest in it. For example, some people are like this. Although they don't like drinking, they still know something about wine and like to brag about their knowledge on the wine table. Such people are most likely to be drunk by others. So watch your mouth on the wine table, eat your food, and don't let others be interested in you.

Second, if leaders or elders come to propose a toast, they must find a reasonable reason to refuse if they don't want to drink it. You can improvise in the following ways:

It means that people who drive here can't drink. At the same time, he said that everyone here can drink it with confidence and send it home by themselves. Now everyone attaches great importance to drunk driving, so it is generally said that you drove here and won't let you drink.

2. Use your health as a shield. For example, I can say that I have a bad stomach recently, and I am taking medicine to recuperate, so I can't drink. At the same time, I took out the prepared small medicine bottles for everyone to see. Everyone sees that you have both oral evidence and physical evidence, and the general leaders or relatives will not make fun of your health, just forget it.

If you are a woman, you can use part of your privacy as an excuse to quit drinking. For example, you can say that you are in the physiological cycle and can't drink. Most people don't delve into this matter. Although he may be a little embarrassed when he says it, the method is definitely effective.

4. Move out of your family and drag your feet. For example, "my wife is strict" and "unhappy at home" are also common excuses that can be used to persuade wine on the wine table. Who likes to watch their families get drunk? If you move out of your family to quit drinking, no one will want to embarrass you.

5. pretend to be drunk. What if someone buys you a drink? I'm already drunk! At the critical moment, pretending to be drunk is also very useful. After all, others don't know how much you can drink. Drink when you are drunk, even if it is dangerous, the person who fills you may not dare to continue. At this time, it is time to test your acting skills. When you just pick up the cup, your hands must shake, your steps must be chaotic, and you must speak slowly (practice more). People on the wine table will definitely not persuade you to drink when they see you like this.

6. Run if you can. The wine table is about to pour, and most of them have signs. Seeing the atmosphere coming, it must be useful to leave quickly. Going to the bathroom and making phone calls are very useful skills. Do it when others should do it, and do it when you should, no problem!

7. The method of spreading disasters to the east. Is to let others drink for you, but this must pay attention to the scope and object of use. Generally speaking, it only applies to leaders to subordinates, or when there are good buddies who can drink especially.

In the face of the kind of wine that you have to drink, you should also find ways to protect yourself. For example, try to eat something before drinking, put it in your mouth first, and then spit it out when you have a chance. You can also drink water while drinking to dilute the alcohol concentration in your stomach. In short, if you can't drink well, you must think more about it yourself. To achieve health first, try not to drink if you can, and drink less if you can, without affecting people's normal interpersonal communication.