(1) Silent alienation.

A good way for adults to end a relationship is not to quarrel, but to stay away from you silently. The more you talk, the more reckless the other person will be, the more you will care, and the more energy you will consume.

Rotten people are rotten because you can't keep cleaning, and it will get worse and worse. In the end, ta will only haunt you, drag you into the land of eternal destruction and make you restless forever.

When you meet people with different aspirations, just pass by. Don't waste your life and time on meaningless people and things. It is better to leave quietly than to tear your face.

If something goes wrong, pat the dust on your body and turn around and leave immediately. This is a wise way to deal with it.

(2) Don't quarrel unnecessarily. Someone satirizes you. You responded sharply to him immediately. Someone looks down on you for no reason. You despise him at once. Someone is showing off in front of you. You immediately prove that you are better.

Listen, people you hate can easily turn you into someone you hate.

The more you argue with a person with different views and cognition, the more mistakes you make.

The more you explain, the more you irritate yourself. If you compete with such people, you will always be a loser.

Whether you concentrate on doing your own thing or dealing with some unimportant people determines what kind of life you live. Don't choke and forget the original intention of things and delay yourself.

③ Don't speak ill of ta behind his back.

Since you hate it, stay away. There is no need to speak ill of others behind their backs. Tell others to isolate ta and try to get everyone on your side.

In fact, no amount of words can change others. On the contrary, people will hate you because you do something that doesn't respect others' mouths.

Who is true and who is false, time distinguishes who is good and who is bad, and time screens whether the character is good or not. Time will reveal that there is no need to lose your character and lower your level in order to compete for this moment.

The height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you despise. In fact, being a man wins in the pattern and loses in the dispute.

4 go to a higher circle.

The biggest counterattack against annoying people is to step on his head harder than him and look down on him. When someone hurts you, it's not revenge but trying to surpass it. This is the value that their injuries bring to us.

Read this sentence:

"I would rather spend time cultivating my imperfect self than wasting time expecting perfect others."

Instead of being angry, it is better to live up to your expectations and strive to become a high-level person. When you escape from this level, you are not a level person, and he will never catch up with you. You don't have to argue with him, and you don't have a chance to contact him.

Focus on your own efforts and improve yourself. What you have is not only the improvement of ability and status, but also the broadening of life boundaries.

Don't care about annoying people

Someone once asked writer Yu Guangzhong, "What do you think of people who find fault with you and chase you every day?" Yu Guangzhong replied: "He scolded me and proved that he can't live without me; I ignore him, indicating that my life can be without him. "

On the road of life, the advanced way to deal with those who are difficult to walk with is to ignore them and not care whether their ridicule is as silent and powerless as cotton.

In the face of people who don't know themselves, you don't need to explain too much, learn to shut up properly. Playing dumb is also a kind of fulfillment.

No matter how you preach, you can't compare with the sentence "whatever you want", and no matter how you explain it, you can't compare with the sentence "let it go"

In the next time, keep "always competing with peers, not fools"

6. Leave others alone and be kind to yourself.

Mao Mu once said: "If a person becomes angry because of other people's stupidity, he will live in eternal anger all his life." . It is not worth punishing yourself with other people's mistakes all your life, causing internal friction.

It is better to live in the present than to dwell on what others think.

The more you care, the more proud he is. He cares too much about a person and will only hurt himself.

It's instinct to turn your back on someone who hates you, but it's skill to see through, leaving room for others and leaving yourself a way back.

Learn to be kind to yourself, forget what you should forget, put down what you should put down, and you will encounter a steady stream of surprises. Everything you meet is beautiful, and wherever you go, it will be smooth sailing. Let go of everything and life will be comfortable.