First, change cognition. First of all, put yourself in a correct position, adjust your mentality, and think about whether you are willing to live a life that is rejected by everyone. Only when you are aware of your own problems can you be prepared to change, otherwise at best, you are doing a face-saving project, and people will only hate you more over time.
Second, say hello. I believe that no one will hate others because they say hello, so they will pull down their high faces and say hello to their roommates. When you come back from the outside, you can ask her in a joking way where she went and whether she was dating. When others go out, you can also ask where to play. Have fun. In fact, it should be very unaccustomed at first, but after a long time, it will naturally show friendliness. I believe that anyone with a good heart will be affected.
Third, learn to trouble others. The trouble here is actually asking for help. I believe that if you politely invite others to help you in life, no one will refuse, as long as others can. For example, you can ask your roommate to save you a seat and ask her to come back from outside and bring you something to eat. In short, think about what you can do before, and now you can ask someone to do it. Thank you in time after helping you, and express your heartfelt thanks with a sincere smile.
Fourth, actively participate in group activities. There are too many opportunities for cooperation in universities. Take dormitory hygiene appraisal activities as an example. Take the initiative to participate in everyone's meetings and put forward your own suggestions when placing and designing items. Of course, you can't feel serious or have to obey your orders. Listen to what others say first, raise your hand in favor of reasonable suggestions, and make unreasonable euphemistic suggestions. In short, let everyone think that you are one of them, and you are one of them. When you need to contribute your strength, you can't shirk it. Taking the initiative to help everyone will definitely win everyone's favor.
Five, take the initiative to help others, help people in trouble, is not only a virtue, but also a necessary quality for a person to succeed. If a person is willing to help others and is good at helping others, others will take the initiative to help him once he needs it. Helping others is helping yourself. Helping others can also greatly enhance their personality charm, win more people's goodwill and respect, and help others enthusiastically can also win friendship for themselves.