Son. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't have sex with her.
If you feel uncomfortable, maybe the person you like is also suffering.
When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but with a little fear, she has a passion for this boy who broke into her quiet life.
Ambiguous psychology, she
Yes Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt. Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved. If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never answer this girl again, and protect yourself tightly and silently.
The wound, when you are in pain, everyone knows that the girl may regret it in her heart! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her.
Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart. She will think that you don't really like him, so you just give her up? Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is similar to that of men and women.
Positioning is inseparable. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive.
If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always touching ~ I always heard that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.
Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after encountering some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate boys who blindly follow others, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.
If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded. Therefore, it is recommended that some boys.
Don't be so timid to pursue a girl you like. First, people feel that you are not manly. Second, it makes you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you will get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!
First, what kind of first impression should I leave on girls (time: I just started to contact girls)
1, I think the most important thing is to let girls see your self-motivated. The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't talk about success for a long time. At this time, you should make girls feel that you are a self-motivated person. Others can.
But this question cannot be vague. You must tell girls that you are full of confidence in the future and you are not satisfied with the status quo.
2. Be confident and responsible. Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility. It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual. Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed. Girls like it a little
Men, so it seems that they don't care about anything, it's too light.
4, appear mature and calm,
Of men have sex with girls.
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Second, how to further contact with girls (time: the stage of starting to chase)
1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry and not to make things so clear.
Let people know at a glance that you are chasing. Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like an ordinary person)
Andy Lau or Kevin?
), goodwill needs to be realized with the increase of understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want. Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you start posing,
Posture, basically will immediately stuffy back.
2. To start with a low profile, we must first position the relationship as a "friend". Originally, they were "ordinary friends". If you want to be a "good friend", you can ask the other person to be a tasteful one.
"What, in short, don't say' chase you'. Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.
3, don't be too impatient in the communication process, relax, don't pester others all day, whoever does this to you will be tired. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold,
This is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years. You always follow her, and naturally you won't think you are good. If you are cold for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence. Never show the ambition of "don't marry or not". It is not good to be too fake. Sometimes you can play a little trick.
4. Create opportunities appropriately.
I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity. You can collect information and find a way.
Become an encounter; You can also pretend
Find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you. In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.
5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually. Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo. As the saying goes, "something for nothing". If you give something to others like this, you are putting pressure on them, and they will feel indebted to you, so girls will try to return your favor. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor. If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.
3. What exactly is a "girlfriend"?
1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise that you will start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything".
In the afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; 「
",you suddenly attacked and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend. I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, I am a girl: "why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend?" "So, don't rush to pierce that enough. The more vague the situation, the better for you.
2. What is "confession"?
As I said before, confession is actually just a form. The correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend before you can confess to others.
. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that they are very, very simple and very, very stupid.
3. Have you ever had to confess? Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while. The confession at this time is the confession with immature conditions, which is very risky, similar to the next time.
Sometimes the situation is grim, and the backward side is forced to release the "winner". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.
4. Don't export the word "love" easily.
I often see "bold confession" on the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility. A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.
1, not every girl can catch up.
There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be.
. For example, even if you study hard and master the highest principle of chasing girls, you can't catch up. Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who didn't graduate from primary school is kind to you, she will buy you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft) for 600 yuan a month and is willing to be a cow and a horse for you.
Fuck her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored. So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.
Chasing girls is a serious social activity.
Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out.
? Some girls will
(a few), if you are not convinced, you can
It turns out that "she was blind". Never mistake others for yourself.