Some people also dismissed it, saying that "those children with good grades are idiots who study, but they have no practical effect, and it is difficult to achieve great things in the future." However, these people I know who have good grades and can read are not only good at reading, but also extremely generous, friendly, fair and kind, and of high quality. They also have their own skills and hobbies. They are strict with themselves and persevere in everything, so they can master everything faster than the average person.
I also have friends who are "scum" in the eyes of others. They are generous, straightforward and heroic, have their own ideas and goals, or are kind and simple, and just want to have their own simple little happiness. I don't think top student is necessarily better than ordinary people, but being called top student is an affirmation to them. Learning is really boring, but they can do this boring thing to the extreme. Doesn't it just prove that they are serious, self-controlled, smart, patient and have mastered good methods?
If you can only use one word to describe them, it will probably be "cute". It is not only "tender and sweet" in a narrow sense, but also "loveable" and "worthy of being loved" in a broad sense. Because those top student people who appear in my life are really cute. Students who don't want to see the examples can skip to the last section. )
Actually, I've heard the name A for a long time. At that time, she was an avid fan of One Piece like me, and because girls who like One Piece are almost as rare as boys who like watching Korean dramas, I always wanted to know her out of a feeling of mutual appreciation. However, due to her dazzling aura, I never dared to rush forward. I didn't know her until the second day of junior high school, when we attended the cram school for new concepts together. As soon as we met, we talked about it, and as expected, we quickly established a revolutionary friendship.
It is said that she is unforgettable. I wonder if this is true. I only remember that I took New Concept English with her. Every time she finishes a new lesson, she can recite a new chapter fluently, but I just remember a few words. She told me a story. Her English teacher is very strict. The teacher once threatened in the class that someone would get up and recite the words after self-study early, and a mistake would be fined 1000 times. Therefore, the voice of English morning reading in her class is always one after another, wave after wave. One day at the end of morning reading, the teacher decided to find someone to check the results, and sure enough, he chose one with the best results.
When she recalled it, she guessed the reason why the teacher asked her at that time. She said, "Maybe it's because I'm the monitor ... and my idea is a little bad." What a coincidence! She happened to be unfamiliar with the word drawn by the teacher. Under the eager gaze of dozens of classmates and the earnest gaze of the English teacher, when she was nervous, she accidentally recited her mistakes. Although the teacher loves her very much, she still can't help counting her words in front of the whole class, so the teacher pondered a little and said, "Then copy 1000 times and give it to me before school on Friday." What the teacher didn't expect was that the next morning she received two thousand words copied by A staying up late.
I didn't know her for a long time when she told me this story, but as soon as I heard this story, I fell in love with this girl at once. What a self-respecting, hardworking and strict girl she is. In fact, besides studying, she is really an anime fan. Every season, she chases new fans, and there are almost no cartoons she hasn't seen. And every voice actor is a few treasures, even fan stories and so on, which makes me curious about how she takes care of animation and school. She is also a bookworm. She introduced me to many classic books, and then we can exchange our feelings and experiences together. She also likes table tennis very much. She gave me popular science Ma Long, Xu Xin, Fan Zhendong and so on. I even made an appointment with her to watch the table tennis match at the 2020 Tokyo Olympic Games.
B is a boy who is born to shine. A added a word "God" after his name to address him. I got very close to A, so I gradually followed suit and called him that. I once asked A why she called him "God". She said with tears: "I remember that I was only in the first grade of primary school. Once he and I happened to be watching the old man in the community play chess, and the old man suddenly coaxed me to play chess with him. I have always had confidence in my chess skills, but I didn't expect to lose so badly ... at that time, I thought to myself,' God, this man is terrible! "Mom, I want to go home!" ",she concluded with a disappointed face," B is the legendary other people's children ",and I couldn't help but vomit silently in my heart. In fact, for me, they are both legendary other people's children.
8th grade, B firmly occupied the throne of grade one, so that later we went to see the list of pre-grade 100, starting directly from the second place. At that time, he was only 14 or 15 years old, and he was more than 1.8 meters tall. He just walked with the wind on campus, and he was inconspicuous. Three years in junior high school, three years as a representative of mathematics class. Basically, when I go to the office to hand in my homework every morning, I can see B asking questions from his math teacher at the next table. I have always had a feeling of awe for this die-hard top student, the kind of awe that I stay at a respectful distance from others. But it was not until I met him by chance that I found out that he was really a very interesting person. Unlike his indifference and arrogance from afar, he is actually very friendly and easy to get along with in private. He is good at chatting, especially with girls (don't ask me how I know), and I can learn something new every time I chat with him.
