Enjoy one's life.
It doesn't matter if you have no friends, and it doesn't matter if you are alone.
Low-quality socializing is far less useful than improving yourself.
A really interesting person, even a person, will have many troops in his heart. After a day's school work, after dinner, I went to the library to read alone. It won't take long, as long as I can get something. Walking alone on the playground, don't worry, listen to the song and walk slowly, then go back to the dormitory to take a bath, change clothes, lie on the bed and play with your mobile phone for a while, and fall asleep slowly ... no worries, no fetters, that's enough. ......
2, no matter how good the body is, it is not as good as a regular life.
Sleep at 23 o'clock and get up at 6 o'clock. Early risers always feel that life is beautiful, optimistic and full of magic.
3, don't be modest, don't care about other people's eyes.
People with different views will not agree with you no matter what you do.
Go to the library to study and do what you want, no matter how much cynicism there is, you will become their own laughing stock at the moment you succeed. It's enough to be yourself, neither humble nor supercilious.
4, set a goal, concentrate, not greedy, do fine.
People's energy is limited. If you can do one thing to the extreme in four years of college, you will surpass 90% of your peers. Don't be so greedy and impatient, set yourself a bunch of goals, such as being a cadre, being a backbone, getting a scholarship, etc ... These goals are too vague. Once you encounter a little difficulty, you will forget these goals and just think about how to get rid of the immediate predicament and fall into a state of anxiety and confusion. In fact, it's all because I think too much and want to do everything well. In the end, I definitely didn't do anything well.
Don't stay in the dormitory all the time without strong self-control.
Dormitory is a degenerate greenhouse and a contradictory accumulation station. Try not to stay in the dormitory except sleeping. The comfortable atmosphere in the dormitory is really depraved. Whether reading books, learning English or watching videos, you will see the bed. Studying in the dormitory has no other benefits except hypnosis, and it may also attract cynicism from a group of people.
6. Be soft and decisive.
You can be enthusiastic, but you should also have a bottom line. Never hesitate when you should help, and refuse decisively when you should refuse. Otherwise, your bottomless efforts will only attract others to ask for it. The essence of social communication is value exchange, providing each other with value, thus constantly improving themselves.
7. Grasp 17 weeks before each semester.
In college, each semester is about 19 weeks. The last two weeks before the exam determine your four-year college grades, while the other 17 weeks determine the gap between you and others in the next decade.
8. Don't expect too much from your roommate, so you won't be so disappointed.
Even roommates who have lived together for four years may not be friends in the end. Everyone happens to come together from all corners of the country, so it is too difficult to meet a group of people with similar views and interests. Meeting is lucky, not meeting is normal. If you meet, please cherish this friendship; If you don't meet someone you don't like, please don't confront them. Just stay in the dormitory less. Go to the library and study room. In short, out of sight, out of mind.
9. Never put off what you can do today.
What can be started today must be put off until tomorrow, and what can be done tomorrow must be put off until the day after tomorrow, also known as: get ready. In fact, I didn't prepare anything, just wanted to postpone the start time. The longer I delayed, the more I didn't want to start, and finally I didn't make any changes. Thinking and doing are two different things. If you just want to do nothing, you might as well think nothing. Thinking too much will only increase your troubles. Don't give yourself a sense of ceremony, do it at once! Right now! Now! Let's go!
10, don't fake diligence.
Go to the library just to study, not to blow air conditioning and play mobile phones. Always take notes when reading, don't just copy the original text and underline it. Doing homework late at night is really homework, not copying answers all night. You don't have to deceive yourself with fake diligence. All the laziness you stole, the classes you skipped, the fat you didn't lose, and so on. It will cost you many times more when you need it. Even if it is, it can't be changed.
1 1. Go out of school and go to a bigger platform.
No matter how prosperous it is in school, it is always popular in school, and it will be crushed by life in a few minutes in society.
The talents needed by society are not the so-called "President Zhu", but truly capable people. It's not that these people are incompetent, but that what they learn in school is far from what they learn in society!
12. Admit the Excellence of others and accept your own imperfections.
You may be the best group of people in high school, but when you go to college, you will find excellent people everywhere. It doesn't matter, you know, in such a big world, there will always be people better than you, from high school to university, from university to society. You will only meet more and more excellent people, and you don't want to be surrounded by a group of diaosi who can do nothing! So, accept your own imperfections, accept your own ordinary, don't give yourself too much pressure, work hard and become better step by step!
13, it may not look good, but it must be clean.
The most important thing is not the lack of a good-looking face, but the lack of confidence caused by the lack of a good-looking face. In fact, you don't need to be handsome, as long as you can keep your face clean and fresh.
14, especially Bai Piao Party.
There will be no pie in the sky. If there is, it will fall off the plane. Dare you answer it?
15, don't look down on anyone.
Once you think a person is good enough for you to look up to, you will never reach his height. In fact, seniors are not as powerful as they thought. No matter how powerful the bosses are, they all come from ordinary people step by step. Don't look up, just go beyond them!
16, stay away from people who consume you in one direction.
Not only material consumption, but also growth consumption. Stay away from those idle people. Their appearance will subtly affect your attitude towards life and make you gradually indulge yourself and lose your desire to grow up.
17, don't pretend to be strong
Lie down and rest when you are tired, and shout out when you feel uncomfortable. We are people with flesh and blood and feelings. Only by excreting these negative emotions can we live and work better.
18, you can delay satisfying your own desires.
Those who can delay satisfaction must have a long-term vision and a larger pattern, and will not be blinded by petty profits. An American experiment concluded that people who know how to delay satisfaction will be happier and more successful in their later years. On the contrary, those who want to get feedback quickly and get everything done quickly will only become more and more anxious and will only be cut by life in the end.
19, do more painful things and less easy things.
Doing easy things all the time will only make you indulge in your comfort zone and dare not go out. It's great to play Tik Tok, but nothing will be left after playing, which will only make you feel guilty.
Doing more things that make you feel pain, getting out of your comfort zone and doing more things that make you feel pain will make you grow up several times faster than your peers.
20. You can make money with your hobby.
Making money with your hobby is completely different from selling your time and physical strength to make money. Even though you may not earn much, it will give you a sense of accomplishment. This feeling is much better than doing a summer job?
2 1, don't fall in love just to fall in love.
Falling in love is not something that universities have to do. There is no need to fall in love for the sake of falling in love. But if you really like someone, you have to chase them boldly. Don't worry about this and that. If you don't take the initiative, how can others know your mind? Of course, don't pester a person. Love is equal. If you are willing to lick the dog, this unequal love will not have a happy ending. Modesty, sincerity and responsibility are enough.
22. Don't persuade others to be good, and don't suffer others.
Teacher Guo once said: those who don't understand the situation and advise you to be generous, you should stay away from him. Because it may cause you trouble when it is unnecessary.
23. You can be afraid, but don't stop because you are afraid.
You can walk slowly or take another road. Hard work is inertia. Once it stops, there will be countless excuses to fall.
24. Even if you experience more pain, you will always maintain your love for life.
Those who can't kill you will make you stronger and stronger, and those who come out of the darkness will no longer be afraid of the darkness.
After experiencing loneliness, confusion and despair, and when you really get out of it, you can still maintain your love for life, so I'm afraid nothing can beat you.