In front of him, you can show your true side, and he can accept and tolerate your shortcomings. You don't have to force yourself to show what he likes, and you don't have to compromise yourself to cater to him.
Step 2 have time to be alone
Falling in love doesn't have to be boring all the time, and it doesn't have to be sweet every day. It will make you feel tired and kill your passion.
Have a relatively free space to do your own thing, focus on your own growth, and keep a sense of mystery.
3. Urge each other to grow together.
Long-term love is even. Encourage each other to make continuous progress and drive each other to become better people.
One is growing, the other is stagnant, and the gap between them is getting bigger and bigger. I am afraid this relationship will not last long.
Step 4 be friends with each other
Who knows the relationship between lovers and friends? ! Accompany each other, always cheer for him, always support and comfort him.
We can talk to each other psychologically, play games together and get along like friends.
5, don't pursue the feelings of 100.
There are no 100% lovers, only 50% lovers.
If you like him, you don't have to consider everything for him. Everything revolves around him. You can have your own career, family and friends.
We need to be allowed to love ourselves before we love others. Without the ability to love yourself, how to deal with the relationship of loving others?
At the same time, you need to let yourself accept that he loves himself more than us. Falling in love with human nature makes it easier to feel happy and relaxed.
6. Don't compare him/her.
Seeing someone else's boyfriend/girlfriend's behavior on the Internet is real-name envy. So I compared with each other and thought it would be nice if he did the same, and even asked each other.
But you don't see whether there is a quarrel behind the sweetness of others, and what both sides have paid for each other.
You just need to tell what you want the other person to be better, to guide and encourage ta.
In order to make your's relationship last longer, I believe that ta will change gradually.