With the passage of time, everyone's understanding of himself will change, and sometimes it will be different in each period, but sometimes our self-awareness tends to be biased towards our own perfection, keeping the "embarrassment" completely in our hearts, not wanting others to know, let alone deeply understand it. So it won't be too easy to know yourself objectively. If you want to have a correct understanding of yourself, you must dare to face up to your shortcomings, go out in the sun without them, and provide no breeding environment for them.

I am also an ordinary person and have a vain heart. Seeing that their strengths outweigh their weaknesses, they sometimes "show off" their strengths to satisfy their vanity, so as to comfort themselves. Sometimes the cognition of oneself is superficial, after all, there are experiences, and maybe these cognition only lasts for a period. Let me analyze myself (in fact, I really haven't analyzed myself seriously).

First of all, I want to say that I am a selfish person. I don't defend myself. This is how I feel about myself. Sometimes many things only consider my feelings, what I will get, and seldom consider others. This is what I discovered recently. I can deeply feel it from a failed love I experienced, because I didn't stand in her position to think about this problem in the whole process. Not only that, sometimes I want to make excuses for myself. Deceived people's feelings and made her suffer unnecessary pain. I don't even know how to bear it. But all this came from my mouth. This kind of myself is the most unacceptable to me. Sometimes I try to control myself and put myself in her shoes, but sometimes I still can't control my feelings. Perhaps this is my selfishness, so as long as I say something that hurts her, I will regret it as long as I put down the phone, which leads to another problem, that is, self-contradiction. This situation has happened in the past, but after you have experienced this incident, this situation is more obvious, and sometimes it will make you feel even more distressed. Many times, doing one thing will make you fall into an embarrassing and contradictory situation and be at a loss. In my daily life, I am also working harder to change, to overcome my selfishness, to learn to put myself in others' shoes, and to think of others as much as possible, but to ensure that I can't lose myself and strive to improve myself. Another contradiction is that I have been adjusting myself and trying not to be overwhelmed by my actions.

If hypocrisy is used properly, it will be inexhaustible, but if its relationship cannot be properly handled, it may become poison, suffer greatly, and even the noblest soul will be corroded a little. Now, why do you propose hypocrisy here? Because I feel that sometimes I can't extricate myself from the quagmire of hypocrisy. I know this is a common problem at our age, and I don't expect myself to do it well, but I will try to stay away from it and remember to remind myself at all times. I don't know if I can succeed, because this road is extremely long and far away, and many people can't get rid of it all their lives. We can also see that the road is difficult, so we can only do our best and do our best.

I want to laugh when I write here. I haven't thought about myself seriously before, but now I look at myself quietly and understand my heart. I feel that I used to be really naive, even naive and stupid, so I can only laugh it off. After all, I will gain a lot in retrospect, which is also a part of my growth, and no one can avoid it. I am not a saint myself, and I cannot be perfect. Even so, I will try my best.

You can't just see the shortcomings. In fact, everyone can't be a beautiful crystallization, and it can't be an ugly collection. When God created man, he would make everyone have strengths and weaknesses, and let people do their best and perform their duties.

Sometimes we can't see our own advantages, perhaps because we are blinded by our high expectations. We don't know that "when we envy others, others envy us", so we should learn to discover our own advantages and keep them.

Let me give myself a chance to find my own beauty here.

Be careful. Being careful in life will sometimes lead you to discover many scenery that others can't see. Remember a sentence you once said, "You should pay more attention to your tone, attitude and way of speaking in the future. A casual sentence will make people feel warm." This is a sentence that flashed through my mind after listening to my friend's words. I told him what I thought. At that moment, we smiled at each other, and I think he understood what I meant. At that moment, I was very happy.

I know how to live. Why do you say that? Because I am often praised by others for my good life. At this time, I will tell him that everything is fine, just depending on how you choose to live. In fact, the university is a time of test. Many people make a mess of their lives. You'd better not live like that. Now that it's over, it makes sense. Otherwise, it will only be a trip in vain. The wind of extravagance has been blowing in universities in China, making many good children lose their direction in life. This may be related to the education system in China, because for many places in China, college life and high school life can be combined. Therefore, life should have the appearance of life, because life is to live, to live and to have charm, so it is called real life.

Knowing how to think, a person must have his own thoughts when he is alive, but many people live day after day without thinking about the value and significance of their existence and let their lives pass in vain. I think two things to learn in college are thinking and gratitude. If I really understand these two points, the meaning of life will be enhanced by more than one level. Since it exists, you can't be like a walking corpse, you must have thoughts and know how to think. Only in this way can we understand life and life.

The above is my own simple analysis, some of which are not objective enough. I hope I can gradually improve myself in my later life and have a real improvement.