Second, don't unrequited love college. Falling in love is no longer an arranged marriage of parents, but an eye-to-eye relationship between men and women. Only mutual consent is the most important thing. In a word, "consensual, no lawsuit." Generally, there are few college girls, and many girls are studying hard and don't want to fall in love. So even if a boy likes a girl very much, the girl doesn't respond. Then this boy must.
Third, deal with the problem of money. Even in society, men's contribution is generally higher than that of women. So is love in college, but now there are two situations worthy of boys' attention:
1: long-term meal ticket type. Indeed, when I was studying, few girls (other classes) still couldn't do it. Find a boy as a long-term meal ticket, usually choose Wenzhou boys, as long as the family conditions are good. Fortunately, I had little savings at that time except eating and playing video games by myself. Even adults know that love and material things are two different things, and love bought through money is not love. Find a senior * * *, there is no essential difference. Girls who really love you and care about you will not take the initiative to spend your money. They will not only help you save money seriously, but also pay for things to subsidize you. Of course, there are also some girls who take the initiative to please you first, spend a little money first, and then set you up with a large sum of money. Don't be cheated.
2.AA system, these girls are more rational. After all, love is equal, and they are not married. So when these girls take the initiative to adopt AA system, boys can be a little more polite. The so-called respect is not as good as obedience, but girls will be good to you. Fourth, the most important thing to learn from the rejected man is that he can't be simple, at least his appearance can be simple, but his brain can't be simple, at least he must be "smart as a fool." Don't be a fool. College boys are still in the period of physical and mental development, and their childish behavior is often unacceptable to girls. In love, men must be more mature than women when they pursue women. A person must be smart and sophisticated. If he is a handsome guy, it is that women chase men, but it is impossible in general, even if a girl likes a boy again. She just keeps hinting at boys, but rarely confesses directly to them. Of course, conversely, it seems common for boys to confess to girls. Of course, boys, remember one thing: confession does not mean acceptance, and rejection is normal, as long as you don't take it to heart. One more thing: confession can be multi-directional If rejected, it will develop in other directions. Anyway, as long as they don't know each other, who knows who you are going to find. After graduating from college, I was forced by my parents to go on a blind date. It takes at least 50 people to meet my current girlfriend. Some of them refused others, while others refused me. It is normal. Don't be unhappy after being rejected once. Maybe I did the same at first, but I got used to it after a few times. In fact, if you are rejected once, it means that you have another chance. Maybe a better girl is waiting for you in the back.
Verb (the abbreviation of verb) correctly treats the problem of sex. Now many men and women live together and don't get married, so does our school. This is sad, but it is a social phenomenon. As a boy, we should treat it correctly. My girlfriend is a nurse in obstetrics and gynecology. I remember just knowing her. After she learned that I worked in Ningbo Institute of Technology, she actually laughed at me and said that pairs of students often come to your school to have abortions. I'm really ashamed of myself. Fortunately, I immediately countered that your hospital did not implement the real-name registration system, and students from other schools must have faked our students to have an abortion. The quality of our science and engineering students is good ... as a cloud goes ... indeed, as lovers, we should pay attention to restraining ourselves during our study, especially boys, and not be too hard on girls. If something goes wrong, you not only have to spend money, but I'm afraid you can't bear to see girls suffer. .....
6. Keep a low profile on dating on campus. Even if you want to talk about it, you should pay attention to confidentiality. Don't make a fuss and affect other students. My Wenzhou brothers, waiting for MM, I later learned that they have been underground. Because of dating, there are successes and failures, so try to keep a low profile until the relationship is formally established. Don't take it too seriously. Besides, keeping a low profile helps you keep a good image of the sunshine. The fox preys farthest from home. Sometimes, it's easy to pursue girls outside, as long as it doesn't affect your daily life. Especially when you fall in love with girls in the same class and school, you should pay more attention to keeping a low profile!
Seven, pay attention to observe the words and observe the colors When college boys fall in love, the most important thing is to observe the words and observe the colors. Many times, it is easy to be thankless if you don't understand a girl's language. Generally speaking, boys and girls can get to know each other through mutual understanding. If it is interesting, smart people can read each other's meaning. In fact, it's very simple to ask a girl out. As long as you know her and leave a good impression on her, just ask her out to play, hold hands and kiss, and that's all. May I kiss you? If you ask this question, even if the woman likes you, she will resist you. Remember, I'd rather be slapped than asked this sentence. In addition, generally speaking, girls are quite civilized. If you don't like you, you have to break free. Of course, after rejection, don't bully the weak. Like a gentleman. It's not worth being sentenced for a woman.
8. Finding a university with the same personality hobbies and social love is still different in essence, which is why people who love each other may not get married. Falling in love in college is generally the same interest, and the purpose is not to get married. Although many little boys are psychologically eager to get married and accomplish lifelong events, don't forget that girls don't think so. They are more mature than you. They are experiencing their first love in life. In their minds, they are looking for a boy who has the same hobby as themselves, but they never want to marry you. Therefore, boys should compare their own advantages and disadvantages and choose girls with the same hobbies. There is no need to change yourself and do things you don't like for the girl you like. It's no use, something will go wrong sooner or later.
Love her, but don't spoil her. If a boy asks a girl to do something for herself, the girl will love him more. Remember, you can love her, but don't spoil her. You should give them some opportunities to do something to help themselves. Whether studying or living, women are naturally willing to do things for the man they love. Many times, boys just do things for girls, but girls don't pay attention to him. Love is like this, isn't it wonderful?
Ten, no money can be romantic.
Although I am a college student, although I have no job, although there is not much living expenses left after dinner, I can be romantic without money. To be sure, every woman has romantic potential. If she is really a dull boy, it really can't attract girls. If a boy finds the same girl, he doesn't have to spend money to take her to a fancy place outside. So boys just need to learn to send roses and write love letters, and create some romantic atmosphere for her from time to time.