I often played with him during the period near the physical education entrance examination. For example, I run 800 meters and he runs 1000 meters. Whenever we each set a new record, we will tell each other and wait for an opportunity to surpass it. For example, one day after my physical examination, I will tell him, "I ran three minutes and twenty-three meters today." He will praise me, and then the next day after his physical examination, he will tell me, "I ran for three minutes and twenty minutes today." I will praise him, too, and then I will tell him, "I ran 800 meters for three minutes and nineteen minutes today." In the long run, it will be repeated and enjoyed.
He also likes playing basketball, and his tall and thin figure is really conspicuous on the court, which is enough to make little girls who don't know basketball commit anthomaniac; He sings well, too. He can play the guitar and sing. I guess little girls are crazy. His emotional intelligence is also extremely high, teachers like him, and most boys who get along with him like him, not to mention girls. He himself once told me with a smile, "In fact, there are girls in our class who like me. I can see that. " I work hard on the surface, but I can't help laughing inside. Alas, such a college bully is actually a lovely boy who is affectionate and narcissistic.
C I know him better because he was my classmate in junior high school for three years. His math is really good enough to make people angry. He gets full marks or one or two points worse than full marks in every exam. At that time, I was still in the second day of junior high school, and I always had a heroic and tragic mood. Heroism is because I am a representative of math class, and my math scores are definitely higher. The sad mood is because my math is always inferior to his ... yes, for three years, my math score in the final exam has never been higher than his, and even his Chinese in the final exam has never been higher than mine, which can't save my sadness. What makes me even more indignant is that he said airily, "In fact, what I like best is physics." Me: ...
But this person is a little proud, and there is really nothing annoying. When I first met him, I thought he was a mobile encyclopedia. He knows when the Spring Festival Gala was founded and when the civilizations in the two river basins died out. He studied all kinds of guns, warships and Morse code. He is well versed in the history of World War II. He also likes Chopin, Mozart and Beethoven, and he can even recognize various constellations in the sky ... As mentioned earlier, 8th grade B ranks first in grade, which is grade seven. Every time the head teacher summarizes the results, he has a smile on his face. "This month's exam, students in our class C got the first place again ..."
Besides, he is actually a good man. I remember that the weather suddenly changed after a weekend tutorial. I didn't bring my umbrella, just as his father drove to pick him up, he invited me back. Don't get me wrong, my family lives close to his. Actually, I live near A, B and C, and it's only two or three minutes' walk.
At that time, we all liked to do homework at school and try to reduce the amount of homework left at home. Every time I finish writing about half, he leisurely puts away his homework. I was shocked and asked him, "Why do you write so fast?" He raised his eyebrows. "Because you haven't worked hard enough." Wait, wasn't that you I asked? ……
But he does work hard. The summer vacation from grade two to grade three is only two months. The teachers took a group of outstanding students in their eyes to make up for a month. The rest of the month, I completely let go of myself, and he went on to learn chemistry in grade three. It is not without reason that people are close to full marks in all subjects.
When D was in the fifth grade, he tutored English with me. At that time, he was as calm as a grown-up. I still remember that scene, the final exam of cram school. I am the only one in my class who got 100. He picked up my test paper and examined it very carefully, trying to find out the mistakes for me. However, every time I think of this scene, I can't help but feel sad. Obviously, when I was a child, I was not much different from him, and I was even lucky enough to say that I was a little better than him. Why should I send someone to Mars so far away from the earth?
He and I are not in the same junior high school, but my close friend is very friendly with him. She told me that D was injured in the second day of junior high school and would go home to rest for two months. Ordinary students go home to rest for two months, that is, most of them are two months. Unfortunately, his family lives near the school. Yes, after resting at home for two months, he still listened to the school bell and arranged classes and work and rest according to the school schedule and timetable. After two months, D returned to school smoothly, where did he rank in the exam? In high school, D also realized that his Chinese was a weakness. He always made mistakes in choosing words to fill in the blanks, so he recited idioms every night for two weeks, more than 300 times a day, until the teacher informed him to change the topic.
E is a girl I admire very much. Although she is thin and small, it always makes people feel that there is infinite energy in her body. In junior high school, she was not as dazzling as A, B and C, but she was the kind of person who worked silently. Her sweat dripped at her feet and slowly blossomed after going deep into the soil.
She really likes math. She got the second place in the college entrance examination and went to a top university in China to specialize in mathematics. In the second grade, she taught herself the mathematics of junior high school, and in the third grade, she began to study the mathematics of senior high school. On the contrary, she dared to openly desert in math class ... Anyway, her math was close to perfect score, and the teacher not only didn't criticize her, but also took care of her. She is also good at running. She is the only non-sports special student who represents the whole region in the city sports meeting.
F is an eccentric boy, who is "sophist" in the words of A. In the same English cram school with him in the third grade, he can always arouse a warm atmosphere and stir up the audience upside down, because he dares to think, do and speak, and is also persistent in asking questions from the teacher. My close friend and he are also good friends, and their parents are also very close. She told me that when she was in junior high school, she took an Olympic math class with F. He was always the first to finish all the questions and leave. After returning home, he continued to find difficult topics to practice.
In high school, F got full marks in mathematics again and again casually, but when he got home, he complained to his parents very grievance, "They will only say that I am smart, why can't they see my efforts?" ! "My heart suddenly flush a sour ... when can I be so wronged once.
In fact, the six top student mentioned above are just peeping leopards, and some top student are also very cute, so I won't go into details one by one because of the limited space.
Many people always think that boys who are good at math will be poor at Chinese and English. In fact, on the contrary, these top boys will not be bad in any subject. Their English is often very strong, but their Chinese is really weak, mainly because rational thinking dominates their minds, so some parts of Chinese that need to be understood and felt with sensibility are not as good as those of boys who are partial to sensibility, but only "weak" relative to their level, which is actually better than most. They are also proficient in history, more concerned about politics and have a clear understanding of geography. Most of them are close to full marks in physics, chemistry and biology. ...
Many people always think that students with good grades are pedantic, but the university tyrants I have contacted are not pedantic and interesting. They can even learn about geography through astronomy, talk about the international situation and trade wars, and also talk about entertainment stars and gossip.
I always thought that those students with good grades were arrogant and difficult to get close to. In fact, who doesn't have his proudest place? Everyone has his own rules for making friends. When you feel that the other person is arrogant and inaccessible from the bottom of your heart, how can the other person talk to you? I forgot where I saw an evaluation-"approachable", and they probably had a little meaning in it. They are polite, polite and well-educated, which can make everyone who comes into contact with them feel the spring breeze, but they also have their own rules of making friends, and not everyone can make friends with them.
Some time ago, the interview video of "the recruitment company directly throws away the resumes of students from non-985 schools" set off a wave of public opinion. As an ordinary student in an ordinary university, I looked at my classmates around me and sighed. Although I am very frustrated, I feel very calm when I think that they are such excellent people in the top universities in China.
Because I know exactly what kind of person this is.
The longer I spend with these lovely top student, the more I feel that they really deserve such generous treatment and respect. In my mind, top student has gradually changed from a word to a group of lively people with flesh and blood, and from a group of lively people with flesh and blood to a spirit.
Pursue Excellence and never give up. Aggressive and innovative. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.
What I advocate is having the courage to make such friends. When I was complacent about my small achievements, they made me suffer a little. I understand that there are such a powerful group of people in this world, so I can sink my heart and move on. Let me look at these shining people when I am frustrated. What efforts have they made for their dreams, how have they actively overcome setbacks, and why don't they continue to make great strides toward their goals?
When most of my classmates are only interested in games, entertainment stars or clothes, they are concentrating on mathematical modeling, Oscar movies and model United Nations. They undoubtedly opened the door to a new world for me and let me see more wonderful beyond my own limitations.
In the later life, I also want to cran my neck to see them from time to time, see what kind of posture they are running, and see where they are running in front of me. I don't want to imitate and follow blindly. I will learn everything they do, because each of us will take a different road in the future, but as long as I see them running hard, I feel more motivated and motivated.
I really like these top student people who can't help but have a boiling passion. I am eager to catch up and have a boiling passion. They let me see the people outside, the world beyond, so that I will not become a frog in the well. I thought I was the one who cried the loudest. I got carried away and forgot that I was still in a narrow well.
People often say, "look up at the stars and keep your feet on the ground." If you put them on me, maybe they are part of the shining stars in my sky. If I feel confused, I will look up at these people who are trying to shine. They are role models, goals, mentors and beautiful visions.
I often feel lucky because I met this group of people when I first met the world, and they had an indelible positive influence on me during my growth. These lovely top student people are my spiritual wealth. Even though I am not top student, I am actively responding to the spirit of top student, trying to keep up with them and trying to be a more "lovely" person.
Top student is really an indispensable lovely creature in this world.
Qingyang silver moon: 98 college student, sophomore majoring in finance, boasting of "businessmen's mind and literati's feelings". Personal WeChat official account: Qingyang silver moon, Weibo: @ Qingyang silver moon.
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